So, BW apologized for throwaway transgender stuff. Can we make them reconsider "gender pronouns" par

its has been the lore since ME1, those terms were there from the beginning and has endure 4 games. This is not one of those things Bioware changed all of a sudden recently to placate someone

Concievable, but not logical and technically incorrect. By the technical definition, asari are not female and to classify themselves as such scientifically would just be flat out incorrect. So there's no reason simple awareness of sexually reproductive species would cause them to classify themselves that way, let alone develops concepts of gender around "male" and "female," especially when every asari is capable of being both a mother and a father and have no physical characteristics to distinguish them in such a way.

Now, it is more conceivable that a concept of gender could have been imported from an alien culture. Even still, that doesn't change The reality of asari biology being asexual and it still seems unlikely that they would start arbitrarily dividing themselves that way, much less mimic the gender conventions of a species like the Salarians (whose females lay eggs and rarely leave the homeworld or colony world according to lore) or the turians (who haven't displayed a ton of gender differentiation beyond the visual, so I'm not sure why they would care enough to mimic it granted we haven't seen many). In fact the quarian and human females are pretty much the only ones that we know share physical similarity to the asari, and I gather that they are both relative newcomers.

Point being, I don't see gender identity as we think of it becoming a thing in asari society except as some sort of really fringe thing among some asari that probably live in alien dominated worlds.

Liara states it directly in ME1

He's right Liara says that in ME1.

Just chiming in.  FATHER is not a pronoun.  It is a noun.  Thus, they could say "She is the father", and still have a single pronoun that they use.

Good luck with that! Nothing - and I repeat - NOTHING in MEA makes any sense science, or economic, or social, or even lore-wise. Just roll with it and stop overthinking space-opera. You can hurt your brain

When it comes to the game itself and how it presents itself I am not usually sensitive to these kind of things and topics and I do not pick them up easily, and usually when I do pick up on something it's when the game is extremely sexist, but this time ME:A really made me feel like it was made by hardcore SJW's. I don't even remember any other game that really made me feel this way.

There are loads and loads of Asari, there's no particular reason that they'd all have the same view about the appropriate pronoun to use. Preference for a neutral pronoun seems particularly likely to be common.

It could get silly if Bioware tried to push things too far - fundamentally it should be more of a grammatical quibble than a deep question of identity - but I don't think what's in the game is a problem from a lore point of view unless you want to read in more than it actually says.

And as someone else said, there aren't any Asari about to take offence.

"Anthropocentric bag of d*cks"

A genderless race wouldn't use gender pronouns at all unless they were referring to other races. It's just another case of the lore being contradicted or even twisted for political purposes.