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Post by rras1994 on Jan 16, 2019 18:00:12 GMT
I was talking about youtubers screaming about SJWs, you made it a mark against you and I was apparently saying how you have a limp dick? Interesting how you would make that about yourself Am I am to take this lack of rebuttal as a concession? Because as much as you imply otherwise...in the very post you quoted, if you actually look it over, its not "about me" as you put it, unless if you think I happen to be one of those Youtubers, I'd also point out that you started the discussion with "limp dicks" you seem fixated on the topic not I, I offered two sentences on the matter, that's also your first reply to me was homie. ._. Also I'd advise you to step up the game if we are really gonna do this, because the whole personal misdirection of topic thing is a middle school level of debate tactic, it might work in Congress but not here bro. Might want to look at your use of "I", bro. And I'm not interested in debating you, just like I'm not interested on how my face is tired. You didn't even come in here with a topic, just a dimissive comment to me, you weren't interested in discussion and I'm not interested in debating you on how SJWs are ruining your games. It's just hilarious how riled up you are getting from someone who wasn't even talking about you.
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Post by masterwarderz on Jan 16, 2019 18:07:11 GMT
Am I am to take this lack of rebuttal as a concession? Because as much as you imply otherwise...in the very post you quoted, if you actually look it over, its not "about me" as you put it, unless if you think I happen to be one of those Youtubers, I'd also point out that you started the discussion with "limp dicks" you seem fixated on the topic not I, I offered two sentences on the matter, that's also your first reply to me was homie. ._. Also I'd advise you to step up the game if we are really gonna do this, because the whole personal misdirection of topic thing is a middle school level of debate tactic, it might work in Congress but not here bro. It's just hilarious how riled up you are getting from someone who wasn't even talking about you. I am angry? Nah man, I didn't buy MEA, I returned DAI, I probably won't buy DA4. I lose nothing by discussing it, I have no personal stake, I have no bias. This level of indifference does however come with a mild bit of amusement, directly namely at folks such as you given your assumption of "anger". So, I will ask you this and let this be the end of it: Do you have anything within you to defend it, or are you just misdirection, and reeing nonsense? Plenty of that here on BSN, but I do occasionally hope for the exception to the rule to appear, few and far between though homie, let me tell ya. I swear, its a joke and a half this forum, plenty of folks to cry about representation, and how their politics need to be included into a game, but outside of a handful of tumblr talking points...few of them have anything within them beyond just stereotypes and personal fetishism. So I look for something more, and while this little diversion was amusing enough what with pointing out how MEA was a tire fire again, I do wonder. Do you actually have a legitimate point of debate of anything I raised or again, is it just reeing nonsense and misdirection with you?
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Post by rras1994 on Jan 16, 2019 18:10:40 GMT
It's just hilarious how riled up you are getting from someone who wasn't even talking about you. I am angry? Nah man, I didn't buy MEA, I returned DAI, I probably won't buy DA4. I lose nothing by discussing it, I have no personal stake, I have no bias. This level of indifference does however come with a mild bit of amusement, directly namely at folks such as you given your assumption of "anger". So, I will ask you this and let this be the end of it: Do you have anything within you to defend it, or are you just misdirection, and reeing nonsense? Plenty of that here on BSN, but I do occasionally hope for the exception to the rule to appear, few and far between though homie, let me tell ya. I swear, its a joke and a half this forum, plenty of folks to cry about representation, and how their politics need to be included into a game, but outside of a handful of tumblr talking points...few of them have anything within them beyond just stereotypes and personal fetishism. So I look for something more, and while this little diversion was amusing enough what with pointing out how MEA was a tire fire again, I do wonder. Do you actually have a legitimate point of debate of anything I raised or again, is it just reeing nonsense and misdirection with you? Again, not interested in talking ot debating with you. Do you keep missing that bit? You made a snarky reply to me so I made one back, "homie". I don't respect any of your talk so I'm not interested in wasting my time discussing with you.
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Post by Dirk on Jan 16, 2019 18:20:06 GMT
All this humanoid tree-fucking love is reminding me how bad I wanted a native plant-like dude companion for Greedfall, then they changed the design of the natives to be more human also vegetarianism has its roots in the ancient greece and ancient india so it's totally legit to roleplay a vegetarian lmao as those romances are totally legit since 1 they are in the game 2 the PR they did was "roleplay the sexuality you want FREEDOM OF CHOICE", ACO was never a fixed protagonist, so let's drop the "screw gay narratives" you guys are always trying to sealioning and invalidate thanks That would be very cool! Sadly I don't think there is going to be m/m native LI in that game. Now I am looking forward to the second prize: give me a gay sailor, Spiders!
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Post by masterwarderz on Jan 16, 2019 18:27:39 GMT
I am angry? Nah man, I didn't buy MEA, I returned DAI, I probably won't buy DA4. I lose nothing by discussing it, I have no personal stake, I have no bias. This level of indifference does however come with a mild bit of amusement, directly namely at folks such as you given your assumption of "anger". So, I will ask you this and let this be the end of it: Do you have anything within you to defend it, or are you just misdirection, and reeing nonsense? Plenty of that here on BSN, but I do occasionally hope for the exception to the rule to appear, few and far between though homie, let me tell ya. I swear, its a joke and a half this forum, plenty of folks to cry about representation, and how their politics need to be included into a game, but outside of a handful of tumblr talking points...few of them have anything within them beyond just stereotypes and personal fetishism. So I look for something more, and while this little diversion was amusing enough what with pointing out how MEA was a tire fire again, I do wonder. Do you actually have a legitimate point of debate of anything I raised or again, is it just reeing nonsense and misdirection with you? Again, not interested in talking ot debating with you. Consider it done then! As I said, I was simply asking.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 16, 2019 18:33:13 GMT
All this humanoid tree-fucking love is reminding me how bad I wanted a native plant-like dude companion for Greedfall, then they changed the design of the natives to be more human also vegetarianism has its roots in the ancient greece and ancient india so it's totally legit to roleplay a vegetarian lmao as those romances are totally legit since 1 they are in the game 2 the PR they did was "roleplay the sexuality you want FREEDOM OF CHOICE", ACO was never a fixed protagonist, so let's drop the "screw gay narratives" you guys are always trying to sealioning and invalidate thanks That would be very cool! Sadly I don't think there is going to be m/m native LI in that game. Now I am looking forward to the second prize: give me a gay sailor, Spiders! I mean since they aren't going all BI-I really hope we get a gay exclusive male. I'm pretty tired of sexualities making sense TM is used exclusively to exclude us from content. Though I half expect straight women and gay men to only have one option they share with less content than the female options that are going to be 1 straight lady and one bi lady.
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Post by gaycaravaggio on Jan 16, 2019 18:46:16 GMT
So how about those treefuckers?
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Post by Deleted on Jan 16, 2019 18:48:05 GMT
I mean since they aren't going all BI-I really hope we get a gay exclusive male. I'm pretty tired of sexualities making sense TM is used exclusively to exclude us from content. Though I half expect straight women and gay men to only have one option they share with less content than the female options that are going to be 1 straight lady and one bi lady. Yeah, while I think Spiders is really trying to do better (and they did offer a gay romance in Technomancer after all), I wouldn't be surprised if they don't quite hit the nail on the head in Greedfall. They started implementing romances in Bound by Flame, but only had straight ones. Then they had a gay male romance in Technomancer, but no ability to play as a female PC. So it's just all been a little short of the mark so far.
In an ideal world, they go the 1 straight, 1 bi, 1 gay route for each gender. Realistically, I would not at all be surprised if they either have only 1 bisexual option for straight ladies and gay guys OR do the DA:O 1 straight and 1 bi option for both genders. I'm bracing for it to be less than fulfilling. I know it's cynical of me -- but it's better to have low expectations than to be let down (like we continue to have happen to us).
Although, come to think of it, are any of us active on the Greedfall forums at Spiders? I wonder if the devs are present there and it might do us well to be there advocating for what we'd like to see while they are still in development. I remember visiting the forums after Bound by Flame came out and posting about how disappointed I was that they didn't include any s/s options. While the general forum community overall was pretty unwelcoming to that discussion (basically calling me a snowflake and telling me to stop forcing SJW stuff down their throats -- super original edgelords), one of the devs actually reached out to me privately and apologized and said that they heard the complaints and vowed to include s/s options in future games. And then, lo and behold, it was in Technomancer. So they are open to feedback from fans. Maybe we should be over there discussing the game too? It does seem like a really cool game -- romances aside.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 16, 2019 18:49:53 GMT
So how about those treefuckers? Not to double post, but I have to say that I have no intention to "kink shame" anyone.
But I don't think I can really get motivated to talk about treefucking. I can barely find it in me to support werewolves (but I do because we are legion). I might have to draw the line at trees. But do you, y'all. Do you. LOL.
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Post by gaycaravaggio on Jan 16, 2019 18:53:53 GMT
So how about those treefuckers? Not to double post, but I have to say that I have no intention to "kink shame" anyone. But I don't think I can really get motivated to talk about treefucking. I can barely find it in me to support werewolves (but I do because we are legion). I might have to draw the line at trees. But do you, y'all. Do you. LOL. I know, I'm just being facetious. And hopefully supportive. On that note, I think unconventional "beings" for love interests would be interesting. Imagine if they brought back golems! Or let us romance a spirit. It's really unlikely, but it's fun to speculate.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 16, 2019 18:57:31 GMT
I mean since they aren't going all BI-I really hope we get a gay exclusive male. I'm pretty tired of sexualities making sense TM is used exclusively to exclude us from content. Though I half expect straight women and gay men to only have one option they share with less content than the female options that are going to be 1 straight lady and one bi lady. Yeah, while I think Spiders is really trying to do better (and they did offer a gay romance in Technomancer after all), I wouldn't be surprised if they don't quite hit the nail on the head in Greedfall. They started implementing romances in Bound by Flame, but only had straight ones. Then they had a gay male romance in Technomancer, but no ability to play as a female PC. So it's just all been a little short of the mark so far.
In an ideal world, they go the 1 straight, 1 bi, 1 gay route for each gender. Realistically, I would not at all be surprised if they either have only 1 bisexual option for straight ladies and gay guys OR do the DA:O 1 straight and 1 bi option for both genders. I'm bracing for it to be less than fulfilling. I know it's cynical of me -- but it's better to have low expectations than to be let down (like we continue to have happen to us).
Although, come to think of it, are any of us active on the Greedfall forums at Spiders? I wonder if the devs are present there and it might do us well to be there advocating for what we'd like to see while they are still in development. I remember visiting the forums after Bound by Flame came out and posting about how disappointed I was that they didn't include any s/s options. While the general forum community overall was pretty unwelcoming to that discussion (basically calling me a snowflake and telling me to stop forcing SJW stuff down their throats -- super original edgelords), one of the devs actually reached out to me privately and apologized and said that they heard the complaints and vowed to include s/s options in future games. And then, lo and behold, it was in Technomancer. So they are open to feedback from fans. Maybe we should be over there discussing the game too? It does seem like a really cool game -- romances aside.
Back when we thought the game was coming out last year we did a lot of posting there. Though once the news stopped coming out about the game, the devs also went radio silent so I sort of forgot that the game existed for a while there. Also, there's more to be said about our time on that board-but that's another tale best told in pm if you are interested.
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Post by Hanako Ikezawa on Jan 16, 2019 19:02:29 GMT
I don’t have much hope that Greedfall will have a romance that represents me, so all my hope is instead going to there being as many same sex options as heterosexual options.
Edit:Oh, and no forced options like Ubisoft did.
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Post by Hanako Ikezawa on Jan 16, 2019 19:04:31 GMT
So how about those treefuckers? Not to double post, but I have to say that I have no intention to "kink shame" anyone.
But I don't think I can really get motivated to talk about treefucking. I can barely find it in me to support werewolves (but I do because we are legion). I might have to draw the line at trees. But do you, y'all. Do you. LOL. You do yew.
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Post by Artemis on Jan 16, 2019 19:37:24 GMT
So how about those treefuckers? Not to double post, but I have to say that I have no intention to "kink shame" anyone.
But I don't think I can really get motivated to talk about treefucking. I can barely find it in me to support werewolves (but I do because we are legion). I might have to draw the line at trees. But do you, y'all. Do you. LOL. Oh thank god I'm so glad someone else feels the same way as me
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Post by Artemis on Jan 16, 2019 19:38:28 GMT
Not to double post, but I have to say that I have no intention to "kink shame" anyone. But I don't think I can really get motivated to talk about treefucking. I can barely find it in me to support werewolves (but I do because we are legion). I might have to draw the line at trees. But do you, y'all. Do you. LOL. I know, I'm just being facetious. And hopefully supportive. On that note, I think unconventional "beings" for love interests would be interesting. Imagine if they brought back golems! Or let us romance a spirit. It's really unlikely, but it's fun to speculate. I'm so basic. I want to hug my LI. I want to kiss them and cuddle them. I want them to be soft and... human. (dwarf/elf/qunari-shaped is fine but you know... human).
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Post by davkar on Jan 16, 2019 20:07:47 GMT
I don’t have much hope that Greedfall will have a romance that represents me, so all my hope is instead going to there being as many same sex options as heterosexual options. Edit:Oh, and no forced options like Ubisoft did. How do you expect them to represent you btw? Asexuality when translated into game mechanics is basically maximum friendship with x character. Throughout the 3 games most companions (obviously not Izi or Bull) had this ~option already. Hawke-Varric and Sera-mInqi are probably the closest you can get to an ~ace relationship ingame. I mean no offense, just curious.
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Post by rras1994 on Jan 16, 2019 20:09:11 GMT
I don’t have much hope that Greedfall will have a romance that represents me, so all my hope is instead going to there being as many same sex options as heterosexual options. Edit:Oh, and no forced options like Ubisoft did. How do you expect them to represent you btw? Asexuality when translated into game mechanics is basically maximum friendship with x character. Throughout the 3 games most companions (obviously not Izi or Bull) had this ~option already. Hawke-Varric and Sera-mInqi are probably the closest you can get to an ~ace relationship ingame. I mean no offense, just curious. Not to want to speak for Hanako Ikezawa, but I've seen them show great love for the Josephine romance cus it doesn't actually show having sex.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 16, 2019 20:19:50 GMT
I don’t have much hope that Greedfall will have a romance that represents me, so all my hope is instead going to there being as many same sex options as heterosexual options. Edit:Oh, and no forced options like Ubisoft did. How do you expect them to represent you btw? Asexuality when translated into game mechanics is basically maximum friendship with x character. Throughout the 3 games most companions (obviously not Izi or Bull) had this ~option already. Hawke-Varric and Sera-mInqi are probably the closest you can get to an ~ace relationship ingame. I mean no offense, just curious. Also not to speak for Hanako, but my view on it is that "sex" and "romance" could be on two different scales. Like you can be super romantic and also sexual. Or you can be really not romantic and also sexual. So, similarly, there could be a romance that is romantic, but not sexual. The "max friendship" story arcs are both not romantic AND not sexual. So it's missing the "romantic" part of the romance.
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Post by theascendent on Jan 16, 2019 20:25:19 GMT
Speaking of romance there is something I've been wondering for a while. Now bear with me as this might be a wee bit controversial, the topic of incest. As the Dragon Age is primarily a medieval fantasy game, taking inspiration from our own medieval history, a time period where many noble and even royal families partook in this practice, I haven't seen or read anywhere in the setting at where the line is drawn. One example I primarily think of is that of Meghren, the Orlesian Noble installed as King of Ferelden during the Orlesian occupation. "Meghren was named King of Ferelden and sent there as a punishment for having offended Emperor Florian somehow, however before this, the Emperor and Meghren were rumored to be lovers, causing much scandal as they were also first cousins." (Source Dragon Age wiki article Meghren, taken from Dragon Age: The Stolen Throne pp. 145, 152). I think the controversy is the fact that Meghren was a first cousin of the Emperor Florian and not a man, as being sexually open is a norm in Orlais. I think that since a distinction was made as to the degree of kinship shared between the two I think we can say that first cousin is too close for comfort. Which means that their take on incest is almost equivalent to our own modern feelings on the subject. Those are just my thoughts on this topic, if anyone has anything else to add I would appreciate it.
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Post by Artemis on Jan 16, 2019 20:26:41 GMT
How do you expect them to represent you btw? Asexuality when translated into game mechanics is basically maximum friendship with x character. Throughout the 3 games most companions (obviously not Izi or Bull) had this ~option already. Hawke-Varric and Sera-mInqi are probably the closest you can get to an ~ace relationship ingame. I mean no offense, just curious. Not to want to speak for Hanako Ikezawa, but I've seen them show great love for the Josephine romance cus it doesn't actually show having sex. First of all, really? They seem to literally ignore every romance except Solas these days. Not that I'm bitter or anything... Anyway, yes, so much ignorance regarding asexuality, which isn't surprising since many ace people don't even realize their sexuality is a thing... we'll get there. In addition to Josephine, Solas' romance can also be interpreted as asexual, especially if you chose the green/diplomatic/nice dialogues. There is never any mention at all of sex. Now, keep in mind an ace person can still have sex. Of course some would absolutely refuse, so they would need a partner who is also ace or just willing to get their sexual urges out elsewhere. In any case, writing an asexual romance would be really easy, and as we've seen, BioWare have already unintentionally done it twice. It just involves the usual things a romance involves... lots of kissing, hugging, profession of feelings, etc. just no sex. As for ME ... I believe you can also turn down sex with Jaal? I'm not sure. There's no sex in the Reyes romance, but that's chiefly because it feels like the romance is just getting started. I feel like with Jaal they actually gave you that option... hmm. IMO an ace relationship shouldn't be the only option to take with a character... and I'm an ace person. Characters should be like Josephine, Solas, and possibly Jaal, wherein you can have an asexual yet very romantic relationshp with the character IF YOU CHOOSE, but if a player chooses, they can also have a sexual relationship. Asexuality is something people are still understanding, and I"m sure it's particularly confusing and weird to non-asexual people. To me it's not about representation, but about offering every reasonable option to the player. That's why I'm in favor of making all romances bisexual (gay and straight characters can exist elsewhere within the narrative for representation's sake). I freely support and encourage giving the player the ability to declare their sexuality, too. I don't think we have yet had an option to say we only prefer men or women, and we certainly haven't had the chance to say we prefer not to have sex. It's a tricky business, because I'd hate to pick the latter option and have the character understandably turn me down. But then I'm also someone who very happily plays quite sexual characters, got no problem doing that.
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Post by rras1994 on Jan 16, 2019 20:32:42 GMT
Not to want to speak for Hanako Ikezawa, but I've seen them show great love for the Josephine romance cus it doesn't actually show having sex. First of all, really? They seem to literally ignore every romance except Solas these days. Not that I'm bitter or anything... Anyway, yes, so much ignorance regarding asexuality, which isn't surprising since many ace people don't even realize their sexuality is a thing... we'll get there. In addition to Josephine, Solas' romance can also be interpreted as asexual, especially if you chose the green/diplomatic/nice dialogues. There is never any mention at all of sex. Now, keep in mind an ace person can still have sex. Of course some would absolutely refuse, so they would need a partner who is also ace or just willing to get their sexual urges out elsewhere. In any case, writing an asexual romance would be really easy, and as we've seen, BioWare have already unintentionally done it twice. It just involves the usual things a romance involves... lots of kissing, hugging, profession of feelings, etc. just no sex. As for ME ... I believe you can also turn down sex with Jaal? I'm not sure. There's no sex in the Reyes romance, but that's chiefly because it feels like the romance is just getting started. I feel like with Jaal they actually gave you that option... hmm. IMO an ace relationship shouldn't be the only option to take with a character... and I'm an ace person. Characters should be like Josephine, Solas, and possibly Jaal, wherein you can have an asexual yet very romantic relationshp with the character IF YOU CHOOSE, but if a player chooses, they can also have a sexual relationship. Asexuality is something people are still understanding, and I"m sure it's particularly confusing and weird to non-asexual people. To me it's not about representation, but about offering every reasonable option to the player. That's why I'm in favor of making all romances bisexual (gay and straight characters can exist elsewhere within the narrative for representation's sake). I freely support and encourage giving the player the ability to declare their sexuality, too. I don't think we have yet had an option to say we only prefer men or women, and we certainly haven't had the chance to say we prefer not to have sex. It's a tricky business, because I'd hate to pick the latter option and have the character understandably turn me down. But then I'm also someone who very happily plays quite sexual characters, got no problem doing that. Nice explanation! And interesting about Solas being able to be interpretated as an Ace romance, I always saw it as him not wanting sex cus he was technically deceiving us/not being completely honest (though I know some headcanon sex as having happened), but that's a cool interpretation too.
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Post by Artemis on Jan 16, 2019 20:47:01 GMT
First of all, really? They seem to literally ignore every romance except Solas these days. Not that I'm bitter or anything... Anyway, yes, so much ignorance regarding asexuality, which isn't surprising since many ace people don't even realize their sexuality is a thing... we'll get there. In addition to Josephine, Solas' romance can also be interpreted as asexual, especially if you chose the green/diplomatic/nice dialogues. There is never any mention at all of sex. Now, keep in mind an ace person can still have sex. Of course some would absolutely refuse, so they would need a partner who is also ace or just willing to get their sexual urges out elsewhere. In any case, writing an asexual romance would be really easy, and as we've seen, BioWare have already unintentionally done it twice. It just involves the usual things a romance involves... lots of kissing, hugging, profession of feelings, etc. just no sex. As for ME ... I believe you can also turn down sex with Jaal? I'm not sure. There's no sex in the Reyes romance, but that's chiefly because it feels like the romance is just getting started. I feel like with Jaal they actually gave you that option... hmm. IMO an ace relationship shouldn't be the only option to take with a character... and I'm an ace person. Characters should be like Josephine, Solas, and possibly Jaal, wherein you can have an asexual yet very romantic relationshp with the character IF YOU CHOOSE, but if a player chooses, they can also have a sexual relationship. Asexuality is something people are still understanding, and I"m sure it's particularly confusing and weird to non-asexual people. To me it's not about representation, but about offering every reasonable option to the player. That's why I'm in favor of making all romances bisexual (gay and straight characters can exist elsewhere within the narrative for representation's sake). I freely support and encourage giving the player the ability to declare their sexuality, too. I don't think we have yet had an option to say we only prefer men or women, and we certainly haven't had the chance to say we prefer not to have sex. It's a tricky business, because I'd hate to pick the latter option and have the character understandably turn me down. But then I'm also someone who very happily plays quite sexual characters, got no problem doing that. Nice explanation! And interesting about Solas being able to be interpretated as an Ace romance, I always saw it as him not wanting sex cus he was technically deceiving us/not being completely honest (though I know some headcanon sex as having happened), but that's a cool interpretation too. Oh yes, I never imagined it any other way! It was a really beautiful experience for me (too bad I had to use a mod), but is probably also part of the reason why the romance is so special to me... it actually booted my creativity in the ass and got me writing again xD I wrote my first ace character and wrote it about that romance; it was a really good feeling... Hmm, having played through the romance several times... and not always choosing to play as ace... I don't ever pick up that Solas is insincere in his feelings. He loves you quite deeply. He fumbles to try and explain why he cares for you so much, for you ARE only a silly mortal Dalish elf after all. He wouldn't struggle so much if he didn't really care. Unless you are suggesting that he felt becoming physically intimate would be going TOO FAR and leading on this person he cares extremely deeply for. THAT'S an interesting interpretation, and of course one I never would have considered haha xD Anyway, sex or not, I appreciate how much the romance focused on, well, ROMANCE. On your feelings for each other... I think BioWare could really do more of that. Too often they think romance is about bumping and grinding, or about tawdry humor, or just as a vehicle to make the character shine. But writing romance means you actually have to write, you know, ROMANCE. Blushing, fumbling, laughing, staring when you think they're not looking, casually asking others about them, giving them awkward gifts, flirting but trying not to flirt, then flirting more when they seem to like it... it ain't hard, man! But ah well, I happen to love writing romance... can't plot for shit though xD
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Post by rras1994 on Jan 16, 2019 20:51:10 GMT
Nice explanation! And interesting about Solas being able to be interpretated as an Ace romance, I always saw it as him not wanting sex cus he was technically deceiving us/not being completely honest (though I know some headcanon sex as having happened), but that's a cool interpretation too. Oh yes, I never imagined it any other way! It was a really beautiful experience for me (too bad I had to use a mod), but is probably also part of the reason why the romance is so special to me... it actually booted my creativity in the ass and got me writing again xD I wrote my first ace character and wrote it about that romance; it was a really good feeling... Hmm, having played through the romance several times... and not always choosing to play as ace... I don't ever pick up that Solas is insincere in his feelings. He loves you quite deeply. He fumbles to try and explain why he cares for you so much, for you ARE only a silly mortal Dalish elf after all. He wouldn't struggle so much if he didn't really care. Unless you are suggesting that he felt becoming physically intimate would be going TOO FAR and leading on this person he cares extremely deeply for. THAT'S an interesting interpretation, and of course one I never would have considered haha xD Anyway, sex or not, I appreciate how much the romance focused on, well, ROMANCE. On your feelings for each other... I think BioWare could really do more of that. Too often they think romance is about bumping and grinding, or about tawdry humor, or just as a vehicle to make the character shine. But writing romance means you actually have to write, you know, ROMANCE. Blushing, fumbling, laughing, staring when you think they're not looking, casually asking others about them, giving them awkward gifts, flirting but trying not to flirt, then flirting more when they seem to like it... it ain't hard, man! But ah well, I happen to love writing romance... can't plot for shit though xD Not insincere in his feelings, just that the Inquisitor doesn't actually know who he really is - I've always measured his relutance from that, also the reason he breaks up with you so he doesn't go too far. Solas is capable of doing terrible things for what he believes, but he also does have his own moral compass of what's right or wrong. I've always found that fascinating about his character.
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Post by Artemis on Jan 16, 2019 20:54:31 GMT
Oh yes, I never imagined it any other way! It was a really beautiful experience for me (too bad I had to use a mod), but is probably also part of the reason why the romance is so special to me... it actually booted my creativity in the ass and got me writing again xD I wrote my first ace character and wrote it about that romance; it was a really good feeling... Hmm, having played through the romance several times... and not always choosing to play as ace... I don't ever pick up that Solas is insincere in his feelings. He loves you quite deeply. He fumbles to try and explain why he cares for you so much, for you ARE only a silly mortal Dalish elf after all. He wouldn't struggle so much if he didn't really care. Unless you are suggesting that he felt becoming physically intimate would be going TOO FAR and leading on this person he cares extremely deeply for. THAT'S an interesting interpretation, and of course one I never would have considered haha xD Anyway, sex or not, I appreciate how much the romance focused on, well, ROMANCE. On your feelings for each other... I think BioWare could really do more of that. Too often they think romance is about bumping and grinding, or about tawdry humor, or just as a vehicle to make the character shine. But writing romance means you actually have to write, you know, ROMANCE. Blushing, fumbling, laughing, staring when you think they're not looking, casually asking others about them, giving them awkward gifts, flirting but trying not to flirt, then flirting more when they seem to like it... it ain't hard, man! But ah well, I happen to love writing romance... can't plot for shit though xD Not insincere in his feelings, just that the Inquisitor doesn't actually know who he really is - I've always measured his relutance from that, also the reason he breaks up with you so he doesn't go too far. Solas is capable of doing terrible things for what he believes, but he also does have his own moral compass of what's right or wrong. I've always found that fascinating about his character. Me, too. I'm, ah, quite the big fan. I love complex, morally gray characters AND I love characters with, as you call it, a strong moral compass. He's a twofer!
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Post by rras1994 on Jan 16, 2019 20:59:00 GMT
Not insincere in his feelings, just that the Inquisitor doesn't actually know who he really is - I've always measured his relutance from that, also the reason he breaks up with you so he doesn't go too far. Solas is capable of doing terrible things for what he believes, but he also does have his own moral compass of what's right or wrong. I've always found that fascinating about his character. Me, too. I'm, ah, quite the big fan. I love complex, morally gray characters AND I love characters with, as you call it, a strong moral compass. He's a twofer! I mean I do have a habit of romancing characters that "betray" me in BioWare games, one actually tried to kill me, so you could say I have a type . But it's always a fun ride!
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