Stay away from Gold if you can't handle it

My friend and I were trying to host a gold lobby last night and we kept having low apex, lvl 1-5's joing and then subsequently, we'd have to kick them. Eventually, we got sick of it and he decided to message this one guy asking as nicely as he could, why he was trying to do the hardest thing currently in the game at lvl 1. And I tell you what, the dude FLIPPED the hell out! He sent my friend a huge ranting message with every other word being f*ck, casually dropping N-bombs left an right, and it was ultimately about how top tier in ME3 he was. It wasn't even like we'd kicked the dude and that he was mad about it because, we were actually waiting to hear his response before deciding to try it with him or not. Needless to say, that guy did not do gold with us last night.