Small Details that Enhance the Romance

God yes! I feel like such a stalker following everyone around and making all the advances. I get that with some characters due to their personality it's a given but come oooon. I wanna be flirted with! It's a two way street, stop making me feel like they agree so I'll shut up. 

Now I can imagine this happening as you talk to a squad mate:
"So you and <insert> huh?"
"How do you know about that?"
"You talk to each other all the time. I see him/her dressing fancy, entering your bedroom with a bottle of wine, and he/she stays there for hours. I'm pretty sure everyone on this ship knows."

"We even recorded the entire thing".

I wouldn't be surprised if this happened.

To intertwine two ideas, I'm totally with you on the NPC advancing the ball once in awhile instead of leaving it all on the player, _and_ I also agree with how annoying it is in ME1 when you can't get Ashley and Kaiden to back off without being super rude.  There should be a few characters who initiate  and some polite dialog to graciously decline.

Just to keep agreeing with people cuz apparently that's my thing tonight, I also really appreciate the reactivity that you see more often in DA series.  It seems weird when you are on this small confined ship for a long extended time hanging out with the same people all the time, and you are _Clearly_ in a relationship with one of them but nobody ever says anything about it.  That's the most oddly professional workplace (that is otherwise often not at all professional, mind you) that I've ever seen.  I think the things that make each character and each relationship unique are great, but if I were forced to choose, I'd almost rather go with the reactivity from others.  Then you don't feel like your relationship is some super-secret thing or exists only in a tiny bubble in the LI's quarters during downtime. 

I'd enjoy something like in Leviathan, where your partner gets all nervous when you get in the mech to go underwater and talk about how scared you made them after you resurface. I always thought that was really cute.

Your LI must have been a squadmate. Mine was Miranda and I don't remember having any contact with her during that DLC...