The Voled AI: Please help me understand this/decide what to do.

I saved the life of the Angara. Evfra agreed it was the right thing to do.

Jaal gets mad if you destroy the facility.

The Moshae. The 2 times Jaal is hurt is if you destroy the facility and shoot Akksul.

I killed/destroyed the AI and wondered if it was going to come back no bite me, but it never did. Just missed out on some extra banter - which might have been fun, but either way it's not a major plot point.

Giving her to the angara is probably the best bet if you are trying to get as many allies as possible, since she helps them out eventually.

Also visiting her in the Resistance Headquarters is hilarious. She has some sass to her.

It's one of those things, like from ME1, where the consequence won't be known until later in the series. So go with your gut and whatever your Ryder is most likely to do. Mine is very pro-Angara so she gave it to them, though she almost shot the damn thing.

Well I have no idea what I did then but he wouldn't talk to me for awhile.  I am about to start Voled again so it will be interesting to see what I missed or what I have gotten confused.

The Problem of the Angaran AI, I hope, will come and bite you in the heel when you least expect it.

If MEA treats AI as a sincere subject, then by voluntarily "giving" the AI to anyone against the AI's wishes, is, in the perspective of the AI, akin to slavery, and I can understand why the AI is pissed if you go against its wishes.

If you choose to ignore the Sentience of the AI, and allow it to be used as a tool to bridge the relationship with the Angara, then you have to consider that the Angara, too, are in a way like the AI, Bio Constructs of the Jaardan. Ironic, isn't it?

If, however, you choose to allow it to be housed with SAM, who clearly sends you RED FLAGS that this AI is crazy, then you are risking putting your own AI in danger. Perchance, this AI overcomes SAM? What if through Remnant investigations this AI keeps hidden some core tech from SAM, only to keep developing along the lines until it reaches Singularity?

And important distinction between this AI and SAM, is that SAM is more IA (Intelligence Augmentation) than AI, and as "He" itself states, he is more stable because he develops along with the Pathfinder. It grounds him. 

Also. It limits him compared to an unshackled AI. Like Pre-EDI Lunar EDI, Geth or... the Angaran AI. 

I would have, like any sentient biological Singularity fearing mortal, destroyed the AI.

Nope it's not.
Created by the Jaardan just as they were. If the Angara are the Jaardan slaves then the AI is actually above them in standing.
It has true emotions after all so either far more advanced than even SAM or is/was a real Jaardan that was digitised at some point.

Wasn't even a question for me.
1. Can't allow local primitives to have an AI
2. It wants to be destroyed itself.
I've missed some spooky dialogues, but youtube is for the rescue.