"No Brothels to be in DA4" as per Mark Darrah Tweet.

DA4 still hasn't been officially confirmed 

And I doubt it will be confirmed before Anthem is released

That wasn't what was being discussed. 

We want to see interesting dark and light events first hand rather than second.

The implication that Vaughn had already raped and was about to rape Shianni made killing him satisfying. We didn't need to see his dick hanging out to make it so.

The implication that a Templar was making women Tranquil to rape them, and intended to do so with Ella, made killing him satisfying. Again, we didn't need to see nudity to get this across or make his death any more satisfying. WE GOT THE POINT.

Seeing Erimund stoke Warden's need for Sacrificing their own friends-- seeing one non mage Warden try to call a halt to his death right before it happened anyway- made killing/tranquilizing Erimund satisfying.

It was too bad that I never actually saw Corypheus kill anyone except for Numbers Off Screen. Making him, at most, annoying, and not very satisfying to kill at all.

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But when it came to people becoming abominations, general war crimes, all of it was after the fact. All of it second hand, most of it through easily missed codices. End of TW2, I saw what 
happened when "the people" became angry at a minority that had overstepped their bounds. It was a massacre; I saw people I had met as NPCs staked to death, their bodies crumpled on the ground, mass piles of bodies. 

You can say City Elves don't have it "too bad" until you see what Celene did in The Masked Empire. Or the few panels of carnage in the new comic, Knight Errant.

Val Royeax was a glorified store.  Although is was Blackwalls' story Arc stage

As a mage Inquisitor, being an apostate doesn't touch you. The war never touches you. You only get the heroic stuff- the main bad guy stuff. 

Josie needs it too. Although I suppose what got it into the game was the early main plot scenes.

Aren't you a prime advocate for no sex scenes?

*watches the TW3 video*

If that was what people want, I'm glad Bioware isn't delivering that. 

To be honest, it was boring. Felt no connection or interest whatsoever and saw every bit coming. 

I’d rather have Bioware do their own take on the dark fantasy genre.

I had trouble connecting to Priscilla. To me she was a bratty character that was shoehorned to have Dandelion someone to worry about.

Well, I've played the games. Don't get me wrong they are good, they just aren't the masterpieces I see so many people claim they are in my opinion. 
As for preferring lighter over darker stories, depends on the story. There are plenty of stories that are dark that I love. The Witcher franchise just isn't one of them. That said, I don't see how only dark games are able to have engaging and gripping stories like your post seems to suggest. 

I think that what makes her boring, she's a female Dandelion without the redeeming qualities. She wasn't really necessary.