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DomeWing333 : The main point of this vid isn't so much Mr. Peterson's opinion, but Helen's painfully obvious lack of one. She is a perfect example of how asinine 3rd wave feminism can be. He says something along the lines of; If you're so worried about the oppression of other women, since you're CLEARLY not oppressed (but entitled), you are morally obligated to make sacrifice of your luxuries in some form. Her answer: "I don't want to" Sorry, but this is much too ubiquitous & accepted in western society as an "intellectual woman's" attitude. It's pathetic & disgusting. You know it & I know it. If you're really that angry and worked up about unfairness, take action. Do something about the social injustices around you other than complaining about it... or close your mouth
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I don't really get what this thread is about.
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Post by Giant Ambush Beetle on Dec 6, 2018 12:02:37 GMT
I don't really get what this thread is about. It derailed hard somewhere in the last couple dozen pages, take a look at the first page of this thread to get what it is meant for.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 15, 2018 6:01:27 GMT
Just to take this thread away from the topic of feminism, have any of you guys suffered from depression? I've been suffering from a mild to moderate kind since my boyfriend broke up with me in October. How long did you suffer? What did you do to resolve it? I've been talking to a friend in order to resolve it, along with antidepressants, exercise, and some counseling.
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Post by ArcadiaGrey on Dec 15, 2018 7:20:31 GMT
I don't really get what this thread is about. It derailed hard somewhere in the last couple dozen pages, take a look at the first page of this thread to get what it is meant for. Indeed, let's try to get it back on track. Just to take this thread away from the topic of feminism, have any of you guys suffered from depression? I've been suffering from a mild to moderate kind since my boyfriend broke up with me in October. How long did you suffer? What did you do to resolve it? I've been talking to a friend in order to resolve it, along with antidepressants, exercise, and some counseling. My sympathies, sounds like you're doing a broad range of things to help you through it. I sometimes forget how much diet and exercise play a part in such things. I hope it gets better for you soon.
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Post by ArcadiaGrey on Dec 15, 2018 7:25:07 GMT
Okay another question. How important is physical attractiveness for you vs. personality and wit? I find that a person becomes infinitely more attractive to me when I get to know them. I've never had that movie moment when I see someone across the room for the first time and am instantly smitten.
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Post by mybudgee on Dec 15, 2018 7:44:30 GMT
Just to take this thread away from the topic of feminism, have any of you guys suffered from depression? I've been suffering from a mild to moderate kind since my boyfriend broke up with me in October. How long did you suffer? What did you do to resolve it? I've been talking to a friend in order to resolve it, along with antidepressants, exercise, and some counseling. Something young people tend to kind of forget; Just because you experience something difficult, or a brutal break-up, or don't get a promotion it doesn't automatically mean you "have depression" Pain & grief are as intrinsic to the human condition as breathing or joy or blood in your veins. Be careful with the self-diagnoses people
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Post by Lavochkin on Dec 15, 2018 8:22:33 GMT
Okay another question. How important is physical attractiveness for you vs. personality and wit? I find that a person becomes infinitely more attractive to me when I get to know them. I've never had that movie moment when I see someone across the room for the first time and am instantly smitten. Personality and physical attractiveness go hand in hand, so it's a non-starter to ask which one someone would prefer, as like the saying goes, "there's no such thing as an ugly woman, just a lazy one". Which is true to a great extent with a good example being that a gal that works out, eats and dresses well displays great personality traits such as impulse control, self-discipline and determination to name but a few, which are traits that one would want for someone to be their woman of the house and even the mother of their children. Speaking of dress style, one of the most desirable traits in a woman for me is the ability to put in the time and effort to dress as stylishly and attractive as possible, to the point where I even pay attention to the small details, such as whether or not their shoes match with their outfit. Now, combine that good figure and a spunky outgoing personality and you have the kind of woman that would provide me with a good natural high by being in the mere presence of and a challenge of trying to be flustered by her. So yeah, while there's always going to be someone that looks better than you, that's not an excuse for not putting in the effort into being the hottest woman you can possibly be.
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Post by mybudgee on Dec 15, 2018 8:42:18 GMT
Okay another question. How important is physical attractiveness for you vs. personality and wit? I find that a person becomes infinitely more attractive to me when I get to know them. I've never had that movie moment when I see someone across the room for the first time and am instantly smitten. Personality and physical attractiveness go hand in hand, so it's a non-starter to ask which one someone would prefer, as like the saying goes, "there's no such thing as an ugly woman, just a lazy one". Which is true to a great extent with a good example being that a gal that works out, eats and dresses well displays great personality traits such as impulse control, self-discipline and determination to name but a few, which are traits that one would want for someone to be their woman of the house and even the mother of their children. So yeah, while there's always going to be someone that looks better than you, that's not an excuse for not putting in the effort into being the hottest woman you can possibly be.
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Post by Onecrazymonkey1 on Dec 15, 2018 8:51:36 GMT
Physical Attractiveness gets me curious and intelligence/personality holds my attention. Basically.. media.giphy.com/media/QqdyVT8H6uJ32/giphy.gifPersonality can also make someone more attractive to me or less after time spent getting to know said person. I have grown feelings for someone that I wasn't attracted to originally and I've seen a hot person get ugly real fast. Just like in most things I prefer balance, so it's probably a 50/50 split for me give or take.
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Post by ArcadiaGrey on Dec 15, 2018 9:55:18 GMT
Okay another question. How important is physical attractiveness for you vs. personality and wit? I find that a person becomes infinitely more attractive to me when I get to know them. I've never had that movie moment when I see someone across the room for the first time and am instantly smitten. Personality and physical attractiveness go hand in hand, so it's a non-starter to ask which one someone would prefer, as like the saying goes, "there's no such thing as an ugly woman, just a lazy one". Which is true to a great extent with a good example being that a gal that works out, eats and dresses well displays great personality traits such as impulse control, self-discipline and determination to name but a few, which are traits that one would want for someone to be their woman of the house and even the mother of their children. Speaking of dress style, one of the most desirable traits in a woman for me is the ability to put in the time and effort to dress as stylishly and attractive as possible, to the point where I even pay attention to the small details, such as whether or not their shoes match with their outfit. Now, combine that good figure and a spunky outgoing personality and you have the kind of woman that would provide me with a good natural high by being in the mere presence of and a challenge of trying to be flustered by her. So yeah, while there's always going to be someone that looks better than you, that's not an excuse for not putting in the effort into being the hottest woman you can possibly be. I asked which was the most important for you, as for me personality wins hands down. I didn't say pick one or the other. There are plenty of attractive people who've been as ugly as hell once I've got to know them, and plenty of regular people who've become more and more physically attractive to me as I've known them. So yeah.
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Post by Lavochkin on Dec 15, 2018 9:59:04 GMT
Personality and physical attractiveness go hand in hand, so it's a non-starter to ask which one someone would prefer, as like the saying goes, "there's no such thing as an ugly woman, just a lazy one". Which is true to a great extent with a good example being that a gal that works out, eats and dresses well displays great personality traits such as impulse control, self-discipline and determination to name but a few, which are traits that one would want for someone to be their woman of the house and even the mother of their children. Speaking of dress style, one of the most desirable traits in a woman for me is the ability to put in the time and effort to dress as stylishly and attractive as possible, to the point where I even pay attention to the small details, such as whether or not their shoes match with their outfit. Now, combine that good figure and a spunky outgoing personality and you have the kind of woman that would provide me with a good natural high by being in the mere presence of and a challenge of trying to be flustered by her. So yeah, while there's always going to be someone that looks better than you, that's not an excuse for not putting in the effort into being the hottest woman you can possibly be. I asked which was the most important for you, as for me personality wins hands down. I didn't say pick one or the other. There are plenty of attractive people who've been as ugly as hell once I've got to know them, and plenty of regular people who've become more and more physically attractive to me as I've known them. So yeah. Well, a good personality knows to take proper care and exercise for her rump, so that's most important. But yeah personality is more important (which is what I was trying to say more or less in that post), as good as a woman's looks can be the novelty wears out after a while, and as enjoyable as sex can be, it's ultimately an itch to be scratched whose high is brief, it's the non-physical/sexual aspects of a relationship that leave lasting satisfaction, like having someone that'll not only be there for the good times, but stick with you through the bad ones through and through.
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Post by mousestalker on Dec 15, 2018 11:38:46 GMT
I have certain threshold requirements (such as height), but really it's mostly about the personality. Does he have a sense of humour? Is he kind? What's his family like? and similar questions. ventional #iyamwhatiyam
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Post by Giant Ambush Beetle on Dec 15, 2018 14:29:05 GMT
Okay another question. How important is physical attractiveness for you vs. personality and wit? I find that a person becomes infinitely more attractive to me when I get to know them. I've never had that movie moment when I see someone across the room for the first time and am instantly smitten. You live in the UK. And you haven't met me. If I had to choose between a partner who, to me, looks mediocre but is intelligent and has a great character and a partner who is physically super attractive but lacks a little in intelligence and character - - I'd choose the former every single time. Physical appearance is kinda important though, after all the physical appearance of a person is a reflection of their inner self. And if we're completely honest, we all enjoy nice bodies, never met anybody who didn't. Never had a love at first sight either, but I definitely had ''this person looks kinda....interesting, I better investigate...'' moments. Or to use my favorite smiley here, situations where I go from my usual to just by visuals alone. But never from to .
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Post by mattig89ch on Dec 15, 2018 16:54:49 GMT
Just to take this thread away from the topic of feminism, have any of you guys suffered from depression? I've been suffering from a mild to moderate kind since my boyfriend broke up with me in October. How long did you suffer? What did you do to resolve it? I've been talking to a friend in order to resolve it, along with antidepressants, exercise, and some counseling. Yesh. I'm taking herbal anti-depressants, and talking to a therapist. I can highly recommend seeking out professional mental health services for anyone who thinks they might need it. Every therapist I've talked to has told me flat out if they think they can't help me, or if they think I do and don't need therapy (surprise, I do). Okay another question. How important is physical attractiveness for you vs. personality and wit? I find that a person becomes infinitely more attractive to me when I get to know them. I've never had that movie moment when I see someone across the room for the first time and am instantly smitten. For me, looks are important. They aren't the be-all end-all though. A super model is ugly as sin, if she's a complete dumbass. For me, the less body fat a woman has, the more attractive she is. But I can appreciate a little gurth, if she genuinely makes me laugh and/or I just have fun with her.
Edit: Also, I don't believe in love at first sight. If such a thing existed, it would be only superficial. To fall in love with someone, imo, you need to get to know them as a person.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 15, 2018 20:44:42 GMT
Okay another question. How important is physical attractiveness for you vs. personality and wit? I find that a person becomes infinitely more attractive to me when I get to know them. I've never had that movie moment when I see someone across the room for the first time and am instantly smitten. I must say that this happened to me. Only once but yes, I got instantly smitten. However, I mostly don´t care about physical attractiveness. Nice body, face etc. is a great extra but that's it. And you are right, a person can become a lot more attractive (or hideous) when you get to know them.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 15, 2018 21:11:53 GMT
Just to take this thread away from the topic of feminism, have any of you guys suffered from depression? I've been suffering from a mild to moderate kind since my boyfriend broke up with me in October. How long did you suffer? What did you do to resolve it? I've been talking to a friend in order to resolve it, along with antidepressants, exercise, and some counseling. Something young people tend to kind of forget; Just because you experience something difficult, or a brutal break-up, or don't get a promotion it doesn't automatically mean you "have depression" Pain & grief are as intrinsic to the human condition as breathing or joy or blood in your veins. Be careful with the self-diagnoses people I was diagnosed with depression by a professional therapist.
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Post by Lavochkin on Dec 15, 2018 21:12:41 GMT
Okay another question. How important is physical attractiveness for you vs. personality and wit? I find that a person becomes infinitely more attractive to me when I get to know them. I've never had that movie moment when I see someone across the room for the first time and am instantly smitten. You live in the UK. And you haven't met me. If I had to choose between a partner who, to me, looks mediocre but is intelligent and has a great character and a partner who is physically super attractive but lacks a little in intelligence and character - - I'd choose the former every single time. Physical appearance is kinda important though, after all the physical appearance of a person is a reflection of their inner self. And if we're completely honest, we all enjoy nice bodies, never met anybody who didn't. Never had a love at first sight either, but I definitely had ''this person looks kinda....interesting, I better investigate...'' moments. Or to use my favorite smiley here, situations where I go from my usual to just by visuals alone. But never from to . "Love at first sight" is nonsensical, and what it really is is lust, or worse yet, infatuation. Actual love is something that develops over time,especially during tough times.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 15, 2018 21:25:36 GMT
Okay another question. How important is physical attractiveness for you vs. personality and wit? I find that a person becomes infinitely more attractive to me when I get to know them. I've never had that movie moment when I see someone across the room for the first time and am instantly smitten. Honestly, I think both are important. I can get along with someone but if I'm not into them physically it's not going be romantic, but as with my last ex I became more attracted to him by after I felt like we were kindred spirits.
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Post by Giant Ambush Beetle on Dec 15, 2018 21:56:33 GMT
"Love at first sight" is nonsensical, and what it really is is lust, or worse yet, infatuation. Actual love is something that develops over time,especially during tough times. And since time is such a rare hard to come by commodity nowadays, same with patience, true love is mostly dead. I don't have enough time and opportunity to meet people I could potentially learn to like, over an extended period of time, the classical way - let alone even love. I think many people are struck in the same situation so they go with love at first sight, a quick shot, clinging at the illusion hoping that it will develop into something closely resembling love. Many people I know found their parter that way.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 15, 2018 22:22:37 GMT
Many people I know found their parter that way That's so sad. I sorely agree with you tho, true love is dead.
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Post by Giant Ambush Beetle on Dec 15, 2018 22:34:38 GMT
Many people I know found their parter that way That's so sad. I sorely agree with you tho, true love is dead. Well, mostly. I think I could pull it off, given the right circumstances.
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Post by Bronztrooper on Dec 16, 2018 4:21:56 GMT
Okay another question. How important is physical attractiveness for you vs. personality and wit? I find that a person becomes infinitely more attractive to me when I get to know them. I've never had that movie moment when I see someone across the room for the first time and am instantly smitten. Really, personality would be the sole determining factor since I don't really feel attraction towards anyone beyond aesthetic attraction (basically appreciating someone's appearance in the same way one would appreciate a painting), and even that isn't exactly common in my case. Then again, it's not like I'm actively searching for a relationship atm, so it doesn't really matter right now.
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Post by mybudgee on Dec 16, 2018 5:25:02 GMT
Uh... millennials are seriously awful
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@budgee
I'm not really sure why you're bringing up millenials, but ok, I guess
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