Why no gay aliens for Male Ryder?

You are not the only one.. See this thread: bsn.boards.net/thread/3634/character-romance-thread-official?page=1039

I only noticed a hint at homo turian Spectre, though I'm still playing the game

But man oh man, did they ever show male/male romances from a bad side with that turian pathfinder. I mean, it's one thing to feel emotionally attached to your lover/partner, but when you're a highly trained professional, who's responsible for thousands of lives with heavy military background and you're willing to quit everything and become a low-life loser just cause your top was K.I.A.'d on a highly dangerous mission that he was prepared to give his life.. it makes you look like an emotionally unstable chompski dweeb

I mean sure, aliens arent robots (well not all aliens)

But he's been talking about that guy for like days on straight, and that's the only thing he focused on during dialogues, I mean sheesh, are you a spectre or a schoolgirl in love? In my mind it almost paints gay people as incapable of dealing with their emotions until getting motivated to do the right thing. And it'd be a totally different if he just came around on his own and took the job, but he needs coaxing! Like, srsly? Ryder's dad died and he got no choice and this guy acts like a total pansy and can ditch on the survival of his race in the new galaxy unless I sweet talk him into it? IDK...

No, I don't want the only openly gay alien guy in the entire game to be an emotional catastrophe when he's being held responsible for the survival of his species. It just gives a bad impression

That's exactly part of the problem. 85% of his dialogue pre-becoming Pathfinder is about how he cares for this maecius guy, and it's not subtle at all, and really hammers the point that he's gay. But then if he becomes a Pathfinder, it's like he's a totally different and confident character. There's only one line dialogue about it, I think. Alternatively he just becomes a mess freelancer on oultaw desert planet and is very apathetic about his entire species. I accidently made the wrong move by not forcing him to become the pathfinder, under the impression that you have to let the guy cope with the emotional trauma and let him choose it on his own terms, but NOPE! And it really fucked up my game and I had to reload and waste 2 hours cause I made the wrong decision by thinking Bioware can write an emotionally intelligent homosexual character.

Also on the neon jungle planet. And 85% of his dialogue PRE-BECOMING Pathfinder, as I've said, he becomes a pretty chill guy afterwards. Almost as if he was written by two diffenret people or something lol