[GUIDE] Bhelen or Harrowmont - Who should rule Orzammar? Paragon of her kind

This was always a tough choice for me. In my first playthrough my warden was a Cousland and Harrowmont seemed the more honourable of the two so i chose him. But knowing the endings for each choice makes it all more difficult and more interesting as both the characters are not entirely good or bad but something in the middle. 
Regarding my dwarves, my Brosca chose Bhelen to garantee his sister well being and safety and my Aeducan felt betrayed by her brother and joined forces with Harrowmont.
For my Cousland, my Amell and my Mahariel i chose Harrowmont because for outsiders Harrowmont methods may seem less shady compared with Bhelen`s methods.
For my Tabris i chose Bhelen because having lived in the Alienage all her life she empathise with the casteless and Bhelen seems the best option to improve their conditions.