Who is more annoying?

I don't mind Kelly, but I'd throw Samantha out the airlock, retrieve her frozen, internally boiled corpse, from the vacuum of space, and airlock it again.

Wat, Kelly is bae. And I don't even usually date girls, but Kelly got  to me lol. And also, most of my friends happen to be carpet munchers xD. Traynor was a sweetheart too.

You didn't know that until ME3 so your Shepard must be a mind reader. Kelly was a sweetheart who was, like almost everyone on the SR2 including EDI, fooled into thinking they were part of a organization that only wanted the best for everyone. Garrus and Tali weren't stupid. I don't think Mordin was, either, because he knew it was desperation for Cerberus to reach out to him. Jack was too angry to see anything worthwhile. The rest were pretty much sheep that were herded along, particularly Miranda and Jacob. Yes, even Grunt, because he didn't even question why Shepard would be with Cerberus. Even Samara, who took an oath and shoved aside her good sense. Sheep. So if Kelly was a sheep fooled by Cerberus, so was practically everyone else. And I don't care what Chakwas or Joker say, they were recruited before Shepard woke up, or was even expected to wake up. Sheep.

Traynor wasn't a sheep. She didn't intend to be on the SR2 but there she was and didn't flinch for a second. Vega flinched. A/K flinched. Not Tali, not Garrus not, God help us, not Liara. But Traynor? She didn't flinch.

For me it's the other way around. Where's Javik when you need him?

The thing is I actually like Samantha. Can't we send Diana Allers instead?

Maybe Samantha is willing to take one for the team this once.

Really? I didn't know that. I took her onboard once but never after that. Well, can't save everybody...

I like both of them and don't find them annoying.  My Shepard has a soft spot for Kelly, because she kept his fish alive for six months while he was incarcerated, and it's a pain remembering to feed the fish after every quest.

If only Kelly reminded you to feed your fish. Edit: The fish are part of positive mental health so Shep really did need the reminder.

Out of all our shipmates, she is the only one who knows how important Shepard’s pets are to them so cares for them. Meanwhile when Shepard is stressing about the clone possibly killing their pets, none of the squad say anything.

Exactly after all the fighting and violence in their life, it's therapeutic making sure to always feed the fish.  It's the one thing in their chaotic life they can control.

Well she didn't know we had afishtank in ther til we invite he rfor dinner to be fair. It's also likely she recogmnises that that's Shepard's space so never went in there.