I need help with character creator

I have restarted the game 10 times now because I couldn't get past the opening first sequence of the prologue without quitting and restarting the CC. I need help. The character face looked really weird after I started playing. I'm really hoping I don't have to resort to default Ryder, because they've become memes already. The closest I got was preset 6 for the male, but when I started he had a lot of wrinkles on his face which weren't present in the cc and it made him look really old. I don't want to look on the net as I'm trying incredibly hard to avoid any spoilers. If anyone can direct me to a place or can share success stories with their male CC I'd appreciate it. I've never had problems in a cc before, I feel like others have probably experienced this as well.