Who you gonna woo first?

My first Ryder is most likely going to be male and, since I was so sure this would to be the first ME where m!human/m!alien would be a thing, I was totally going for Jaal but... yeah. Not an option. So I don't really know. Out of the possible ones I know of I find Vetra most interesting (cuz hey: non-asari aliens for m!protagonist) but, since my final decisions are usually dependent on what feels right for my character, that might change. Heck, he might not even romance anyone. My roleplaying tends to be pretty heavy on male characters (which is why I prefer them) whereas females tend to have more self-insert qualities. My favorite ME protag was my Renegade m!Shep who stayed single for two games, then ended up falling for Kaidan. 

The first time I didn't know, I flirt with everyone who is romanceable with sara and then reject everyone except for jaal lol I feel that sara and jaal made a cute couple, but in my current playground i'm romancing peebee.

Well, my plan didn't work out. My MRyder ended up romancing Reyes instead of Gil.

Tested out the waters and flirted with Peebee, Cora and Gil, but Reyes had me at Hello. So yeah, all signs point to Reyes currently.
I might have fucked up Peebee's romance already anyway

Gah, I feel like Regina George. She started cheating on Aaron Samuels with Shane Omen because Aaron was way too sensitive. Ja'al is my Shane Omen. But I want to see the relationship to the end, but Liam is driving me batty!

I really started being irritated by him after we got back from his loyalty mission and now we're on Kadara and man he's not cut out for this job! He's too goddamned soft.

I don't want to break off the relationship though, I've never done that in a game before. What if I break it off and Ja'al rejects me? And what if I ruin movie night?!

Ick. He's so smarmy. I mean, cool dude and he makes me laugh but I could never actually romance him.

Oh I am not a fan of Sloane, I could not bare to side with her at all.

I reasoned since Jaal only likes MW girls, I will leaveReyes for M!Ryder run (and he will also resolve a Kadara in Reyes favor). He's also going to be the left side Ryder, as close to a pirate as the game gets, so PeeBee/Reyes will work for him. Jaal's is an interesting relationship, though none of the romances are the sweep you off your feet sort.

My Sis!Ryder romanced Vetra. Everyone wants a spiky girlfriend. Plus, as someone who has a good relationship with her quite a bit younger sister, too, I really related to her character. However, I did not expect Liam to actually be so tempting. Up to now, I haven't ever really liked the two traditional het humans of both genders that they place in front of you from the beginning, at least not in the first game (I warmed up to Kaidan). Everyone else always seemed more interesting. Liam really has personality, though, and even if you didn't romance him he turned out to be a good friend.

Not sure about Bro!Ryder. Cora is not for me and I kind of wanna romance Peebee with a girl. The two male options don't appeal to me. I don't like Gil's personality, which btw is not a knock to the writing - a character that has enough personality for me to dislike him is already better than a lot of video game people; Reyes doesn't fit with the professional-answers-only run I wanna do with my Bro!Ryder. I think he may be unhappy in love with Jaal or something, like my gay Shepard, who was just alone for two games. Will be interesting to see how the traditional before-last-missions cutscenes play out if you don't romance anyone.