I fail to see how this game is "sjw propoganda"

It's the internet, it's best described as a madhouse.

there's a quick answear to that:

If a said species doesnt have a male or female categories, a male or female of other species wouldn't be subject to the term of "homosexual" or whatever if engaged in a relationship with a member of said species.

TL:TR

Agreed.  Never heard the term "regressive left" but I looked it up.  Describes a bunch of people I've encountered.  I see no signs of that sort of thing in regard to the making of BioWare games.

Even Hainly Abrams - sure, that whole scenario could have been done better, but I'm not quite sure how without having her a fully fleshed out character - something not often true of NPCs.  She did what every NPC you encounter does, which is unload a bunch of generally useless information to give you a little information about them.  BioWare was doing their best here.  Didn't come of well but they were clearly well-meaning. 

I hate the term SJW and to me its just being a human being. Most people that exhibit no empathy suddenly change their tune when something happens to them. Its the height of hypocrisy. Just to put things in context I am non-American but if I did live there I would be a visible minority. I support people's right to use the bathroom they identify with, but am against gender neutral bathrooms (when I am taking a dump I don't need to worry that that woman I had been chatting up might pop in and listen)

That being said, there are a number of issues in the game that I did feel were deliberate:
1. Making it difficult to create an attractive female avatar: I think the default Sara was deliberate but that the character creation tool was just incomplete or rushed. I do enjoy playing with attractive female characters but what people shared on nexusmods and masseffectarchives was more than adequate

2. Offering more bi-male romances than bi-fem romances: I feel this was deliberate but I don't see how its an SJW agenda

3. Asari are now gender neutral instead of an all female race: This was very deliberate and a retcon from the OT. Its pretty clear its a commentary on the current political culture in the US. But you had to hang out in the cultural center to hear about that, so they did not really force that narrative on people. I never noticed it until the 3rd playthrough.

4.AI has no weapons, no military force to speak of: This was deliberate, as was the game's avoidance of colonial themes. The Roekar storyline had so much unused potential in that regard. Remember how Evfra repeatedly avoids engaging the Roekar 'unless he really has to' as Jaal put it? I wish I could say that this was just an incomplete story but honestly it did feel like they were going out of their way to avoid colonial themes.

5.Making Jaal bi: This was deliberate, but clearly fan pandering as opposed to SJW. One of the things I hate about the ME team in Bioware is that they pander to fans on trivial issues (Tali as a romance option, Tali as an ME3 squaddie...etc) but not on issues that matter (you know that one thing in the OT they got totally wrong and accused us of being spoiled brats). What offended me is that instead of writing in the patch notes that this was a fan request they made it seem like Jaal was always supposed to be like this.

6. Just an overwhelming amount of platitudes and what I can best describe as 'naive bs': I don't know if this is poor writing but I suspect its deliberate. I don't know how to describe it except that it felt it belonged in an HRC speech: "We're better together" or something like that in every policy discussion with the Angara. Ryder asks SAM on Eos who is the point of contact for all the issues and instead of saying Bradley or Abrams he says "You're people Ryder...<insert platitude about how they have settled in and are overcoming obstacles>". These are so numerous its hard to remember a specific quote that stands out.

7. Instead of being an actual pathfinder you arrive 14 months after the Nexus: Deliberate laziness so that instead of having to write a real plot about exploration and first contact you arrive to a cluster that is "already populated with mass effect tropes" (written in another thread).

PS> No offence to Tali-mancers but while she is legal I think she way way too young for Shep - She was a teen in the events of ME1.. I always thought of her as a younger sis and its hard for me not cringe at the romance scenes

To this day I still wonder why they didn't do this in an earlier patch. But seeing the amount of hassle the Twitter page kept getting for months on end, they probably did the retcon to get some peace and quiet from the spammers. Probably explains why they aren't answering anyone about DLC or anything else. 

Having just looked this up, too, I have no idea what making Jaal bi or w/e has to do with pandering to radical Islamists. ???? I don't quite agree that this is some "big concern" but wtf does MEA have to do with this concept.

The thing I don't like about Tali's romance is that it basically undermines the severity of the quarians' situation. Acclimating to any new world, according to Tali, would take many years, yet in just a few months she can have physical relations with a human and be OK. 

I'm agreeing with him by sharing his confusion over the blaming of MEA failures on some "regressive left" boogeyman, if that isn't clear.

Ah, gotcha. My mistake, and apologies.

No worries, it's the internet, not always easy to read tone (etc)

I've seen the term thrown around so much that I've become convinced that "SJWs" don't actually exist and are just the latest boogeyman a certain breed of trogs throw out either so they can look like the victimized party when they see women and minorities being treated in a positive manner, as seen with both Inquisition and Andromeda, or just so they can shut down any criticism directed towards them. I've never seen the term used in the "correct" manner.