Modded lobby etiquette?

I don't host huge mods but when people do, they should be able (or have someone) to carry them and they should warn about them if they host public.

Were you saying you host one of my mods? With your connection, that could get super scary for others. Which one was it? Mixed Factions or 12 Enemies? The latter would probably be brutal as hell with lag.

I never, ever, mod in public either, one of the reasons why my gameplay trailed off (and forum participation to go with it), since soloing can be a bit too stressful at times, and was running out of ginuea pigs team-mates. I even tended to let people know if they ninja-join mid-match, too. Although most of my FL should know by now, if I'm playing ME3, it's probably modded (and not to make it easier or pay more, either, you work for your credits on my watch).

On the downside, I got tired of a lot of EA's BS and ended my subscription without checking whether I actually owned ME3 or not, so I can't actually play ME3 until I get around to re-buying it.

To the OP: If you HAVEN'T tried my mods though, you should totally do that, or ask if anybody here has them so you can try. Just adds a little spice to the mix. Nobody expects the swarmers to outrun their drell. Or the Atlases to outrun their Turian. Or the ABombs to have enough range that a Krogan Backhand or Biotic Charge doesn't save you from it.