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Post by Fen'Harel Faceman on Mar 5, 2017 16:54:23 GMT
Have you held an actual conversation with these types? Well actually I guess that's a silly question since you're doing so right now. I won't claim to be particularly active in the movement but I do consider myself a feminist whose beliefs include concepts from the movement's third wave. I don't think it's particularly extreme to suggest that aspects of a person like their sex, gender, orientation, skin color, religion, and the combinations thereof might play a role in how certain policies affect them. Misandry I haven't found to be that common. I will agree with you on the bias towards addressing problems that women face over the ones that men face. But there are more people like me than you might realize. And even if you still want to consider feminism a special advocacy group, many of the things they advocate for are actual issues of equality. So it still isn't actually a bad thing. As for criticism of strict egalitarianism, I'm reminded of a quote that stuck with me from a gender studies lecture: "In its majestic equality, the law forbids rich and poor alike to sleep under bridges, beg in the streets and steal loaves of bread." I object to identity politics. the notion that a person should be judged and given special dispensations according to race, skin color, or gender is abhorrent to me. It leads nowhere good. Egalitarianism is about equality. FEMinism is about the advocacy of female interests.
Broadly speaking, females are equal in the eyes of the law in the west. There admittedly some cultural problems yet that prevents true equality, but that is hardly exclusive to females, our society is not perfect, and males face problems specific to the male gender as well, from matters of longevity and suicide rates, to the fact that males are treated more harshly in court, to other matters.
Modern feminists, like other types of SJW, tend to focus on small issues and "micro aggressions" and blow them out of any reasonable proportion, if it's "manspreading", female representation in video games (which is varied and nuanced these days), and other "crucial" problems.
They act as slacktivists and armchair rebels and enjoy the good life in the west, while ignoring for the most part REAL widespread problems such as female genital mutilation, or the hardcore misogyny women in Islamic countries face, because to improve these issues would require more than ranting on Tumblr.
Which is how you get absurdities like this:
I'd be curious to know which feminist texts you've been exposed to that would give you this impression. Modern 'third wave' (or perhaps fourth wave, depending on how you choose to delineate things) feminists are the least violent and aggressive feminists in history. I'm talking here about western feminism, of course, there is a greater militancy involved in feminist movements in countries already wracked with political violence etc for obvious reasons. The general reason that 'egalitarianism' is denounced is not out of some misandric agenda, but rather for the same reason that 'all lives matter' is denounced. Essentially the word reorients the issue around an ideal that, although arguably noble, isn't practical on the level of tackling the problems in question. Just as 'all lives matter' obfuscates the issue of the unlawful execution of black men specifically, egalitarianism distracts from the fact that in most regards, it is still women that experience the majority of institutional sexism. Furthermore, it often transpires that even in the instances in which men are affected more harshly than women (sentencing disparity in court for example) the reasons are rooted in the intellectual ideas of feminism. As such, men can be served more effectively by tackling the issue through a feminist lens. To return to the example of sentencing disparity, research has shown that this can be rectified by increasing the proportion of female judges as they are less inclined to look upon female criminals with a paternalistic eye and give them sentences that match their male counterparts. I appreciate that it can be difficult to discuss issues such as these in the modern internet environment, but I assure you, feminism isn't the authoritarian boogeyman it is portrayed as and egalitarian notions are welcomed in the discussion, even if the word is disparaged somewhat. Modern feminism is the "least violent"? Should I be thankful that they are not strapping themselves with suicide bombs? If we are talking about the level of rhetoric here, calling modern feminists "non violent" is laughable.
Misandry is common, and the hyperbole is practically out of control. At least from what I have seen from feminists on YouTube, and other hives of villainy.
You can denounce "all lives matter" all you want. I think that it's a perfect counter-phrase. Because that issue is hardly as simple as "unlawful execution of black man", the situation is much more complicated than that. You are ignoring how many of these "unlawfully executed black man" were criminals (of the type that often shoot and kill cops), the number of cops killed by black man, the high rate of crime in many black communities, individuals who were shot because they refused to comply with an officer and acted in suspicious manner, etc.
You can't take all these things and disconnect them from the reality cops operate in or the level of danger they are exposed to every day, and then make grand claims about it.
Mind you, less people would object to something like: "Black lives matter too", this statement as opposed to the original statement is obvious, and entirely unobjectionable.
Institutional sexism doesn't exist. Just like institutional racism doesn't exist. This is a common feminist buzzword which is completely disconnected from reality. Institutional sexism exists for example in a country like Saudi-Arabia, where there are different laws in regards to women that are there to restrict and force specific rules on women.
As long as men and women are equal in the face of the law, institutional sexism does not exist. Individuals can be racist or sexist (like many feminists or BLM activists for example, but not only of course).
Feminism, like much of the regressive left, when they refer to "equality", they mean equality of outcome. No matter what you have to do to achieve this.
Egalitarianism is about equality of opportunity. Rather that creating quotas for female judges, or whatever, you allow women (and men) the same opportunities, and sort the rest out via the usual methods, ideally a meritocratic process.
The difference between the two is that the first is an authoritarian approach (akin to communism), and the latter is a gentler, more libertarian approach, that accounts for the freedoms of the individual.
If less females choose to go into law or the STEM sciences, there are going to be less females in positions that require these things, there is no justice in trying to artificially enforce equality in these fields. What you CAN do is encourage more females to choose these fields of study, if you can that is, because like it or not, on average males and females have different fields of interest.
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Post by alanc9 on Mar 5, 2017 17:04:48 GMT
What's the actual ME:A ratio, anyway? Do we even have the information to establish one data point?
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Post by noviere on Mar 5, 2017 17:07:23 GMT
Wow... This thread is something else.
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Post by vonuber on Mar 5, 2017 17:16:12 GMT
Institutions can be sexist, just like they can be racist or anything else. The culture of an institution has, by and large, nothing to do with the law but with the history of the institution and the culture within it.
Saying 'it's just a few individuals' is so naive it's untrue. We have for example numerous example in the UK of the culture within poll forces of being racist or sexist or whatever, and that being part of the accepted culture of the organisation.
The only reason you would say that isn't true is to try and reduce and belittle the problem and pass it off as a few bad eggs that ruin the equal utopia we would have if not for them.
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Post by warbaby2 on Mar 5, 2017 17:26:13 GMT
Amen, sister. Toyish Batphone , it means both, men and women, we must take responsability when we see unjustice. And we both, men and women, can be helped when unjustice and danger are upon us. So yeah, you are right in one part but at the same time it doesn't eliminate the responsability you have with other human beings. The difference is now the responsability is shared also with women, with all the good things and the bad things attached. I'm sure that writing a big text on Facebook isn't helping anyone. Indeed... forget CEO positions and STEM studies, I'll be convinced when half of all sewage workers and garbage collectors are women and half of all nurses and teachers are men (again, in the latter case)... until then I call BS on the whole "equality of opportunity" notion, and rather call it what it is: The exploitation of our species base gynocentric nature to further Marxist, leftist, "equality of outcome" politics and social engineering for the personal gain of a select view elites... just as it has always been. You can only pander so long to a minority or special interest group, until the general population catches on and pushes back... that's actual social justice. Then again, we are still talking computer games here, so. *shrugs*
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Post by alanc9 on Mar 5, 2017 17:35:19 GMT
If men are too stupid to go for the nursing and teaching jobs, whose fault is that?
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Post by warbaby2 on Mar 5, 2017 17:41:13 GMT
If men are too stupid to go for the nursing and teaching jobs, whose fault is that? You are a guy, right? You ever tried to talk to lone kid on a playground? Thought so... ...also: So much progressive, I'm impressed! Imagine anyone saying that about women and engineering... makes just as much sense, but the reaction would be VERY different. You kids really need to get out more.
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Post by Hier0phant on Mar 5, 2017 17:42:10 GMT
If men are too stupid to go for the nursing and teaching jobs, whose fault is that? The same could be said of women who ignore STEM, law enforcement, construction, and sanitation fields.
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Post by vonuber on Mar 5, 2017 17:42:22 GMT
You are a guy, right? You ever tried to talk to lone kid on a playground? Yes, often. And?
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Post by Hier0phant on Mar 5, 2017 17:47:24 GMT
You are a guy, right? You ever tried to talk to lone kid on a playground? Yes, often. And?
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Post by vonuber on Mar 5, 2017 17:50:47 GMT
I know you trying to be humourous but this whole 'men can't talk to children with being accused of being a paedophile' is complete bollocks, and is used to only further a 'poor men having it tough compared to women' agenda. It's asinine.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 5, 2017 17:51:34 GMT
In my opinion, this thread is basically the embodiment of what I dont like about this forum A few people acting like they know what theyre talking about, misunderstanding what things actually mean and being paranoid about enemies theyre imagining (well, technically not, more exaggerating to the point where they become enemies)... I mean... dude, seriously... it doesnt matter whether a man or a woman is in charge, MEA is a work of fiction, just because there are some high-ranking women doesnt equate to feminism, and especially not some kind of female supremacy (by the same logic, BioWare is trying to push a pro-male agenda in the earlier games... I mean, I havent finished the trilogy yet entirely, but theres LOTS of guys in charge in the ME universe that Ive seen, and lots of guys in charge in the DA games also)... just like having LGBTQ characters doesnt mean youre pushing any kind of agenda... theyre just there, theyre just characters... if theyre in leadership positions it means theyre good at their jobs in-universe, thats all... and choosing someone else might mean they would be worse at that jobs, and personally, I think jobs should be given on skill and not gender
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Post by Lady Artifice on Mar 5, 2017 17:53:35 GMT
I'm mostly with you. But there is the argument that currently there isn't quite an equality of opportunity because of latent biases within the industry. That may or may not be the case (I haven't done the research myself) but in the event that it is, that would be an argument in favor of more policies that directly compensate for it. That's nice in theory, but how do we know that this is true? And if it's true in one place it hardly means that everywhere is similar.
The point is that the general push should be towards egalitarianism and general equality, because the feminists are not going to stop.
There's no point that signifies for them that "okay that's enough, we achieved what we needed to achieve" they would just continue pushing. You would hear arguments that since in the past men were dominant, it would be right for women to take their turn now.
This is why people refer to the extreme left and various SJW groups as "regressive", because they have regressed from classic liberal ideas of true equality and freedom of the individual into a new type of "progressive" authoritarianism.
Even today, in the west women are equal in practically everything. How many things are there that a woman can't do in the west? What sexism that does exists is merely on the individual level. Yet from the way many feminists talk, you would think that women in the west are forced to wear hijab and are flogged if they refuse, both of which are true by the way, just not in the west.
The thing is, philosophies like the belief in equal treatment don't have to be limited to a regional area. Just because it's been legally achieved in the west doesn't mean that many of us stop caring on a global scale. Just because we're grateful for what we have doesn't mean that we stop caring about cultural mindsets, or the situation for people who aren't so fortunate. A capitalist is still a capitalist if they live in a capitalist society. The term still applies to them. It's the same for us.
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Post by Giant Ambush Beetle on Mar 5, 2017 18:04:21 GMT
And thats exactly the kind of thinking that makes the feminist movement appear so stupid and childish nowadays. Swapping one dominance with another isn't going to make people equal, balance isn't achieved by relying on extremes. If both men and women have an equal chance of being leaders, then there will inevitably be periods when either men or women appear to predominate. You need a decent sample size to see if there's a real bias going on. There being 4 high ranking women in the game isn't an "extreme". It only seems like one because our society still makes us expect leaders to be male by default. I think it IS an extreme if all the vastly different top positions are held by women - as I said, I would say the same thing if it were all men. There is no reason to believe that one gender must dominate in all the leadership positions, well, unless we are going to resurrect the 1900's in reverse where men are the oppressed gender this time. I think the human race has evolved out of this weirdness, in ME in the year 2185.
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Post by keiji on Mar 5, 2017 18:06:57 GMT
More girls to bang in the game, Bioware is life.
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Post by warbaby2 on Mar 5, 2017 18:07:05 GMT
That's nice in theory, but how do we know that this is true? And if it's true in one place it hardly means that everywhere is similar.
The point is that the general push should be towards egalitarianism and general equality, because the feminists are not going to stop.
There's no point that signifies for them that "okay that's enough, we achieved what we needed to achieve" they would just continue pushing. You would hear arguments that since in the past men were dominant, it would be right for women to take their turn now.
This is why people refer to the extreme left and various SJW groups as "regressive", because they have regressed from classic liberal ideas of true equality and freedom of the individual into a new type of "progressive" authoritarianism.
Even today, in the west women are equal in practically everything. How many things are there that a woman can't do in the west? What sexism that does exists is merely on the individual level. Yet from the way many feminists talk, you would think that women in the west are forced to wear hijab and are flogged if they refuse, both of which are true by the way, just not in the west.
The thing is, philosophies like the belief in equal treatment don't have to be limited to a regional area. Just because it's been legally achieved in the west doesn't mean that many of us stop caring on a global scale. Just because we're grateful for what we have doesn't mean that we stop caring about cultural mindsets, or the situation for people who aren't so fortunate. A capitalist is still a capitalist if they live in a capitalist society. The term still applies to them. It's the same for us. Aside the fact that only in a capitalist, Judaeo-christian society, we could have even gotten to where we are now (including the legal and economic equality of women), I don't see much being done by the feminist/regressive left to help actual oppressed groups in other societies. All we did see over the last couple of years was pandering and b'tching about first world problems... oh, and shaming, of course. I'll not even touch upon the recent "alliance" between feminism and one of the most oppressive and backwards philosophies we still have left on this planets... Democratic Capitalism might not be a the best system, but it's the system that worked... for now. Socialism and all it's more extreme abrasions never have worked consistently before... and it killed more people then Christianity and the Nazis taken together.
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Post by Andrew Lucas on Mar 5, 2017 18:08:05 GMT
If men are too stupid to go for the nursing and teaching jobs, whose fault is that? If someone said the same in regards to women and STEM would it be considered misogynistic? Yes, but we don't complain about that, meanwhile - patriarchy is stealing our jobs, see my boobs! I love Mass Effect.
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Post by Lady Artifice on Mar 5, 2017 18:09:26 GMT
The thing is, philosophies like the belief in equal treatment don't have to be limited to a regional area. Just because it's been legally achieved in the west doesn't mean that many of us stop caring on a global scale. Just because we're grateful for what we have doesn't mean that we stop caring about cultural mindsets, or the situation for people who aren't so fortunate. A capitalist is still a capitalist if they live in a capitalist society. The term still applies to them. It's the same for us. I'm afraid I'm missing the point here. I never claimed that women had equal rights in places like Islamic countries, in fact I said the opposite.
My point was that many feminist claims in regards to the west, are true in places such as this, but not in the west. (claims of "institutional sexism")
I'm arguing that the generalization about feminists as a whole is flawed. That we can and do care about what happens in non western areas, and that when terms like institutional sexism is used, it is often in reference to events of the past, or non western areas. I'm sorry you've encountered female supremacists. That sounds awful. But we're not all like that.
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Post by warbaby2 on Mar 5, 2017 18:13:39 GMT
I'm afraid I'm missing the point here. I never claimed that women had equal rights in places like Islamic countries, in fact I said the opposite.
My point was that many feminist claims in regards to the west, are true in places such as this, but not in the west. (claims of "institutional sexism")
I'm arguing that the generalization about feminists as a whole is flawed. That we can and do care about what happens in non western areas, and that when terms like institutional sexism is used, it is often in reference to events of the past, or non western areas. I'm sorry you've encountered female supremacists. That sounds awful. But we're not like that. The whole "the vocal minority isn't all of us" argument... ok, I agree, but then it's on you to reign those loons in, not let them rise into positions of academic and state power, where they already are quite entrenched.
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Post by Lady Artifice on Mar 5, 2017 18:24:24 GMT
The thing is, philosophies like the belief in equal treatment don't have to be limited to a regional area. Just because it's been legally achieved in the west doesn't mean that many of us stop caring on a global scale. Just because we're grateful for what we have doesn't mean that we stop caring about cultural mindsets, or the situation for people who aren't so fortunate. A capitalist is still a capitalist if they live in a capitalist society. The term still applies to them. It's the same for us. Aside the fact that only in a capitalist, Judaeo-christian society, we could have even gotten to where we are now (including the legal and economic equality of women), I don't see much being done by the feminist/regressive left to help actual oppressed groups in other societies. All we did see over the last couple of years was pandering and b'tching about first world problems... oh, and shaming, of course. I'll not even touch upon the recent "alliance" between feminism and one of the most oppressive and backwards philosophies we still have left on this planets... There's been lots happening in non western areas recently regarding equal opportunities. Malala Youfsafzai is what I believe to be the best example of activism of that breed outside of the west. The Taliban shot her for advocating education rights. She's a hugely prominent figure, even for women in the west, who don't suffer the same degree of danger for advocating equality. The best we can generally contribute is information and financial support. Um...I'm not arguing against capitalism. I am a capitalist. Hence my using it as an example of how a label can apply to a person even within a society that already embodies that label.
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Post by warbaby2 on Mar 5, 2017 18:26:35 GMT
I know you trying to be humourous but this whole 'men can't talk to children with being accused of being a paedophile' is complete bollocks, and is used to only further a 'poor men having it tough compared to women' agenda. It's asinine. Hardly. That's quite real. I remember going to buy groceries in a supermarket, there was a little girl crying there, she lost her parents apparently.
I approached her to find out what's going on and to try and help, a few minutes later the father FINALLY came back, and by the way he was looking at me it looked like he made that assumption.
...and I can't blame him. Being a father myself, and seeing how men have been portrayed over the past decades, these thoughts are so utterly ingrained in all of us, we don't even question them anymore. On the topic of "men have such a hard life compared to women", I can only say two things: 1) Women still have no clue about men, just as the other way around... no amount of gender studies will change that. 2) So, 1 in 3 women will experience violence in her life, well, using the same metrics, it would be 1 in 1 men... I think that's still a quite privileged position, right? Actually, I'm pretty convinced western society would seize to exist if people actually realized how men work compared to women... that we can be/are just as valuable and vulnerable as women... society - humanity - needs men to be "those that can take it"... and all we ever needed in return was acknowledgement/respect. I'll leave it to imagination what would happen if that dynamic no longer worked... @lady Artifice: Ops, sorry, I misunderstood your position, my bad.
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Post by oniangel on Mar 5, 2017 18:29:52 GMT
All the more women for a male focused audience to bang. I feel sorry for all those who want more males to bang.
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Post by Lady Artifice on Mar 5, 2017 18:33:21 GMT
I'm arguing that the generalization about feminists as a whole is flawed. That we can and do care about what happens in non western areas, and that when terms like institutional sexism is used, it is often in reference to events of the past, or non western areas. I'm sorry you've encountered female supremacists. That sounds awful. But we're not like that. The whole "the vocal minority isn't all of us" argument... ok, I agree, but then it's on you to reign those loons in, not let them rise into positions of academic and state power, where they already are quite entrenched. Except no it's not. I'm not responsible for anyone's actions but my own. Even if it were theoretically possible for me to control other people with a comparable philosophy to mine, that would be rather adverse to the point of the philosophy to begin with.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 5, 2017 18:39:54 GMT
Hardly. That's quite real. I remember going to buy groceries in a supermarket, there was a little girl crying there, she lost her parents apparently.
I approached her to find out what's going on and to try and help, a few minutes later the father FINALLY came back, and by the way he was looking at me it looked like he made that assumption.
...and I can't blame him. Being a father myself, and seeing how men have been portrayed over the past decades, these thoughts are so utterly ingrained in all of us, we don't even question them anymore. On the topic of "men have such a hard life compared to women", I can only say two things: 1) Women still have no clue about men, just as the other way around... no amount of gender studies will change that. 2) So, 1 in 3 women will experience violence in her life, well, using the same metrics, it would be 1 in 1 men... I think that's still a quite privileged position, right? Actually, I'm pretty convinced western society would seize to exist if people actually realized how men work compared to women... that we can be/are just as valuable and vulnerable as women... society - humanity - needs men to be "those that can take it"... and all we ever needed in return was acknowledgement/respect. I'll leave it to imagination what would happen if that dynamic no longer worked... @lady Artifice: Ops, sorry, I misunderstood your position, my bad.
Sorry, I just read a united nations fact sheet and it says "On average, at least one in three women is beaten, coerced into sex or otherwise abused by an intimate partner in the course of her lifetime." Soooooooooo Id say it isnt exactly a privileged position to be honest Also 85 percent of domestic abuse victims are women, 15% are men, because its a privileged position... right???
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