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Post by Deleted on Apr 27, 2017 14:58:48 GMT
So when's the second date advice thread? I can help you pick some sexy outfits 👌
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Post by Treacherous J Slither on Apr 27, 2017 15:11:24 GMT
Wear something comfortable but make sure that you look good and smell good.
Get drinks instead of coffee. Who the phuq gets coffee on a date?
Offer to split the bill or say that you'll get the next one.
Invite her to your place afterwards.
Phuq the brains out of her.
You're welcome.
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Post by Doctor Fumbles on Apr 27, 2017 15:13:56 GMT
Hey, apparently it's the clever people who don't start dating early. I can sympathize. Where did you get that data from? I looked online, and I can't find any articles on it. Edit: Never mind, I found one, I had to change the wording a little bit. |
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Post by Treacherous J Slither on Apr 27, 2017 15:16:24 GMT
Oh, almost forgot
Make sure to rub one out to completion before you leave the house.
It will help calm down your nerves.
Try to time it so that you're still in your post climax glow when the booze starts kicking in.
Everything will just flow naturally with that.
Trust me.
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Post by Serza on Apr 27, 2017 15:30:54 GMT
Hey, apparently it's the clever people who don't start dating early. I can sympathize. Where did you get that data from? I looked online, and I can't find any articles on it. Edit: Never mind, I found one, I had to change the wording a little bit. Can't rightly link you. Came up in my Facebook (yes, I use the thing) feed, and it was one of those citations, so yup. |
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Post by Arijon van Goyen on Apr 27, 2017 15:48:37 GMT
Well my spine is quite eroded and weak and is like 50 years olds. It's like it has decreased my chance by 75%.
I had almost made it into a good level of trust and liking to very top girls (almost model-tier) more than a dozen times in the last 10 years. But whenever they realized my weakness and uselessness in physical jobs (because who wants to marry someone who can't pick up items heavier than 25 KG despite he looking athletic?) they avoided me or only kept the relationship professional or something like that.
So you're being disabled? You should expect a 90% decrease in your chances. Well, at least you can make friends. It's better than nothing. Don't forget that books are your best friends tho. Maybe someday the medical science can heal us... cheap.
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Post by Treacherous J Slither on Apr 27, 2017 15:57:47 GMT
I am 28 years old, and I still have not dated anyone. 21 is nothing. Dood...what?! Why? Are...are you a virgin? |
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Post by Doctor Fumbles on Apr 27, 2017 16:05:45 GMT
I am 28 years old, and I still have not dated anyone. 21 is nothing. Dood...what?! Why? Are...are you a virgin? Yes. I never put much stock in society and its expectations. I would rather be myself and do things the way I see fit instead of following the crowd. |
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Post by Treacherous J Slither on Apr 27, 2017 17:45:31 GMT
Nothing wrong with that.
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Post by spacetime on May 21, 2017 22:16:45 GMT
Thanks for the advice, everyone! (Some more than others.  ) We went on a couple dates. I asked if she was okay with just being friends, and she said yes.  We really get along, but I just don't think we're romantically compatible. (A big part of it is that I'm more interested in romance, and she's more interested in sex, but there's a couple other things.) Not to be too cliche, but I really think we'll be better friends. I'm going out of town for a while, but we're going to hang out and play video games when I get back. |
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Post by Serza on May 22, 2017 13:10:18 GMT
As long as it worked out somehow, I guess.
I fully support your view on the situation. Need more people like that, IMHO.
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Post by Qui-Gon GlenN7 on May 23, 2017 11:59:30 GMT
Well my spine is quite eroded and weak and is like 50 years olds. It's like it has decreased my chance by 75%. I had almost made it into a good level of trust and liking to very top girls (almost model-tier) more than a dozen times in the last 10 years. But whenever they realized my weakness and uselessness in physical jobs (because who wants to marry someone who can't pick up items heavier than 25 KG despite he looking athletic?) they avoided me or only kept the relationship professional or something like that. So you're being disabled? You should expect a 90% decrease in your chances. Well, at least you can make friends. It's better than nothing. Don't forget that books are your best friends tho. Maybe someday the medical science can heal us... cheap. Mr Sunny Side. Ignore this guy. He hasn't a clue, talks about "top girls" as if such a thing existed. His first post, and second, are excellent examples of things to avoid in yourself and others. So aesthetic.... If you had a stronger back, you could be friends with Vegasflash there Artanus. |
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Post by Morrigan on May 23, 2017 23:22:08 GMT
I have my first first date this week.  I know, I can't believe it either. (I know 21's a bit late to start dating, but I didn't come out until I was almost 20. Also, I'm super shy and my version of flirting is staring at my shoes and smiling stupidly.) She asked me out to coffee, so it's just a nice, casual date, but I'm still nervous as hell. What do I wear? Are nice jeans and a t-shirt too casual? Is a dress shirt too formal? What do I talk about? (I know she loves BioWare, so at least we have that in common.) Do I offer to pay for her, or is that insulting? What is coffee date etiquette?  Don't overthink things. Don't worry about keeping the conversation flowing uninterrupted; Allow yourself breaks if you feel nervous. Don't think about what comes next. Try to enjoy the moment. If it doesn't work out, you will at least have dipped your toe in the water. Next time will be easier. If your eyes keep falling to the floor, I have a trick for you. Look at your shoes and then look straight back into the girls eyes. Allowing your eyes to flutter just shows that you are into her. She will be happy to know that she can make you a little uncomfortable  |
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Post by Link"Guess"ski on May 24, 2017 1:39:15 GMT
If you're a man dating a girl: Conviction. Give her the impression that you're sure you're going to win her heart. Don't be slimy, just do the casual talking, ask the life-questions, but make her feel so that she can sense she's being valued. It will make her feel respected. If you're a girl dating a man: Don't be afraid to poke back a little bit. The man likes to win you over, and you'll show him that you're not just going to be swept away right away. That's the most "normal" man-women dynamic. Then there's the matter of whether you're very extrovert or introvert. Just being yourself works too, but I find that if I'm just being respectful or friendly I get friendzoned very fast which can be cozy too, but on a date you kinda want a bit more out of it I'm not very good at this personally, but I find my favorite people to be around are good at adjusting if you don't act completely open or extroverted. They'll try their usual thing but if they sense you're a bit shy or unconfident instead of making it awkward they seem to be able to level with you anyway. It's hard to be flexible like that. Accept if this first date is kind of awkward. Accept if it ends up feeling like a failure, but always believe you'll get the best out of the day when you're about to attend another date Oh, almost forgot Make sure to rub one out to completion before you leave the house. It will help calm down your nerves. Try to time it so that you're still in your post climax glow when the booze starts kicking in. Everything will just flow naturally with that. Trust me. Eeehh,, errrr, this is complete bullshit in my opinion but then again I've had issues with anxiety. I'm always 40% more anxious the rest of the day after rubbing it off. I feel drained and guilty and if I'm about to see someone and I've just done it, I feel like they'll "find out" as illogical as that is. It's not gonna work for anyone. |
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Post by spacetime on May 24, 2017 1:49:50 GMT
If you're a man dating a girl: Conviction. Give her the impression that you're sure you're going to win her heart. Don't be slimy, just do the casual talking, ask the life-questions, but make her feel so that she can sense she's being valued. It will make her feel respected. If you're a girl dating a man: Don't be afraid to poke back a little bit. The man likes to win you over, and you'll show him that you're not just going to be swept away right away. That's the most "normal" man-women dynamic. Then there's the matter of whether you're very extrovert or introvert. Just being yourself works too, but I find that if I'm just being respectful or friendly I get friendzoned very fast which can be cozy too, but on a date you kinda want a bit more out of it I'm not very good at this personally, but I find my favorite people to be around are good at adjusting if you don't act completely open or extroverted. They'll try their usual thing but if they sense you're a bit shy or unconfident instead of making it awkward they seem to be able to level with you anyway. It's hard to be flexible like that. Accept if this first date is kind of awkward. Accept if it ends up feeling like a failure, but always believe you'll get the best out of the day when you're about to attend another date Oh, almost forgot Make sure to rub one out to completion before you leave the house. It will help calm down your nerves. Try to time it so that you're still in your post climax glow when the booze starts kicking in. Everything will just flow naturally with that. Trust me. Eeehh,, errrr, this is complete bullshit in my opinion but then again I've had issues with anxiety. I'm always 40% more anxious the rest of the day after rubbing it off. I feel drained and guilty and if I'm about to see someone and I've just done it, I feel like they'll "find out" as illogical as that is. It's not gonna work for anyone. Well, thanks for the advice. But I'm a lesbian... not really interested in man-woman dynamics. |
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Post by spacetime on May 24, 2017 1:52:49 GMT
Well my spine is quite eroded and weak and is like 50 years olds. It's like it has decreased my chance by 75%. I had almost made it into a good level of trust and liking to very top girls (almost model-tier) more than a dozen times in the last 10 years. But whenever they realized my weakness and uselessness in physical jobs (because who wants to marry someone who can't pick up items heavier than 25 KG despite he looking athletic?) they avoided me or only kept the relationship professional or something like that. So you're being disabled? You should expect a 90% decrease in your chances. Well, at least you can make friends. It's better than nothing. Don't forget that books are your best friends tho. Maybe someday the medical science can heal us... cheap. Mr Sunny Side. Ignore this guy. He hasn't a clue, talks about "top girls" as if such a thing existed. His first post, and second, are excellent examples of things to avoid in yourself and others. So aesthetic.... If you had a stronger back, you could be friends with Vegasflash there Artanus. Yeah, I wasn't going to respond. I understand that pain makes you bitter. I'm a lot more cynical than I was when I was healthy. But from the sneak peak he gave of his personality, I'm going to say that his problems with dating have to due with a lot more than his health. |
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Post by Treacherous J Slither on May 24, 2017 11:04:06 GMT
If you're a man dating a girl: Conviction. Give her the impression that you're sure you're going to win her heart. Don't be slimy, just do the casual talking, ask the life-questions, but make her feel so that she can sense she's being valued. It will make her feel respected. If you're a girl dating a man: Don't be afraid to poke back a little bit. The man likes to win you over, and you'll show him that you're not just going to be swept away right away. That's the most "normal" man-women dynamic. Then there's the matter of whether you're very extrovert or introvert. Just being yourself works too, but I find that if I'm just being respectful or friendly I get friendzoned very fast which can be cozy too, but on a date you kinda want a bit more out of it I'm not very good at this personally, but I find my favorite people to be around are good at adjusting if you don't act completely open or extroverted. They'll try their usual thing but if they sense you're a bit shy or unconfident instead of making it awkward they seem to be able to level with you anyway. It's hard to be flexible like that. Accept if this first date is kind of awkward. Accept if it ends up feeling like a failure, but always believe you'll get the best out of the day when you're about to attend another date Oh, almost forgot Make sure to rub one out to completion before you leave the house. It will help calm down your nerves. Try to time it so that you're still in your post climax glow when the booze starts kicking in. Everything will just flow naturally with that. Trust me. Eeehh,, errrr, this is complete bullshit in my opinion but then again I've had issues with anxiety. I'm always 40% more anxious the rest of the day after rubbing it off. I feel drained and guilty and if I'm about to see someone and I've just done it, I feel like they'll "find out" as illogical as that is. It's not gonna work for anyone. So you're an adult and you're still uncomfortable with masturbation? Is that because of your anxiety? |
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Post by spacetime on May 24, 2017 14:59:54 GMT
If you're a man dating a girl: Conviction. Give her the impression that you're sure you're going to win her heart. Don't be slimy, just do the casual talking, ask the life-questions, but make her feel so that she can sense she's being valued. It will make her feel respected. If you're a girl dating a man: Don't be afraid to poke back a little bit. The man likes to win you over, and you'll show him that you're not just going to be swept away right away. That's the most "normal" man-women dynamic. Then there's the matter of whether you're very extrovert or introvert. Just being yourself works too, but I find that if I'm just being respectful or friendly I get friendzoned very fast which can be cozy too, but on a date you kinda want a bit more out of it I'm not very good at this personally, but I find my favorite people to be around are good at adjusting if you don't act completely open or extroverted. They'll try their usual thing but if they sense you're a bit shy or unconfident instead of making it awkward they seem to be able to level with you anyway. It's hard to be flexible like that. Accept if this first date is kind of awkward. Accept if it ends up feeling like a failure, but always believe you'll get the best out of the day when you're about to attend another date Eeehh,, errrr, this is complete bullshit in my opinion but then again I've had issues with anxiety. I'm always 40% more anxious the rest of the day after rubbing it off. I feel drained and guilty and if I'm about to see someone and I've just done it, I feel like they'll "find out" as illogical as that is. It's not gonna work for anyone. So you're an adult and you're still uncomfortable with masturbation? Is that because of your anxiety? Everyone's relationship with sex is different. I'm not uncomfortable, but that advice doesn't work for me either because I'm demisexual. I'm not sex repulsed, but I don't have much of an interest in sex. (For me sex is just one way to be intimate with someone you love. I know not everyone feels that way, and that's okay too.) |
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Post by Treacherous J Slither on May 24, 2017 16:52:04 GMT
So you're an adult and you're still uncomfortable with masturbation? Is that because of your anxiety? Everyone's relationship with sex is different. I'm not uncomfortable, but that advice doesn't work for me either because I'm demisexual. I'm not sex repulsed, but I don't have much of an interest in sex. (For me sex is just one way to be intimate with someone you love. I know not everyone feels that way, and that's okay too.) Wow i didn't even know that demisexual was a thing. I've heard of asexual but not that. Live and learn. |
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Post by Galactic Runner on May 24, 2017 23:46:30 GMT
I'm glad it ended up being a positive outcome for you, spacetime. Keep at it, and I'm sure you'll find someone special soon!
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) We went on a couple dates. I asked if she was okay with just being friends, and she said yes. 
We really get along, but I just don't think we're romantically compatible. (A big part of it is that I'm more interested in romance, and she's more interested in sex, but there's a couple other things.) Not to be too cliche, but I really think we'll be better friends. I'm going out of town for a while, but we're going to hang out and play video games when I get back. 
I know, I can't believe it either. 
