The Blanketfort (crying and throwing up) - The Official Solas Thread [Spoilers]

Maybe it as unintentional, but the implication was fairly clear, given the context of discussion.

Either way... no, it doesn't take him a lot of time. He can apologize to Lavellan pretty much after first conversation in Haven, whether they likes them or not. Ultimately whether Solas has "good" reasons to think the way he does, I still don't think it's fair to label his thinking as merely narrow-minded or dismiss criticism of Dalish culture Lavellan has as either lack of self-respect or adding fuel to arguments of haterz (especially given that in case Lavellan chooses to criticize the Dalish, it's Solas that comes to their defense).

We can't forget that we're not just talking about random Joe Schmoe who spends way too much in the Fade - not only he has the long and dramatic history he has, he's seen a good chunk of history of modern Thedas and no matter when his opinion about Dalish has formed, he and his people still tried to reach out to them. It's not a perspective that can be easily dismissed. One can totally understand the plight of people and still be frustrated with them for various reasons and Solas made it quite clear (especially to disliked Inquisitor) that such is his position, either towards Dalish or city elves or people in general.