Contains Spoilers- Need emotional support from like minded individuals

This contains spoilers please be warned.

Some back story first before I get to the point of this post.

I was hoping to find some emotional support from people who may feel the same way I do about the end and questions I have.
This was my first complete play through of ME, my husband had played them when they first came out and had all the old Xbox discs, a few years ago I tried to play ME1 but I had no experience with shooter type rpg. I had only really played Final Fantasy turn based games. So I never finished the game. Husband basically had already spoiled the ending choices back then.

So fast forward to now, MELE comes out and I was excited to try again since now I had the Fallout games under my belt and was eager to play ME. I never really saw myself as a hopeless romantic or did I ever classify myself as a dedicated role player, however husband disagreed.

I spent the majority of ME3 bawling...yup.. I had finished ME1 left Kaiden behind because I didn't know you could turn him down as a love interest. In ME2 I chose Garrus. I had always liked Garrus and Wrex when I had played years before and then again in ME1 I realized I already had a connection to them so I picked Garrus.

I had no idea how sweet and endearing he was written for the love interest. I knew he was written to be your most trusted right hand man and maybe adviser later in the games, and I knew you could basically mold him to be paragon or renegade. All great examples of the fabulous writing in these games. What I didn't expect is the emotional attachment I would have to all these characters. 

I cried for Thane, I sobbed for Legion since I chose to broker peace with Quarians. And through all those tears I managed to get to the ending I felt was right for me. I was always going with destroy, even after countless arguments with my husband who is a strict Synthesis ending person. Even after I explained why I felt my choice was right for me he still didn't understand, hence why I am here looking for others who I can chat with who may actually understand.

THE POINT OF POST IS HERE lol
Reason I am so upset is Garrus didn't get his happy ending that he so desperately wanted and asked for. He practically begs Shep to come back to him. He loves Shepard unconditionally, and that gets me even more. He doesn't care that you are human and he is Turian, he finds peace in Shepards arms and that one thing that goes right....
In my end I had over 8200 war assets so my Shepard took her breath at the end and Garrus is shown not placing name on board....makes it even worse.. 

Here are my questions that no one may be able to answer:
Where in the galaxy did the Normandy land?
How long will it even take to get her back to earth without the relays?
Tali better not move in on my bird... not a question I know..
How the heck is my Shepard gonna be ok? She is in a pile of rubble on a destroyed Citadel, no food no water and who knows what kind of injuries.
Are there still communications? Must be since the crew knows Anderson died. 

I have been reading a lot of posts about what people are saying about the next game and if they will play it and so on.. I think for me as long as they allow us to input our choices at the beginning to give us a happy kind of closure ie: Garrus and Shepard sitting on the beach together or what ever for me. I wouldn't mind not having the old crew in the next game. It would still be sad to me that all my friends are gone except Liara I guess...

In closing if there are any people here who wouldn't mind making a new nerdy friend or even some words of advise or encouragement, I would love to hear from you, even if you didn't romance Garrus, even if you didn't pick destroy (which I would gladly chat with anyone who wants to hear why I didn't pick Synth like hubby) please talk to me and thank you for taking time to read this,
Bayni