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Post by Tarek on Aug 27, 2016 21:44:55 GMT
Hi guys I just want to ask have you ever been in love .... if yes how could you tell I mean how can you REALLY tell if you in love with someone !?? plz share, after watching so many romantic stuff all my life I think I'm missing something : / im almost 31 years old and it never happened to me or is it so "normal" that most people mistake it for true love??!! I mean like lust or something plz explain EARTHLINGS
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Post by OneWomanArmy on Aug 27, 2016 21:56:11 GMT
Eternal Phoenex is that you?.., if not... I have 3 more more guesses....
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Post by mousestalker on Aug 27, 2016 22:16:06 GMT
Sorry, it's a rule of the internet that it be posted when someone asks the question...
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Post by fchopin on Aug 27, 2016 22:16:09 GMT
Hey Tarek, nice to see you back.
You can tell you was in love by the amount of time it takes to get over it.
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Post by Serza on Aug 27, 2016 22:17:45 GMT
I don't really think you can explain that, mate...
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Post by CrutchCricket on Aug 27, 2016 22:22:53 GMT
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Post by Terminator Force on Aug 27, 2016 22:40:36 GMT
I don't really think you can explain that, mate... Sure you can. It's when you start acting all weird around the one you love for the first while. And if you two have never been introduced, then good luck trying to figure that out because there's too much pressure not to screw it up.
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Post by Inquisitor Recon on Aug 27, 2016 22:44:32 GMT
The real Tarek is long dead.
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Post by Serza on Aug 27, 2016 22:54:18 GMT
I don't really think you can explain that, mate... Sure you can. It's when you start acting all weird around the one you love for the first while. And if you two have never been introduced, then good luck trying to figure that out because there's too much pressure not to screw it up. That... does actually sound a lot like love.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 27, 2016 23:26:58 GMT
I think everyone has their own idea of what love is and what some call love, others might call a crush, lust or an obsession. Personally, I think it's love when you get giddy around another person without losing yourself, the physical attraction develops gradually from getting to know the person and not from an instant 'sha-wing' of desire and you have a genuine intrest in making that person happy because you're aware of their feelings and not because you want to push your ideas of what should make that person happy. If you really love someone, being with them should be a delight, but you should also be able to accept your differences without long term resentments. Being in love is probably the most confusing state you could ever be in, but if you can maintain your intrest, respect and affection for that person, then it's all good. Difficult, but good....Ok....enough of the sappy shit, don't make me go there again!
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Post by Deleted on Aug 27, 2016 23:28:49 GMT
First off, the question you should be asking is the difference between infatuation and love.
The difference between infatuation vs love is that infatuation is a short-lived passion for someone whereas love is a deep affection for someone that lasts the test of time. The problem is that infatuation is a powerful feeling that can make you think you are in love.
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Post by Clyde on Aug 27, 2016 23:29:29 GMT
It's when she makes your pee pee stands up.
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Post by Serza on Aug 27, 2016 23:31:01 GMT
Oh, and hearing something similar to their voice gives you goosebumps. The good kind.
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Post by Serza on Aug 27, 2016 23:32:37 GMT
It's when she makes your pee pee stands up. That's just bodily attraction, but whatever swings your Dalton.
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Post by Gileadan on Aug 27, 2016 23:34:56 GMT
I can tell when the condition as formulated by Robert A. Heinlein is met:
"Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own... "
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Post by Deleted on Aug 27, 2016 23:48:37 GMT
ENJOY THIS COMPARISON CHART. | Infatuation | Love | Definition | Infatuation is the state of being completely lost in the emotion of unreasoning desire. | An intense feeling of deep affection. | Symptoms | Urgency, intensity, sexual desire, anxiety, high risk choices, reckless abandonment of what was once valued. | Faithfulness, loyalty, confidence. Willingness to make sacrifices for another. Working at settling differences. Able to compromise so that either both win or at least give the other person's opinion a chance.
| Person to Person | Reckless commitment to satisfy one's all consuming lust. | Commitment to another. Genuine intentions. Think about other person's feelings before acting.
| Feels Like | All-consuming euphoria similar to recreational drug use (addictive chemical reactions in the brain), stupidity (cupidity). Can risk everything for the next hit of adrenalin. | A deep affection, contentment, confidence. Partners communicate and negotiate appropriate expectations. Requires a lot of selflessness and polite assertiveness. You are loving your best friend. | Result | Emptiness, consequences of choices made while under the influence of mind numbing temporary lust. | Security, peace, a solid partnership which can provide the ideal atmosphere to raise confident, secure children. | Effect | Being controlled by brain chemistry, not the heart, loss of ability to make rational evaluations of what is true, valuable and worthy. | Contentment, stability. | Interdependency | Cannot be sustained without some portion of love and physical attraction. Desire to be always close to that person at any cost. | Partnership. Can lead to codependency if not tempered with self-awareness and self-guidedness. | Time Period | Takes off fast and furious like a spark in dry grass burns out quickly and can leave feelings of emptiness. | It will deepen with the passage of time. | Commitment | This is temporary in life and goes off after some period. | This feeling may continue throughout one's life. | Bottom Line | Infatuation is delusional. Not real. | Love is unconditional and the real deal. | Patience | Infatuation is of the now. | Love is a gradual process. It happens over time. |
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Post by Serza on Aug 27, 2016 23:49:12 GMT
Give that man a medal.
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Post by Reznore on Aug 27, 2016 23:53:18 GMT
It feels like Spring.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 27, 2016 23:57:59 GMT
(Means I have literally no gosh dang clue!)
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Post by LightningPoodle on Aug 27, 2016 23:58:23 GMT
Love can be torturous, yet we all want to find it.
For me, love is... Love is knowing that other person is happy. When they are happy, you're happy. Doesn't matter why they are happy. Simply knowing something has put a smile on their face puts one on yours and it feels wonderful.
Love is the little things, like simply waiting for them without a word. Could be hours. You still wait. But it's also the big things, like willingness to move across oceans to be with them, without even batting an eyelid.
Love is looking past the things that might strain a relationship, like young children. Love is the willingness and preparedness to take on things like that.
And ultimately, it sucks when that other person can't return what you want. But, you continue to love them, because they're already deep inside that weird thing we call a heart.
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Post by Nightman on Aug 28, 2016 0:03:47 GMT
Yes, cuz Liara happened.
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Post by Inquisitor Recon on Aug 28, 2016 0:33:08 GMT
Responding seriously to a Tarek thread?
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Post by Terminator Force on Aug 28, 2016 0:40:32 GMT
ENJOY THIS COMPARISON CHART. | Infatuation | Love | Definition | Infatuation is the state of being completely lost in the emotion of unreasoning desire. | An intense feeling of deep affection. | Symptoms | Urgency, intensity, sexual desire, anxiety, high risk choices, reckless abandonment of what was once valued. | Faithfulness, loyalty, confidence. Willingness to make sacrifices for another. Working at settling differences. Able to compromise so that either both win or at least give the other person's opinion a chance.
| Person to Person | Reckless commitment to satisfy one's all consuming lust. | Commitment to another. Genuine intentions. Think about other person's feelings before acting.
| Feels Like | All-consuming euphoria similar to recreational drug use (addictive chemical reactions in the brain), stupidity (cupidity). Can risk everything for the next hit of adrenalin. | A deep affection, contentment, confidence. Partners communicate and negotiate appropriate expectations. Requires a lot of selflessness and polite assertiveness. You are loving your best friend. | Result | Emptiness, consequences of choices made while under the influence of mind numbing temporary lust. | Security, peace, a solid partnership which can provide the ideal atmosphere to raise confident, secure children. | Effect | Being controlled by brain chemistry, not the heart, loss of ability to make rational evaluations of what is true, valuable and worthy. | Contentment, stability. | Interdependency | Cannot be sustained without some portion of love and physical attraction. Desire to be always close to that person at any cost. | Partnership. Can lead to codependency if not tempered with self-awareness and self-guidedness. | Time Period | Takes off fast and furious like a spark in dry grass burns out quickly and can leave feelings of emptiness. | It will deepen with the passage of time. | Commitment | This is temporary in life and goes off after some period. | This feeling may continue throughout one's life. | Bottom Line | Infatuation is delusional. Not real. | Love is unconditional and the real deal. | Patience | Infatuation is of the now. | Love is a gradual process. It happens over time. |
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Post by Deleted on Aug 28, 2016 0:53:07 GMT
I'm not just any other grill. I USE PROPANE. NOT THAT CHARCOAL BULLSHIT.
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Post by Serza on Aug 28, 2016 1:42:12 GMT
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