What did you do today in DA? [Spoilers]

I reasoned my Surana was super anti slavery (well, she's super pro freedom) and killed both the elven guard slaver and the mage slaver; which you can avoid both killings if you want. Then, zomg, there was Cauthrien right before the Landsmeet saying all the torture and selling of flesh was all justified (I'd always persuaded her to back down so never got this speech, but went with intimidate this time, because that is how my Surana rolls.) Cauthrien must be in  love with Loghain that she would take his words so into herself that they became her own. So, apparently intimidate doesn't work, and that leads to battle. I do not have any remorse over that slave apologist. So, you would think that this whole feeling would carry on over into killing Loghain but this Surana just found it hard to hate the paranoid man. Kinda obvious that he was a bit off his rocker. And then Riordan stepped forward about their being "compelling reasons" for making him into a Grey Warden, and there was no reason to be suspicious of the Senior Grey Warden was there? So, when my Surana said, maybe it's a good idea, Alistair threw a fit, saying he'd leave the Grey Wardens. My Surana paused and realized, sadly, that if she wanted to protect her new brother, telling him to leave...to stay away from the battle lines... was a good idea. Even if it made their sibling like relationship break, Alistair would be safe.

Paraphrase:
Riordan: Let's make him a Warden.
Surana: uh, why would I do that?
Riordan: compelling reasons I can't tell you right now.
Alistair: Loghain sucks, this is a terrible idea.
Surana: I dunno, Alistair. Riordan has "compelling reasons."
Alistair: Wardens are for honorable people. Loghain is not.
Surana: *mild feelings of shame* Not all of us have a spotless track record, Alistair. (My Surana has almost annulled a circle and killed the Dalish elves. And used blood magic to replace mana. Also, totally not gung ho about the Wardens.)
Alistair: What Loghain did isn't the same as the little stains of our past. 
Anora: Alistair is a child- he sucks. We need Loghain alive.
Alistair: I will become king and kill Loghain.
Anora: See, a big baby. Just let me be Queen.
Surana: Uh... I thought both of you should marry, we totally had that conversation before the Landsmeet. It'll mellow both of you out.
Alistair:What! ...Fine. I'm leaving the Grey Wardens to go be King then.
Surana: *hurts to hurt him, already faltering in her decision* You don't have to leave us, Alistair.
Alistair: *Quiet, sad.* Yes, I do You left me no choice. I’m sorry.

--------Which, In a way, Surana may have made a different decision at this point. But the game commits you to Joining Loghain really really early on in the conversation. -----

Paraphrase Post Landsmeet conversation:
Angriest Angry Alistair Ever: Come to throw me a party?
Surana: I don't want this to affect our friendship.
Alistair: ANGRY SPEECH ABOUT WHY LOGHAIN SHOULD DIE.
Surana: I don't want to talk about Loghain *I just want to make us okay again.*
Alistair: Too fucking bad. But I guess I'm king now and I'll suck it up and make the best of it... *quiets down, get's sad sounding* Good luck, I suppose. We both have important things to do away from each other.

*Surana runs to Zevran and bawls  -in my head-*