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Post by Salty Drell on Sept 25, 2017 6:58:18 GMT
No, it makes equal amount of sense if Kaidan is bisexual - which he is. It doesn't if you've romanced a female already. If you've had a relationship with a female as broshep why would he assume I'm flirting with him? I'm willing to bet you can have a fling with Jack and have romanced Liara or Miranda and he'd still ask if you were flirting with him. There is no indication Kaidan was interested in male Shepard in ME1. Yes, I know its because he's gender locked with the female. At least for the female Shepard, he kind of drops hints that he's interested in her from the start. So even if you don't pursue a romance with him, it seems more in line for him to try to flirt with her again in ME3 because he was already interested. I just felt it came out of nowhere on my playthrough and I didn't like the line. And also you meet Tali super late in ME3. If you have the dinner scene before you lock in the Tali romance he still asks you out. First time doing Tali's romance, I had no idea about this. It kind of just came out of nowhere and had me going wtf? Also wasn't a fan of that. It's just a guy showing an interest in you, like one time, in the entire trilogy. I don't know what to tell you man, other than any reasonable person can handle that without making a big deal out of it.
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Post by aoibhealfae on Sept 25, 2017 8:20:26 GMT
I think girls falling all over your Shepard's and Ryder's feet as a very Mass Effect thing, I don't feel it that way in DA or SWTOR or JE... I think only Isabela was that flirty... then again, she'd hit on everything on two legs. Then again, Kaidan is the kind of man who is forward if he is interested. But he could handle rejection just fine.... which is a trait everyone in general should learn from..
This week I'm taking a break from SWTOR to play the trilogy again. Felt like its a different game with 60 FPS but texmod get buggier with EGM installed. Strange how many people got so triggered that he's wearing red and white Phoenix heavy armor. Five minutes of screen time and an entire game of Shepard being miserable without him... I might redo the trilogy again for completionist sake but all I care was getting to ME3 as fast as I can. And I'm not disappointed. Gosh, love all the non-verbal communication between these two!!! I didn't realize how much I miss seeing it again. All the yearning looks, expressive eyes... the question, the trust, the gamble, the heartache... Funny how you can see the emotional progression of his character simply from scrolling down... Wished Bioware know the magic that they did with this romance that majority of the playerbase was ignorant about. Here's hoping Arcann would be as lovely.
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Post by Davrin's boobs on Sept 25, 2017 12:27:49 GMT
I think girls falling all over your Shepard's and Ryder's feet as a very Mass Effect thing, I don't feel it that way in DA or SWTOR or JE... I think only Isabela was that flirty... then again, she'd hit on everything on two legs. Then again, Kaidan is the kind of man who is forward if he is interested. But he could handle rejection just fine.... which is a trait everyone in general should learn from..
This week I'm taking a break from SWTOR to play the trilogy again. Felt like its a different game with 60 FPS but texmod get buggier with EGM installed. Strange how many people got so triggered that he's wearing red and white Phoenix heavy armor. Five minutes of screen time and an entire game of Shepard being miserable without him... I might redo the trilogy again for completionist sake but all I care was getting to ME3 as fast as I can. And I'm not disappointed. Gosh, love all the non-verbal communication between these two!!! I didn't realize how much I miss seeing it again. All the yearning looks, expressive eyes... the question, the trust, the gamble, the heartache... Funny how you can see the emotional progression of his character simply from scrolling down... Wished Bioware know the magic that they did with this romance that majority of the playerbase was ignorant about. Here's hoping Arcann would be as lovely. I love how you describe it your Shepard is beautiful too. Kaidan's romance is special at so many levels
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Post by dmc1001 on Sept 25, 2017 14:02:44 GMT
aoibhealfae: Red and white? Well, must be the computers I've used to play, because they're distinctly pink to me. Red is the stripe on Shepard's armor, pink is what we see in the Phoenix armor. Very difference shades. Note, though, that there's a guy in Nos Astra during Samara's recruitment mission who also wears the Phoenix armor. There's nothing wrong with the color schemes other than what we grew up with (blue denotes baby boy, pink denotes baby girl). Hell, I've out Wrex in phoenix armor. Maybe Garrus, too. But my own cultural biases tend to be against putting men in pink. However, since that armor isn't the best, no one stays in it for long. As for Kaidan, well, I'm making an assumption that BioWare had some general idea that it would be Ash or Liara most often and so left the same armor for all.
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Post by dgcatanisiri on Sept 25, 2017 15:45:31 GMT
Personally, my problem with the Pheonix armor is all that glaring white. It makes anyone wearing it stick out like a sore thumb. For Alliance soldiers, it's putting a gigantic target sign on their whole body, because how much combat takes place on planets heavy with snow? It's horrible for camouflage.
And I really don't get why Kaidan is in it during the prologue, considering that he HAS his old default armor on during Horizon. Like... Is a palette swap really that difficult?
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Post by aoibhealfae on Sept 25, 2017 15:46:29 GMT
dmc1001 I saw it the first time. Also I modded ME2 with all casuals and armor, it is default red/white, same as Ashley's actually (she only wore the pink version at Horizon which is why people assume Kaidan wore that armor). Then again, ME2 have this terrible orange/yellow tint that may screw with colour perception.
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Post by yan on Sept 25, 2017 16:37:29 GMT
the first time I played ME3, I did not like it at all that they simple turned Kaidan into bisexual. I do not like these sudden character changes, out of nowhere.
I stopped caring about this when I heard that he was always bi, but for some reason they cut out of this in the first ME. Was it some fear of controversy?
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Post by dmc1001 on Sept 25, 2017 18:21:48 GMT
Yes, they almost certainly feared fan reaction in ME1. But the dialogue is all there and has been uncovered.
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Post by yan on Sept 25, 2017 18:27:07 GMT
can't blame them. You go there and insert a gay character and it's already bombarded as a SJW company that hate hetero white people.
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Post by dmc1001 on Sept 25, 2017 19:49:53 GMT
can't blame them. You go there and insert a gay character and it's already bombarded as a SJW company that hate hetero white people. Not so sure that term was even in use in 2007 so I doubt it would have happened exactly as such. And I can blame them, just as I can blame them for the shitty homo content in MEA. They amended things later on in ME3 so I was happy but, yes, I can blame them.
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Post by dgcatanisiri on Sept 25, 2017 22:31:13 GMT
can't blame them. You go there and insert a gay character and it's already bombarded as a SJW company that hate hetero white people. Not so sure that term was even in use in 2007 so I doubt it would have happened exactly as such. And I can blame them, just as I can blame them for the shitty homo content in MEA. They amended things later on in ME3 so I was happy but, yes, I can blame them. Honestly, that excuse doesn't fly for me - Mass Effect, with no M/M options, was released in 2007, while Jade Empire, with one M/M option, was released in 2005. If they could have one in Jade Empire, there was no reason not to have one in Mass Effect. I'm of the opinion that his writer in ME1 didn't (and, since he's still employed by BioWare, still doesn't) WANT to write a 'gay' character. Like, the impression I get from him as a writer is that he has some 'I can't be homophobic, I have gay friends, I wrote a lesbian character!' issues to work out (plus there's the fact that Sera is written more like a frat boy's idea of a lesbian more than anything else). So when Kaidan became a bisexual romance, he didn't pick Kaidan back up, it was on someone else to write him in ME3. Like it's kinda notable in my eyes that, to the best of my knowledge, Sera is the only character he's written who is a same-sex romance option, despite being a writer for BioWare games since at least ME1. And his interview on how he 'always thought of Kaidan as bisexual' (back in January, I think), just feels disingenuous, since of course he can't actually say 'I didn't want him to be a male romance option' or people would call for his head (or at least his job).
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Post by yan on Sept 26, 2017 1:19:27 GMT
Also a possibilty.
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Post by dmc1001 on Sept 26, 2017 4:47:55 GMT
aoibhealfae : Just for clarity's sake on the color thing, there's this picture. Now, maybe they tweaked the color a bit for ME2, but it's clearly pink and white in ME1. Even if it's "pale scarlet" (Cosmic Boy of the Legion of Super-Heroes made that claim about his costume), it's still "pink" in the eyes of the average person. EDIT: Note the difference in color on Wrex's armor and that thing he's wearing on his head.
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Post by obbie1984 on Sept 26, 2017 6:12:41 GMT
It doesn't if you've romanced a female already. If you've had a relationship with a female as broshep why would he assume I'm flirting with him? I'm willing to bet you can have a fling with Jack and have romanced Liara or Miranda and he'd still ask if you were flirting with him. There is no indication Kaidan was interested in male Shepard in ME1. Yes, I know its because he's gender locked with the female. At least for the female Shepard, he kind of drops hints that he's interested in her from the start. So even if you don't pursue a romance with him, it seems more in line for him to try to flirt with her again in ME3 because he was already interested. I just felt it came out of nowhere on my playthrough and I didn't like the line. And also you meet Tali super late in ME3. If you have the dinner scene before you lock in the Tali romance he still asks you out. First time doing Tali's romance, I had no idea about this. It kind of just came out of nowhere and had me going wtf? Also wasn't a fan of that. The same question could be asked of Liara and Ashley if they weren't romanced in the first game but someone else was romanced in the second. Why is Kaidan being singled out? Because this a thread about Kaidan. I didn't like it when Liara or Peebee made sexual advances at me either. But obviously they don't apply in a thread about Kaidan.
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Post by obbie1984 on Sept 26, 2017 6:18:08 GMT
It doesn't if you've romanced a female already. If you've had a relationship with a female as broshep why would he assume I'm flirting with him? I'm willing to bet you can have a fling with Jack and have romanced Liara or Miranda and he'd still ask if you were flirting with him. There is no indication Kaidan was interested in male Shepard in ME1. Yes, I know its because he's gender locked with the female. At least for the female Shepard, he kind of drops hints that he's interested in her from the start. So even if you don't pursue a romance with him, it seems more in line for him to try to flirt with her again in ME3 because he was already interested. I just felt it came out of nowhere on my playthrough and I didn't like the line. And also you meet Tali super late in ME3. If you have the dinner scene before you lock in the Tali romance he still asks you out. First time doing Tali's romance, I had no idea about this. It kind of just came out of nowhere and had me going wtf? Also wasn't a fan of that. It's just a guy showing an interest in you, like one time, in the entire trilogy. I don't know what to tell you man, other than any reasonable person can handle that without making a big deal out of it. Who's making a big deal? I just said I didn't like it and I was trying to understand why that happened. aoibhealfae explained the situation to me and we could have left well enough alone. Kaidan being bisexual just feels really shoe horned in so there is another gay romance choice. Is it that wrong to not like a bit of dialogue by a character you like? I should also mention, I am still new to the series. And I went in knowing next to nothing about romances or characters or whatever. So this came off as very surprising and I just didn't like it.
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Post by aoibhealfae on Sept 26, 2017 7:10:27 GMT
Kaidan did wear a red and white armor and it still showed under normal light during the cutscene. Heck, if you wear that exact shade of pink, the colour wouldn't show that dark in amber light... it will be washout light brown orange. Which is why Ashley wear red and white armor as well. . dustiesmasseffect.tumblr.com/post/143775132249/kaidan-romance-and-me1/embed" I spoke with Lukas Kristjanson (write of Kaidan in ME1) this weekend, and learned something about the ‘Kaidan was supposed to be an LI in ME1′ debate surrounding the pre-recorded romance lines by Meer. Lukas admitted that Kaidan was never intended to be a same-sex LI in ME1, and that this wasn’t some malicious plot from the higher-ups who yanked it at the last second for some reason. He did tell me that he never thought Kaidan was straight, and that he always thought he’d be open to loving a man (and thought that discrimination based on sexuality while in space would be odd), but never explained why he was never an option in ME1. He did, however, explain why Meer recorded the lines (and why Hale recorded for the Ashley romance as well). This was the first time that Bioware had ever had a voiced protagonist, and their technology was still a bit crude. They didn’t have the ability at the time to flag the dialogue as either ‘male’ or ‘female’, and so they had the VA’s record ALL of the lines for the game so they could use what they needed and scrap what they didn’t later on. This made it so the VA’s would just come in, record all the dialogue, and then Bioware didn’t need to call them back into the studio to do more lines after they developed their dialogue technology a little more. Basically, it saved them time and money to record everything and just cut what they didn’t need later on. Lukas pointed out that the dialogue that Meer read was all female dialogue, and that Sbarge never recorded dialogue with male pronouns. But Lukas said he was thrilled when Kaidan was made available to Male Shepards in ME3, and even though he didn’t get to write Kaidan for the game (he’d moved on to Dragon Age full-time by that point), he thought the new writer did a fantastic job of making the romance a natural progression from friends to lovers. He really enjoyed the male romance with Kaidan. " There is no conspiracy, its just that they never considered their manly MaleShep as anything but default straight male video game protagonist. They even halfheartedly made FemShep that when you create a new character, you won't see the option to play as her. She's just a placeholder female character like all their games. What's more even more strange was the lack of M/M romance in ME2 since Dragon Age Origins and Dragon Age 2 already offered Zevran, Anders and Fenris by then. ME2's writers and players never seem to realize Miranda and Oriana are Henry Lawson's clones, was genetically altered to appear as women. Rather than explore this aspect of her, the game simply want you to view Miranda's body sexually in every frame. Try watching Orphan Black and imagine Miranda being aware of the existence of her other clones. Then again. most of the meaningful aspects in Mass Effect series was the ones they unintentionally create.
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Post by Salty Drell on Sept 26, 2017 7:13:55 GMT
It's just a guy showing an interest in you, like one time, in the entire trilogy. I don't know what to tell you man, other than any reasonable person can handle that without making a big deal out of it. Who's making a big deal? I just said I didn't like it and I was trying to understand why that happened. aoibhealfae explained the situation to me and we could have left well enough alone. Kaidan being bisexual just feels really shoe horned in so there is another gay romance choice. Is it that wrong to not like a bit of dialogue by a character you like? I should also mention, I am still new to the series. And I went in knowing next to nothing about romances or characters or whatever. So this came off as very surprising and I just didn't like it. New huh? Well you've started off by trying to argue that it doesn't make sense for a bisexual character to act bisexual, and you said you're glad Ashley stayed straightwashed, even though if she was bisexual it wouldn't affect you in the slightest, or change anything for you, so there is no good reason for you to be against that. I'll be honest, not off to a great start.
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Post by sageoflife on Sept 26, 2017 8:08:49 GMT
The same question could be asked of Liara and Ashley if they weren't romanced in the first game but someone else was romanced in the second. Why is Kaidan being singled out? Because this a thread about Kaidan. I didn't like it when Liara or Peebee made sexual advances at me either. But obviously they don't apply in a thread about Kaidan. Does this mean you are making the same complaints in those threads?
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Post by Salty Drell on Sept 26, 2017 15:04:29 GMT
Because this a thread about Kaidan. I didn't like it when Liara or Peebee made sexual advances at me either. But obviously they don't apply in a thread about Kaidan. Does this mean you are making the same complaints in those threads? Most likely no.
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Post by Davrin's boobs on Sept 26, 2017 16:48:40 GMT
I dont trust ME team, and we know by gaycaravaggio that no having a m/m squadmate in MEA was intentional to not hurt dudebros's minds, in 20 freaking 17, so I will be taking with a grain of salt the official statement about Kaidan in ME1, because in that time Casey Hudson said Shepard couldnt be gay and the Asari werent females thus asari are not lesbian options even though the codex explicitly say that they are a monogendered female race. Anyway ME team sucks, Casey Hudson sucks In defence of Sera's writer, I've only heard good things from queer women about her romance, some of them just dont like her because she's childish or "annoying", but her sex scene is treated with a lot of respect and no male gaze unlike other f/f options. Anyway please, let's gush over this lovely man and forget the rest.
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Post by dmc1001 on Sept 26, 2017 18:56:59 GMT
What's more even more strange was the lack of M/M romance in ME2 since Dragon Age Origins and Dragon Age 2 already offered Zevran, Anders and Fenris by then. ME2's writers and players never seem to realize Miranda and Oriana are Henry Lawson's clones, was genetically altered to appear as women. Rather than explore this aspect of her, the game simply want you to view Miranda's body sexually in every frame. Try watching Orphan Black and imagine Miranda being aware of the existence of her other clones. Not that different. People who are interested in a space sci-fi series aren't necessarily the same people who follow a fantasy series. They could think that gays would be more drawn to fantasy books than space opera. Also, keep in mind that in the US, gays weren't even allowed to openly serve in the military when the MET came out. Hence, the idea of Kaidan as a love interest for male Shepard probably wasn't there. (Yes, I read what you relayed about lack of conspiracy.) Fortunately for me and other gay men, the dialogue was recorded and was able to be restored to allow for that romance to exist. Unless you're gay, you probably can't conceive of what it's like to not see representation of your life appear in the things you love, particularly in the genres that appeal to you. A big giant void where I could identify. I'm not saying I dislike anything that only shows opposite sex relationships but it's so much more when I see some representation in which I can identify. So, forgive me if I feel absolutely no pity for someone who found it being jarring to be flirted with by someone of the same sex. These are things me and other LGBT people have to put up with all the time. All the people who always assume I'm straight. So, I don't care whether or not Kaidan being bisexual was shoehorned in. It gave me something I could relate to, a relationship I could identify with. It doesn't "steal" him from straight people so deal with it.
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Post by dmc1001 on Sept 26, 2017 18:59:38 GMT
It's just a guy showing an interest in you, like one time, in the entire trilogy. I don't know what to tell you man, other than any reasonable person can handle that without making a big deal out of it. Who's making a big deal? I just said I didn't like it and I was trying to understand why that happened. aoibhealfae explained the situation to me and we could have left well enough alone. Kaidan being bisexual just feels really shoe horned in so there is another gay romance choice. Is it that wrong to not like a bit of dialogue by a character you like? I should also mention, I am still new to the series. And I went in knowing next to nothing about romances or characters or whatever. So this came off as very surprising and I just didn't like it. Boo hoo for you, not getting your favorite character to be 100% straight. I have no empathy for you. I got jackshit until Kaidan was made bisexual.
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Post by obbie1984 on Sept 26, 2017 21:55:55 GMT
Who's making a big deal? I just said I didn't like it and I was trying to understand why that happened. aoibhealfae explained the situation to me and we could have left well enough alone. Kaidan being bisexual just feels really shoe horned in so there is another gay romance choice. Is it that wrong to not like a bit of dialogue by a character you like? I should also mention, I am still new to the series. And I went in knowing next to nothing about romances or characters or whatever. So this came off as very surprising and I just didn't like it. New huh? Well you've started off by trying to argue that it doesn't make sense for a bisexual character to act bisexual, and you said you're glad Ashley stayed straightwashed, even though if she was bisexual it wouldn't affect you in the slightest, or change anything for you, so there is no good reason for you to be against that. I'll be honest, not off to a great start. He wasn't bisexual to start off with. That is my problem. I'm glad it didn't happen to Ashley because it would remind me of DA2 where everyone was bisexual just to please everyone. It makes the characters feel unique if everyone was different. It would also feel like it came out of nowhere just like it did for Kaidan. If Kaidan/Ashley were bisexual from the start, I'd have no issue with it. Its the same reason why I have no problem with Leiliena. She is clearly stated as being bisexual in DAO and I romanced her. But Kaidan wasn't from the start, and it came out of nowhere. That is ultimately my issue. Can you at least understand where I am coming from with that? If not, then there is no point in talking about this any further.
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Post by obbie1984 on Sept 26, 2017 22:01:24 GMT
Because this a thread about Kaidan. I didn't like it when Liara or Peebee made sexual advances at me either. But obviously they don't apply in a thread about Kaidan. Does this mean you are making the same complaints in those threads? Actually, I have mentioned this about Liara multiple times on other threads on how much I hate her and how much I can't stand how Bioware tries to force her romance on to you. I may not have done it on the specific character thread. But I'm not going to go on a thread for a character I don't like. And before you say "why are you doing it in a Kaidan thread?" Unlike Liara, I actually like Kaidan. You should also know that I have said nothing but positive things about Kaidan before on this same thread before my one small complaint that people are blowing out of proportion. As for Peebee, I just don't care enough about MEA to do that.
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Post by obbie1984 on Sept 26, 2017 22:11:50 GMT
Who's making a big deal? I just said I didn't like it and I was trying to understand why that happened. aoibhealfae explained the situation to me and we could have left well enough alone. Kaidan being bisexual just feels really shoe horned in so there is another gay romance choice. Is it that wrong to not like a bit of dialogue by a character you like? I should also mention, I am still new to the series. And I went in knowing next to nothing about romances or characters or whatever. So this came off as very surprising and I just didn't like it. Boo hoo for you, not getting your favorite character to be 100% straight. I have no empathy for you. I got jackshit until Kaidan was made bisexual. Kaidan isn't my favorite character and I wasn't asking for empathy. That was not the point. Yes, it sucks that you had no choices until ME3 and I wouldn't like that either. You also said if you aren't gay you can't understand what its like not being able to identify with things you love. While I can't understand the gay part, I can understand not being able to identify with things you love. I cannot identify with most video games at all. While I am American, characters of my nationality are usually seen as NPCs with a timer on their head, a typical stereotype, or are not represented at all. At least gay males are starting to get some representation. While its not the same as sexuality, I can still sort of relate. I even served in the military and while I liked it, it was hard because I was ostracized for being different. Something as simple as me being vegetarian was a huge issue. So, I do kind of understand you even if its different circumstances. But on topic, I've stated before that my problem lies with it coming out of nowhere. It also doesn't take your romance into consideration from past games either. I remember a few females saying they found it creepy that Kaidan was hitting on their femshep when they had romanced Garrus or Thane in ME2. To me, its the same deal. I had no issues with Zevran because it was stated clearly that he played both sides. What I DIDN'T like was when I tried to say it wasn't a big deal about Zevran thinking I was handsome, I was somehow the object of his desire (potential romance). Then I got a large amount of disapproval points for telling him I'm breaking off our relationship? That was very weird to me. At least that doesn't happen with Kaidan.
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