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Post by Elfen Lied on Dec 21, 2018 14:53:00 GMT
It's been a year and half after my last breakup and I am not still over it. 2 consecutive long-terms relationships, 4 years and 7 years, both of which ended in the same way, without any fault on my part. You know I thought that there couldn't be anything worse than waking up in the morning with the other person that just tells you "I am sorry, but I don't love you anymore" out of the blue.
Well I was wrong. Something worse can always happen and I realized it when the same thing happened to me again for a second time, even more unexpectedly.
Meh... what a sh*t!
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Post by dmc1001 on Dec 21, 2018 15:58:31 GMT
Haven't had a breakup in ages. I need to date more.
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Post by Red on Dec 21, 2018 16:58:12 GMT
I don’t really want to talk about this because it’s still raw but when Red left me for a twitch streamer called candy, it really upset me so much. Red was kind, tender, emotional and he loved to cry during movies like the Notebook. It was sooooo cute. But now he has chlamydia so swings and roundabouts. I am Arthur Morgan, don't forget that.
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Post by Coronavirus on Dec 21, 2018 17:31:40 GMT
I don’t really want to talk about this because it’s still raw but when Red left me for a twitch streamer called candy, it really upset me so much. Red was kind, tender, emotional and he loved to cry during movies like the Notebook. It was sooooo cute. But now he has chlamydia so swings and roundabouts. I am Arthur Morgan, don't forget that. Shut it Lenny
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Post by Coronavirus on Dec 21, 2018 18:01:00 GMT
So he viewed you as a sex object but you two didn't even have sex? Wait what? How does that work? Blow jobs. I couldn't have sex because I couldn't get pills and I swatted away any attempted he made just using a condom or putting it in my butt.
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Post by Red on Dec 21, 2018 18:18:44 GMT
I am Arthur Morgan, don't forget that. Shut it Lenny Don't talk to me like this Charles.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 21, 2018 20:26:12 GMT
I am Arthur Morgan, don't forget that. Shut it Lenny Dammit Rogue, Red finally found the strength to quit you and here you go, drawing him back in! He and Candy are doing just fine, why you gotta be like that??!!
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Post by Red on Dec 21, 2018 20:29:57 GMT
Dammit Rogue, Red finally found the strength to quit you and here you go, drawing him back in! He and Candy are doing just fine, why you gotta be like that??!! I wonder who is Candy. hahahaha
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Post by Deleted on Dec 21, 2018 20:33:00 GMT
Dammit Rogue, Red finally found the strength to quit you and here you go, drawing him back in! He and Candy are doing just fine, why you gotta be like that??!! I wonder who is Candy. hahahaha Shhhh....just roll with it. I find it's better if you just smile and nod.
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Post by Red on Dec 21, 2018 20:38:01 GMT
I wonder who is Candy. hahahaha Shhhh....just roll with it. I find it's better if you just smile and nod.
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Post by Red on Dec 21, 2018 20:56:40 GMT
I wish I could think like you.It isn't all that difficult ... all you need to do is live by the Mantra "Expect the worst, but hope for the best" This means LIVE by, not just pose or pretend or claim to. Hoping for the best means simply not giving up on your very slim chance at finding a decent person who will stand by you and be loyal, at least for a while. This is the easy part. Expecting the worst is the real trick, because it stings initially. Badly. You must accept the fact that people are basically awful, selfish, lustful, shallow beasts. You must let go of all the naive bullshit you've been indoctrinated with since you could walk about "romance", chivalry, true love, monogamy, marriage, all of it. For 95% of the population, these concepts are simply not realistic, especially in this contemporary society. We are all too self-important & narcissistic for any good, valuable relationship to happen to us. The reason is simply two things; our self-perpetuating egos & our constant desire for instant gratification. These aspects of modern life counter the values on which a strong relationship can be built on, which is already a long shot. Wake up kids. The dream is over. Time to get ready to die alone Oh & Happy Holidays!! Man...that's pessimist.
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Post by BamBam the Destroyer on Dec 21, 2018 21:27:12 GMT
So he viewed you as a sex object but you two didn't even have sex? Wait what? How does that work? Blow jobs. I couldn't have sex because I couldn't get pills and I swatted away any attempted he made just using a condom or putting it in my butt. Want to go out to dinner sometime?
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Post by officerdonnz on Dec 22, 2018 23:45:12 GMT
Well I can't really say I've had any break ups, you have to be in a relationship first. The closest I've gotten would be my 'on line relationship' that happened totally by accident. It started quite innocently as a request for a beta reader for my Star Wars fic if you can believe that. Then one thing lead to anther and for 11 months we were quite happy but I think we both knew it wasn't going to last and it didn't. We're still good friends and keep in regular contact. So I guess as break ups go it's pretty tame.
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Post by phoray on Dec 23, 2018 0:20:52 GMT
One time I broke up with a guy because he'd lied about smoking pot and then I found out. He called a week later to explain his heart break over us ending turned him to crack cocaine and that I should take responsibility. that escalated quickly.
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Post by Lavochkin on Dec 23, 2018 1:05:37 GMT
One time I broke up with a guy because he'd lied about smoking pot and then I found out. He called a week later to explain his heart break over us ending turned him to crack cocaine and that I should take responsibility. that escalated quickly. Now we know what to blame for the crack epidemic.
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Post by phoray on Dec 23, 2018 1:08:41 GMT
To continue that story ... Months later he hits me up on Myspace. I tell him I'm already seeing someone new and I'm not interested in resuming the relationship. His response was to say that was okay, he was cool with three ways. #escalated quickly
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Post by Lavochkin on Dec 23, 2018 1:36:41 GMT
To continue that story ... Months later he hits me up on Myspace. I tell him I'm already seeing someone new and I'm not interested in resuming the relationship. His response was to say that was okay, he was cool with three ways. #escalated quickly He was hungering for a spit roast.
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Post by House Targaryen on Dec 23, 2018 5:30:38 GMT
I don't remember the last break up, been a good many years. So in other words been single for a good many years. I take things very personal, especially when it deals with betrayal and I'm just not one to let things go that easy. We Scorpios are like that.
Been a member of the He-Man Woman Haters Club for a long time.
Been trying to leave it recently, not getting any younger.
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Post by nanotm on Dec 23, 2018 6:39:46 GMT
I don't remember the last break up, been a good many years. So in other words been single for a good many years. I take things very personal, especially when it deals with betrayal and I'm just not one to let things go that easy. We Scorpios are like that. Been a member of the He-Man Woman Haters Club for a long time. Been trying to leave it recently, not getting any younger. I honestly cant understand how someone that likes to stick it in birds can join the "I hate females club" I mean how does that work unless your a psycho who goes around violating them the only person your depriving is yourself all becasue you didnt pay attention and dated a slattern... I mean I get that but most people get revenge on betrayers by spending a few months trying to be a slapper in return, then they realise there lucky if there even getting bad sex any more and most of the local female population wont go near them due to their reputation.... me whenever I felt used and abused I always took riding advice from my teacher and tried to get back In the saddle as quickly as possible, I took advice from somewhere else about reading jilly cooper and mills n boon (do it in a safe place where no one could catch you) books because anything that obsessed about sex was going to give you hints and tips on what to do and how to do it properly... which in turn lead to more people being willing to get in the sack, especially once the first one had had given it a go.... I knew a few self obsessed idiots when I was first married who didnt understand that, they tended towards the better off single since hoes cant be trusted crowd all because they never figured out how to satisfy a bird (hint, it doesnt matter what your swinging if you dont know what your doing, there never going to like it) then there were the fellas like me who understood that even if you preferred not to have a relationship getting laid was easy if one of them found out you knew what you were doing (becasue girls are terrible gossips and will tell each other all about the ones who give god orgasms, sometimes they'll even go into minute details, and often to people who already know the guy there talking about especially if they turned him down... kinda like rubbing your nose in it) actually having a reputation like that when I met my wife almost caused us to break up a few times since she hated having to beat them all back and protect her claim every time we went out (it just made me want to screw her even more often) so yeah theres always plenty more fish in the sea and sometimes you even find the right one for you, but most of the easy bites are the same for everyone....
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Post by Reznore on Dec 23, 2018 7:46:50 GMT
The worst epic break up was with my first serious boyfriend. It was a really nice relationship, we were getting along great, he was adorable with me...started to figure out one year in the relationship, I was probably not in love with the guy. I tried to have the "perhaps we should break up" talk. It went badly, and I felt stupid and guilty because I didn't have any rational argument beyond I don't love you and I don't know why. I made a huge mistake I tried to think it through and be a "mature" person so I told myself relationships had up and downs and it was something you build up over time and it was probably all normal.
2 years passed after that, the relationship overall is still nice. From time to time, I try to bring up the perhaps we should break up and we're more friends than anything else. Boyfriend takes it very very badly each time and I chicken out. Now I'm boringly monogamous, so when I met someone I really liked and who liked me back ...I knew I had to dump first boyfriend for real.
It went poorly. Boyfriend cut himself up, went suicidal, was put on medication. I felt like shit, he never did me wrong. So we stay friends, and I try to help him a bit with his depression. Second huge mistake, it's quite obvious looking back he thinks we'll get back together eventually. Now he still tried to be his nice self, but it was all coated in heavy passive-agressiveness and co dependancy on both side. It went to the point one time he tried to lock me up in his appartment and I lost my cool and went Godzilla on his ass. After a year of dysfunctional friendship, he decided to cut off all contacts. But not before seeing me one last time, he got a bullet point list of everything that was wrong with me and for half a hour I had to listen to how I was a terrible manipulative man-breaking harlot of doom who totally ruined his confidence and his life. To be fair, I deserved some of it but it went overboard, went back home feeling like a leper and I'm still pissed off a decade later.
In my 20's I really struggled with love and relationships and how unfair and irrational it can be. I had worst relationships down the line, but that was the worst breakup. Also people are different when it comes to feelings, I talked with some women who just picked the nice guys with good jobs and make it work from here. I can't function like that, I either feel it or I don't and there's no bargaining.
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Post by nanotm on Dec 23, 2018 8:40:47 GMT
The worst epic break up was with my first serious boyfriend. It was a really nice relationship, we were getting along great, he was adorable with me...started to figure out one year in the relationship, I was probably not in love with the guy. I tried to have the "perhaps we should break up" talk. It went badly, and I felt stupid and guilty because I didn't have any rational argument beyond I don't love you and I don't know why. I made a huge mistake I tried to think it through and be a "mature" person so I told myself relationships had up and downs and it was something you build up over time and it was probably all normal. 2 years passed after that, the relationship overall is still nice. From time to time, I try to bring up the perhaps we should break up and we're more friends than anything else. Boyfriend takes it very very badly each time and I chicken out. Now I'm boringly monogamous, so when I met someone I really liked and who liked me back ...I knew I had to dump first boyfriend for real. It went poorly. Boyfriend cut himself up, went suicidal, was put on medication. I felt like shit, he never did me wrong. So we stay friends, and I try to help him a bit with his depression. Second huge mistake, it's quite obvious looking back he thinks we'll get back together eventually. Now he still tried to be his nice self, but it was all coated in heavy passive-agressiveness and co dependancy on both side. It went to the point one time he tried to lock me up in his appartment and I lost my cool and went Godzilla on his ass. After a year of dysfunctional friendship, he decided to cut off all contacts. But not before seeing me one last time, he got a bullet point list of everything that was wrong with me and for half a hour I had to listen to how I was a terrible manipulative man-breaking harlot of doom who totally ruined his confidence and his life. To be fair, I deserved some of it but it went overboard, went back home feeling like a leper and I'm still pissed off a decade later. In my 20's I really struggled with love and relationships and how unfair and irrational it can be. I had worst relationships down the line, but that was the worst breakup. Also people are different when it comes to feelings, I talked with some women who just picked the nice guys with good jobs and make it work from here. I can't function like that, I either feel it or I don't and there's no bargaining. so long as you understand what went wrong and didnt repeat the same mistakes then at least you can say you learnt something from it and move on from there... as to his actions towards the whole mess, it was never going to be pretty, and he was clearly in need of medicating before you met him, using you as a drug was never going to work
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Post by Deleted on Dec 23, 2018 23:35:37 GMT
I had a Solas-like breakup (minus threatening to destroy the world) that I still have trouble dealing with sometimes. Last year I thought I had met "the one" and he ended up using me with his real gf he pretended he didn't have just to humiliate me. Now I'm done with relationships for good. My heart can't take it anymore.
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Post by Lavochkin on Dec 24, 2018 1:28:52 GMT
I had a Solas-like breakup (minus threatening to destroy the world) that I still have trouble dealing with sometimes. Last year I thought I had met "the one" and he ended up using me with his real gf he pretended he didn't have just to humiliate me. Now I'm done with relationships for good. My heart can't take it anymore. You're making it a self-fulfilling prophecy of never being able to have a good relationship by obtaining from any and all relationships.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 24, 2018 1:45:35 GMT
I had a Solas-like breakup (minus threatening to destroy the world) that I still have trouble dealing with sometimes. Last year I thought I had met "the one" and he ended up using me with his real gf he pretended he didn't have just to humiliate me. Now I'm done with relationships for good. My heart can't take it anymore. You're making it a self-fulfilling prophecy of never being able to have a good relationship by obtaining from any and all relationships. Bitter would best describe it. For the moment I'm feeling this way, but you're right and closing myself off for good is not really the best solution overall.
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Post by Lavochkin on Dec 24, 2018 1:55:35 GMT
You're making it a self-fulfilling prophecy of never being able to have a good relationship by obtaining from any and all relationships. Bitter would best describe it. For the moment I'm feeling this way, but you're right and closing myself off for good is not really the best solution overall. Just weather the current storm you're in and view these bad experiences as good lessons on what to avoid on the road to future good relationship(s). And I'm always right.
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