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Post by Arktinen on Aug 29, 2016 11:20:06 GMT
I'm the other one of the Arks mentioned above by Nightman. I and Arkhne are a couple who met in a chat a few years ago, chatted and then skyped for several months long-distance, and then he eventually moved across the globe just to meet me in person. Never needed those return tickets back to Australia. It's soon 2 years since we got married. My husband introduced me to some new co-op games, and we regularly play e.g. ME3 MP together, so we became a gaming couple. Amusingly to us, both of us found the old BSN unbeknownst to one another.
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Post by Arijon van Goyen on Aug 30, 2016 8:16:14 GMT
It seems many people are overwhelmed by here! which is kinda OK and amusing!
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Post by OneWomanArmy on Aug 30, 2016 11:50:49 GMT
It seems many people are overwhelmed by here! which is kinda OK and amusing! Lol what?
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Post by yourfunnyuncle on Aug 30, 2016 15:46:04 GMT
It seems many people are overwhelmed by here! which is kinda OK and amusing! Actually the forum on which my wife and I met was dedicated to the Pet Shop Boys...
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Post by razrblck ☯ on Aug 30, 2016 16:26:00 GMT
It seems many people are overwhelmed by *jealousy* here! which is kinda OK and amusing! But seriously, if someone is single and doesn't want to stay like that, then: 1) Stop complaining about being single; 2) Find a goal that is actually meaningful and work to reach it; 3) Find a hobby or something fun to do (bonus points if it's done outside); 4) Read a book, take a class in something that interests you, travel, explore, get to know a culture that fascinates you, get creative; 5) A miserable job will only make you miserable, so change it! By becoming a more interesting and hopefully mature person you will find someone that falls for you.
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Post by OneWomanArmy on Aug 30, 2016 16:39:57 GMT
But who has been complaining here or acted jealous? I haven't seen anyone do that. Can you give us some examples to back that up Arijon van Goyen xD
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Post by Phantom on Aug 30, 2016 16:41:55 GMT
i am not complaining about being single but the question is whom would want to date me?
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Post by SassaMFG on Aug 30, 2016 16:50:31 GMT
i am not complaining about being single but the question is whom would want to date me? Exactly this...
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Post by OneWomanArmy on Aug 30, 2016 17:28:34 GMT
i am not complaining about being single but the question is whom would want to date me? i am not complaining about being single but the question is whom would want to date me? Exactly this... I'm liking both your posts, not because I agree your un-dateable lol but because I agree about the not complaining about being single part You're both wonderful guys, lots of women would be lucky to be with you
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Post by PATPATPATlol on Aug 30, 2016 17:45:50 GMT
I'm single and dat makes me cwanky! Hrmph!
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Post by ruggly on Aug 30, 2016 17:54:38 GMT
It seems many people are overwhelmed by *jealousy* here! which is kinda OK and amusing! But seriously, if someone is single and doesn't want to stay like that, then: 1) Stop complaining about being single; 2) Find a goal that is actually meaningful and work to reach it; 3) Find a hobby or something fun to do (bonus points if it's done outside); 4) Read a book, take a class in something that interests you, travel, explore, get to know a culture that fascinates you, get creative; 5) A miserable job will only make you miserable, so change it! By becoming a more interesting and hopefully mature person you will find someone that falls for you. But that requires work.
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Post by Arijon van Goyen on Aug 30, 2016 18:02:42 GMT
It seems many people are overwhelmed by *jealousy* here! which is kinda OK and amusing! But seriously, if someone is single and doesn't want to stay like that, then: 1) Stop complaining about being single; 2) Find a goal that is actually meaningful and work to reach it; 3) Find a hobby or something fun to do (bonus points if it's done outside); 4) Read a book, take a class in something that interests you, travel, explore, get to know a culture that fascinates you, get creative; 5) A miserable job will only make you miserable, so change it! By becoming a more interesting and hopefully mature person you will find someone that falls for you. Even if one does all of the above, a day is 24 hours, and that lonesome person finally feel the loneliness and da blues. And luck is a big factor. When there is no good opportunity to even talk with someone LI-worthy, you're destroyed.
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Post by razrblck ☯ on Aug 30, 2016 18:53:01 GMT
Even if one does all of the above, a day is 24 hours, and that lonesome person finally feel the loneliness and da blues. And luck is a big factor. When there is no good opportunity to even talk with someone LI-worthy, you're destroyed. By doing something with your life you are creating such opportunities yourself. Activities that you are truly interested in do lead you to find other people that like the same things. This forum, and BSN before it, are two great examples of that. Luck should not be taken as a factor, at all. You can't count on what you can't predict nor control. Successful people do not need luck, because they developed the right skills and created the opportunities for success themselves. How? Hard work, perseveration and commitment to a goal. If you start improving yourself now with a clear goal in mind, it won't happen soon. It may even take years to get there. But once you start you should never stop. Why? Because if you don't care about yourself, no one else will. Love doesn't come out of nowhere: why would someone love you when you don't even love yourself enough to do something good with your life? That's why it's so important to have really good goals, no matter how unattainable they might seem now. As long as you want them, and as long as the journey makes you a better person, it will all be worth it. And then, only then you will be able to find a partner that can give you that special something you've been looking for so long.
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Post by Phantom on Aug 30, 2016 20:22:08 GMT
i am not complaining about being single but the question is whom would want to date me? Exactly this... I'm liking both your posts, not because I agree your un-dateable lol but because I agree about the not complaining about being single part You're both wonderful guys, lots of women would be lucky to be with you *faints for no reason* well you know I am sexy. I can't speak for SassaMFG. *does the sexy and I know it dance*
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Post by SassaMFG on Aug 30, 2016 20:44:29 GMT
I'm liking both your posts, not because I agree your un-dateable lol but because I agree about the not complaining about being single part You're both wonderful guys, lots of women would be lucky to be with you *faints for no reason* well you know I am sexy. I can't speak for SassaMFG. *does the sexy and I know it dance* Oh, sure I am...
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Post by Phantom on Aug 31, 2016 0:10:55 GMT
*faints for no reason* well you know I am sexy. I can't speak for SassaMFG. *does the sexy and I know it dance* Oh, sure I am... well played
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Post by Deleted on Aug 31, 2016 0:19:35 GMT
It seems many people are overwhelmed by *jealousy* here! which is kinda OK and amusing! But seriously, if someone is single and doesn't want to stay like that, then: 1) Stop complaining about being single; 2) Find a goal that is actually meaningful and work to reach it; 3) Find a hobby or something fun to do (bonus points if it's done outside); 4) Read a book, take a class in something that interests you, travel, explore, get to know a culture that fascinates you, get creative; 5) A miserable job will only make you miserable, so change it! By becoming a more interesting and hopefully mature person you will find someone that falls for you. I'd also say that you will find someone by being proactive, it's quite important. ^^ At least for the guys. Most of those who are with someone, it's not just because they were interesting to me, but because they also worked on it. Even women that were interested about me, I still had to do the first step in the end, many of them reluctant while showing some signs, to be straight forward and jump on me, otherwise I'm not sure something would have happened. Given how many times I missed opportunities when I was shy in the past, It's even likely nothing would have happened. For example, a friend of my cousin said after meeting me and talking a lot together in a party that she " really liked me ", with plenty of compliments. But to me directly ? Nothing. She was so neutral and politely nice that I could have never suspected anything. She of course knew that my cousin would repeat me her words. A shy guy would just be happy with her words, would feel flattered, and that's it. Nothing happens, it ends there. She was just being very nice about him, it was just just nice compliments. But a guy bolder, would not stop there. He would ask her cousin to tell to her friend that he also liked her very much and he would also ask her cousin to tell to her friend if she would be interested for something with him as " of course a possibility ". That's where the opportunity is created. If the answer is yes, then the bolder guy looses no time, he asks her number to his cousin and calls directly the girl interested. That guy was just not being interesting, he also worked to find someone that fell for him, doors suddenly opened to him. That's what I mean. In real life, I've noticed that plenty of folks who are single do not really try, finding a lot of excuses not to act. The fear of being rejected, or making mistakes is a powerful feeling for many, convinced by their own negative arguments about themself. I'm too ugly, I'm not good enough for her, I'm too bland and boring, I'm sure she already has a boyfriend. Why would she'd be attracted to me ? But even when someone might like you, like I said, you still have to create the opportunity most of time. As an ex shy guy myself, if there is something that I have learned, it's that most of time if you want some results, you should be bold with the one that catched your eyes. Otherwise either it will take centuries or it might not happen at all, especially with shy or introverted girls. Don't expect them to do the first step. Consider it as your job. Don't let fear interfere, just be yourself and comfortable with who you are, think that everything is possible. Then a lot of doors could be open.
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Post by Obliviousmiss on Aug 31, 2016 0:32:10 GMT
The hubby and I didn't meet on the internet, we were on a mission in Georgia and met there. Once we went to our separate homes we were 600 miles apart, (and I thought we were just friends!) Lucky for him his grandma lived a few hours away from me so he "visited" her, (he really came to see me!) We played guitar hero, and he introduced me to First Person Shooting via Modern Warfare 2. Once he saw how quick I was to git gud, he fell instantly. We've played a plethora of games together ever since, ME3 MP included. When I modded a Harry Potter forum I knew a few couples who met and got married. It can happen!
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Post by Deleted on Aug 31, 2016 1:52:41 GMT
I am currently seeing someone now and I am happy about it but I did fall head over heels for this one girl I met on a forum Beautiful,intelligent and very funny. I just left it alone because my paranoia cannot allow me to be a long distance, I am also very bad at communicating my thoughts(makes me seem unavailable at times). I think it is dope as long as everyone is happy.
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Post by Shepenwepet on Aug 31, 2016 2:09:32 GMT
By becoming a more interesting and hopefully mature person you will find someone that falls for you. Heh. Please. I spend several minutes a day exchanging poop emojis with my 39-year-old brother over Facebook chat. He told me he was going to buy me a poop emoji plushie for Christmas. I'm not sure if he was serious, but he could have been. We both managed to find someone. Maturity is unnecessary. Or we just found a couple of weirdos, that's also possible.
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Post by masterwarderz on Aug 31, 2016 2:33:56 GMT
Ehhh I've never dated anyone from BSN. Though I have gotten a bit flirty with a few select females from there but it never went anywhere serious.
Mostly due to distance and time constraints. Not to mention other personal issues that I would feel uncomfortable to speak of here.
Note these issues were not solely on their end I wouldn't want to give that impression.
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Post by Arijon van Goyen on Aug 31, 2016 5:26:13 GMT
Also in maturity I'm something between: So I'm too mature!
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Post by razrblck ☯ on Aug 31, 2016 6:24:56 GMT
By becoming a more interesting and hopefully mature person you will find someone that falls for you. Heh. Please. I spend several minutes a day exchanging poop emojis with my 39-year-old brother over Facebook chat. He told me he was going to buy me a poop emoji plushie for Christmas. I'm not sure if he was serious, but he could have been. We both managed to find someone. Maturity is unnecessary. Or we just found a couple of weirdos, that's also possible. That's not the maturity I'm talking about, though. What I mean is that once you commit to someone, you better do it for real and not make empty promises, act like a spoiled kid (to your partner), disregard your partner's emotions and run away from problems instead of facing them together.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 31, 2016 6:35:05 GMT
Also in maturity I'm something between: So I'm too mature! Lol Kaiser, you are a mixture of haile, Mussolini and Dwayne Johnson???? Lol how does that work? Lol
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Post by Ravenous Bear on Aug 31, 2016 6:48:52 GMT
Nope, I am too much of a private person to feel comfortable attempting to date online. I also have not met any women I would find interesting enough for a romantic relationship irl.
For the fact my financial situation is dire and for other things out of my control, I have never been on a date.
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