If the original trilogy was remastered how would you approach the romances?

Will they have to, though? Rondeeno managed his same sex romance mod very nicely without adding extra content. He just worked with unused content. The one and only thing missing was the post-coital scene because that had never been created. Otherwise, altering romance flags seems to make things work just fine. In ME1 in particular, Meers and Hale said all the same lines, even the ones they'd never use in the game.

It imports nicely into ME2 but there's a bit of unvoiced dialog in ME3 that would have to be fixed as well as allowing Shep and Kaidan to "remember" their previous romance when they go on a date at Apollos's.

I should have said this right off the bat, but more gay options in the first and second game. Maybe if Cortez was introduced sooner in the first game, maybe if Jenkins could have survived as an option and as a teammate, I don't know, but as much as I complain about the heterosexual options for a Femshep, gay guys had worse over two games. If Garrus was bi, I'd be ok with that because it'd be far better than to hear how heartbroken some guys were in not getting to romance him. I don't know what the answer is, but at least Andromeda addressed it a little.

Don’t go against the lore you had back in 1 and cut Garrus and tail as romances

add more one night stand side pieces 

hannar and krogon romances can happen 

Jenkins as a romance option??  Omg can you imagine the fanfics?
I'd pick Cortez being introduced earlier or Kaidan being bi from the get go.  

As for me I'd have flirting with Garrus and Tali in ME1 to build up to their ME2 romances, and Vega introduced as an alliance associate in ME2 so femShep has more options.

That's true, it would've had far more impact even if he'd died in the intro in .....I wanna say Vancouver?  Then Steve would leave knowing he couldn't save him.

I can't get past the way Jenkins says 'gorgeous'.   Cracks me up every time.

Heck yeah, I can think of at least a dozen times when that toothbrush would've come in super handy.

Or, we could have Jenkins head off to save A or K and die doing so. Then Shepard saves the other one. We get both of them alive, which would please me greatly.

I know that goes well beyond remaster into remake territory, but I'd love to see it happen.

I would leave them mostly unchanged. Though I think there could have been some artistic or creative way to make the ME3 romance scenes better. It looks really silly that you are having sex and sleeping together in your underwear in ME3. I'd prefer if they found some creative way to avoid showing nudity in the scenes by using clever camera angles or something. It looked silly when you were in your underwear in DAO and it looks just as dumb in ME3. ME1 did it well even if media had a fit about it over nothing.

I think Ash's romance in ME3 could have been improved a bit personally. The writing is a bit poor in some areas. Make Kaidan romanceable for both genders right out of the gate. Have both Ash/Kaidan have more involvement in ME2 if they are your romance in some meaningful way. Give Jack and Miranda more content because they barely are involved with Shepard in ME3. Also allow them to get in on the Citadel DLC so I can avoid Liara "coming to my rescue."

Fix that obnoxious Liara crap where being nice to her makes her think you love her. I still wouldn't be nice to her, but I quit two playthroughs because of this garbage. Also, stop having Shepard be friendly to Liara if you aren't friends with her. Its odd that in LoTSB DLC I act all buddy buddy with her (against my will), but I am rude to her when given the option. Same in ME3. My Shepards always smile when they first see her, but are very curt and rude everywhere else she isn't forced on me. It makes it seem like my Shepard has a split personality when it comes to Liara.

And most importantly, I WANT KASUMI. I want to make Kasumi my Mass Effect bae so badly Bioware.

Indeed. That's why I never talk or bring her on missions. Hell, I always get her last in ME1.

Remember Dragon age 2 your Romance partner got a unique look, well I would like to see our romance partner get a unique alternate appearance,

Maybe let us have em move into the cabin if we want as well and chill out in the apartment you get in 3

I'm tempted to say unchanged, however I wouldn't be against them going for a little more realism. That isn't to say make it hardcore or anything like that, but removing immersion-breaking stuff like taking showers with underwear on etc wouldn't be a bad thing.