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Post by Salty Drell on Apr 9, 2017 18:17:52 GMT
I have this strange dilemma that I have a need to say everywhere that I'm a trans because others I feel I'm a lier. Like here I feel really awkward often, because I had to put that gendermarker but I don't really feel I have a RIGHT to come in the middle of 10 gay man and claim that I'm like all of you because given is I'm not. I'm still pre-everything, not my fault, but I present male, name is changed for example. I feel really badly about lying and presenting as something one is not, and I know some people migh think I'm a big pretender (one person asked me IRL why to transition if I like men, isn't it just the same? Yeah, I totally live my life to get laid). I know it is seen as a political thing if one brings gender issues to any discussion, and that is not my intent. Before coming out I had no issues to be one of the guys in internet, but then I didn't identify as a gay, and never talked about stuff like that, only about gaming. But now I feel...inferior, maybe? Or fake? Like, what right do I have to say I'm like you when I'm not, I'm not real like you others? Do I make any sense? (I can hear now 100 transvoices telling me I have internalized transphobia). Please friend, you're not inferior to us. If you want to be one of us, if that's what you're inside and now outside due to transitioning now or in future, you're one of us.
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Post by Salty Drell on Apr 9, 2017 18:09:19 GMT
My apartment is very gay friendly. My flat is very gay friendly. It has me in it. And my bf when he's not working. Super-gay. Gayest place ever. Idgaf about the rest of my apartment block tho, I barely visit it. My place of residence could be more gay i guess. I look at everything in life and think "needs more gay". What? Gay agenda? I don't know what you're talking about...
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Post by Salty Drell on Apr 9, 2017 18:04:13 GMT
I really do hate this assumptions from appearance stuff. I know that to the average person I'd be taken as straight, theres was one time where two guys stopped holding each others hands when they walk passed me in the street and I felt really bad, NOOO be in love! Oh god no that is the saddest thing I've read today. Now I'm starting to wonder if I've inadvertently scared my fellow gay brethren as well... Holy shit that's nightmareish to think about, but if that happened to me on the street i would tell them I'm gay too but more importantly don't let me or anyone stop you.
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Post by Salty Drell on Apr 9, 2017 17:58:35 GMT
I'm really sorry for all the LGBT posters here that live in places where they can't feel like they can be themselves. I've been really lucky having always lived in very safe areas of the UK and US. I wish you could all come here. Where I live is tolerant and ok to a point, it's just so fucking stuck up lol The dream is to move to Canada or Spain, any country that is supremely LGBT friendly. Me and my friends just wanna go live somewhere we we feel the confidence to just give zero fucks and be who we are without fear or judgment. I'm not sure there's a place completely like that on Earth though.
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Post by Salty Drell on Apr 9, 2017 17:52:44 GMT
ALSo did you guys lie to your sibling when they were in the coma??? I knew it could be bad for her but I didn't want her to wake up and realize that I lied man that would be bad No lies, brutal honesty, but i think it nearly killed her though.
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Post by Salty Drell on Apr 9, 2017 17:38:58 GMT
Where I live there isn't a lot of gay. No gay bars or anything like that, actually unsafe for two dudes to hold hands in the street. If anyone calls you gay it's an attempt at an insult. The amount of times I've wanted to kick some 11 year old little shit using the f word. But as I said I went through the entire of my school life right up until I was 16 having it drilled into me I was the ugliest one in school and how no one could ever possibly want me. we saw you, that's not true fam, you have to love yourself moooooore Yes please love yourself more man you've got this.
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Post by Salty Drell on Apr 9, 2017 17:29:29 GMT
Well, I for one am appreciative of the generally masculine type m/m LIs we've had in the ME series so far. I'm not all that fond of labels generally, but I fall into the "masculine" category, to the point where most people are shocked when they find out that I am gay. (No matter how "Fabulously" I tend to ham it up around here on BSN lol) And that's what I'm generally attracted to when it comes to other guys. That said, I can see why some people want a more "feminine" m/m LI. Variety and such. I'm not masc at all, but people generally don't think I'm gay either. It's somewhat annoying. They're more likely to think my straight friend is gay rather than me. I really ham it up for this forum too. I ham it up for this forum too. My friends were quite suprised I'm gay.
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Post by Salty Drell on Apr 9, 2017 16:57:28 GMT
Yeah sorry, but big defined abs will win for me. Well those are good too. This man is perfection, my wildest dreams indeed. If I could have one man on the planet it would be James Haskell *Fans self* I think I need to cool my face down, I know I can put my face on those abs. It makes total sense just go with it.
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Post by Salty Drell on Apr 9, 2017 16:54:36 GMT
Ignore him, he's not important. Come look at the lovely gay stuff here friend. Direct him to thread. Or just dump all the photos of porn stars in an email and send it back. Yes give him a link to this thread and say, sorry pal (sarcasm obviously), this'll definitely help you.
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Post by Salty Drell on Apr 9, 2017 16:51:46 GMT
Oh and I got another damn email from that dude saying I ruined Mass Effect Andromeda for him. Guy can't take a hint. Wish I got this much attention from actual gay guys fml Ignore him, he's not important. Come look at the lovely gay stuff here friend.
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Post by Salty Drell on Apr 9, 2017 16:38:44 GMT
So, when Nat gets here right?
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Post by Salty Drell on Apr 9, 2017 16:35:03 GMT
I like firm men, and I like soft men. Soft men are cuddlier, but muscles make me drool. The combination of a big belly and big biceps is to die for. Yeah sorry, but big defined abs will win for me.
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Post by Salty Drell on Apr 9, 2017 16:30:18 GMT
It always seems like not many people appreciate a good hefty belly on a man. I can appreciate that. I mean i really love abs, like alot, but i can still appreciate that.
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Post by Salty Drell on Apr 9, 2017 16:27:54 GMT
Chris Evans as Captain America. I might as well be a teenage girl here, ngl. That scene when he comes out of the experiment chamber in TFA is positively droolworthy. No particular preference for eyes or hair colour, except I find long hair unattractive. You know that lady wasn't supposed to do that right? It wasn't in the script or anything, she just really wanted to touch his pecs and physically couldn't stop herself.
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Post by Salty Drell on Apr 9, 2017 16:14:49 GMT
This is more my ideal male body type: Sleek, smooth, toned, not bulky. The twinky, androgynous thing doesn't do anything for me. Go large or go home I say. My ideal Meanwhile I'm just here being a fan of all of them. So yeah, keep sharing.
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Post by Salty Drell on Apr 9, 2017 16:12:24 GMT
Oh really? What is it about him that doesn't do it for you? Because all types of men are equally good for me. I would come off as extremely shallow if I'd start listing all the things that are off for me lol. Ok. But that's fine though, you're allowed to have specific tastes.
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Post by Salty Drell on Apr 9, 2017 16:06:43 GMT
*cough* witchcocktor *cough* At this particular moment, in that particular photo, would you rather he be wearing a tight shirt, or stay like that with no shirt? Because duuuude if you say tight shirt, I still love ya man but damn... I don't find him attractive so it wouldn't matter either way :smh: Oh really? What is it about him that doesn't do it for you? Because all types of men are equally good for me.
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Post by Salty Drell on Apr 9, 2017 16:04:43 GMT
In terms of nice asses.. ice-skaters tend to have great one's. I guess it's all the jumping. Was bit distracting to follow worlds Yep! I hate sports, but I LOOOOVE mens ice-skating, mens gymnastics and mens olympic diving. Those bodies are perfected to absolute perfection. Muscles, but not too much. Yammy. I'm a big fan of these conversations. I mean we've really gone off the rails *sees ME in the far distance* but i don't care. Continue.
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Post by Salty Drell on Apr 9, 2017 15:57:09 GMT
I am a really big on ass, I love ass, but I'm not getting much of a reaction to Miranda's buttocks. I mean it's a wonderful specimen but it holds nothing to a well-sculpted, big, wide muscle ass. Does nothing for me :smh: I look more the waistline, I think. I hope I got the spoiler right. *cough* witchcocktor *cough* At this particular moment, in that particular photo, would you rather he be wearing a tight shirt, or stay like that with no shirt? Because duuuude if you say tight shirt, I still love ya man but damn...
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Post by Salty Drell on Apr 9, 2017 15:44:32 GMT
Yep, i can always trust you to bring the good ass. You know it! Also, sorta relevant. They're keeping their buns secure while doing their duties, i approve, and salute.
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Post by Salty Drell on Apr 9, 2017 15:41:10 GMT
Miranda is one of my favorite Mass Effect OT characters, in ME2 it was Garrus+Miranda for every mission... but yea, never made me question myself. Also I go to sleep and miss the Namekian discussion!? I'll just give you this.
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Post by Salty Drell on Apr 9, 2017 15:36:46 GMT
I am a really big on ass, I love ass, but I'm not getting much of a reaction to Miranda's buttocks. I mean it's a wonderful specimen but it holds nothing to a well-sculpted, big, wide muscle ass. Yep, i can always trust you to bring the good ass.
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Post by Salty Drell on Apr 9, 2017 15:31:35 GMT
Miranda did that to me a lot isnt even funny I yet to meet a female character that would make me question my sexuality in any way. Or any female in RL either. But I had to question a lot what in a gender I find sexually attractive, and found out it is not genitals. Maybe you are THAT much of a butt-man. (I hope you value my self-sacrifice when I attach this gif for you, it comes from heart) Yes same here. I've yet to see a female character or any female that has any appeal to me, it's just always been men for me, forever.
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Post by Salty Drell on Apr 9, 2017 14:01:27 GMT
Seems like Reyes is doing something to the straight men this time. Hahaha. This poor guy. He's trying so hard to "no homo" wanting to bang Reyes. Bless his heart. I'm sure Reyes is actually going to help a few men realise they're at least partially bi. It's quite beautiful.
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Post by Salty Drell on Apr 9, 2017 13:57:32 GMT
Seems like Reyes is doing something to the straight men this time. Reyes is the biggest fucking charmer in existence. Look what he's doing to straight guys even. I genuinely love him.
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