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Post by razrblck ☯ on Oct 10, 2016 9:18:33 GMT
Be honest, don't try to appear as someone you are not.
Women that like who you are will stay and hear you out even if you stumble on your words. The ones who will leave weren't meant for you anyway.
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Post by Gaston on Oct 10, 2016 9:29:41 GMT
Be honest, don't try to appear as someone you are not. Women that like who you are will stay and hear you out even if you stumble on your words. The ones who will leave weren't meant for you anyway. Sorry, but that just simply isn't true. I agree that you shouldn't try to appear as someone you are not, but that doesn't mean the way you present yourself isn't vitally important. How well you're able to present yourself will greatly influence how many women will respond positively to your approaches. I'm not telling anyone to fake it or be someone they're not. I'm telling people to be the best version of themselves they can possibly be, to really sell themselves like a car salesman sells a car, if you know what I mean?
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Post by razrblck ☯ on Oct 10, 2016 10:22:06 GMT
If you are trying to attract women just because you need to have sex and don't care about anything else, you can lie your ass off to the hotel room (or even better, pay an escort so you can choose what you want).
If you want a meaningful relationship that can last your life, be honest.
What you are saying is not an issue of being honest, but an issue of who you are. Of course if you are not a good person, act like a spoiled brat or an asshole, no one would want to be with you. Such issues are your own to solve, but if you are a decent human being you will not have problems finding a partner that actually cares about you.
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Post by Giant Ambush Beetle on Oct 10, 2016 11:55:35 GMT
To be serious for a moment, I do not have any pickup lines. All I do is have a relaxed conversation entirely depending on the circumstances and situation - and find something to talk about that interests us both. Life can be so simple. Also I'd rather spend the night alone then to start to lie about myself to make me appear more interesting. Thats so pathetic, I would't like myself anymore if I gave up my dignity just to bang. Not worth it for me. But better not listen to my words, I'm a lonely fuck who is terribly inept with the opposite sex.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 10, 2016 16:10:50 GMT
*sigh* If only it was that simple. I've always been on the outside looking in, and my interests are no exception. Computer repair and maintenance, building computer networks, realistic sci-fi novels, D&D, and Magic the Gathering. Really don't like most fantasy either, as I don't like the whole royalty idea. Seems like most women I come into contact with are interested in riding horses, getting rescued by knights in reflective armor. And my thoughts go right to the peasants of that world. The little people, who live with mud on the floor of their houses, fighting off starvation and disease, and all the while bowing and scraping to the guy on the horse, because he has a title. See, I know there has to be girls out there who you could talk to, my oldest daughter played D&D, she built my grand daughter's computer (she also repaired the flatscreen a couple of years ago after googling the issue, and sending away for the part) and have you ever read The Chronicles of Pern? (Dragonflight, Dragonquest, The White Dragon, etc)...I don't know if you would consider that series 'realistic', but for a series that was first published in the late 60's, it is an entertaining read. And maybe you're just coming into contact with the wrong women...ew.
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Post by KingTony on Oct 10, 2016 17:09:49 GMT
"Ey gurl, wanna fuk?" Is my go-to.
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Post by FraQ on Oct 10, 2016 17:42:56 GMT
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Post by OneWomanArmy on Oct 10, 2016 17:50:52 GMT
See that's the thing, most guys don't realize that a lot of women these days prefer the honest and decent sort of guys. It really doesn't matter what you talk about as long as you speak from the heart and you're honest. Women don't like the asshole types as much as you guys think we do. If we end up with such a guy it's only because the guy acted like a nice guy in the beginning and lied to us, not because we chose him that way.
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Post by Serza on Oct 10, 2016 18:34:15 GMT
To be serious for a moment, I do not have any pickup lines. All I do is have a relaxed conversation entirely depending on the circumstances and situation - and find something to talk about that interests us both. Life can be so simple. Also I'd rather spend the night alone then to start to lie about myself to make me appear more interesting. Thats so pathetic, I would't like myself anymore if I gave up my dignity just to bang. Not worth it for me. But better not listen to my words, I'm a lonely fuck who is terribly inept with the opposite sex. That's what I tried. Now that I consider, maybe a pickup line wouldn't be bad. "Hey, babe, wanna see how I operate?" ... *thinks, long and hard* Hmm, maybe not. "Ey gurl, wanna fuk?" Is my go-to. We got ourselves a smooth one! See that's the thing, most guys don't realize that a lot of women these days prefer the honest and decent sort of guys. It really doesn't matter what you talk about as long as you speak from the heart and you're honest. Women don't like the asshole types as much as you guys think we do. If we end up with such a guy it's only because the guy acted like a nice guy in the beginning and lied to us, not because we chose him that way. Thanks... No, seriously.
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Post by DomeWing333 on Oct 10, 2016 19:07:29 GMT
That's what I tried. Now that I consider, maybe a pickup line wouldn't be bad. "Hey, babe, wanna see how I operate?" ... *thinks, long and hard* Hmm, maybe not. That line only works if you're a surgeon.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 10, 2016 19:11:53 GMT
Or maybe a Proctologist? [ouch]
Or maybe a Gynecologist? [predictable, pedestrian]
Or maybe a Urologist? [eww] Or maybe a Veterinarian? [wtf?]
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Post by Deleted on Oct 10, 2016 19:12:40 GMT
See that's the thing, most guys don't realize that a lot of women these days prefer the honest and decent sort of guys. It really doesn't matter what you talk about as long as you speak from the heart and you're honest. Women don't like the asshole types as much as you guys think we do. If we end up with such a guy it's only because the guy acted like a nice guy in the beginning and lied to us, not because we chose him that way. Most guys don't understand, well because this picture will put into words what I can not.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 10, 2016 19:30:02 GMT
... *thinks, long and hard* Goddamnit Serza! There's only one response to that, and you're gonna make me do it.
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Post by Serza on Oct 10, 2016 19:38:24 GMT
That's what I tried. Now that I consider, maybe a pickup line wouldn't be bad. "Hey, babe, wanna see how I operate?" ... *thinks, long and hard* Hmm, maybe not. That line only works if you're a surgeon.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 10, 2016 19:52:42 GMT
How bout: "You are the most awkward, humble, unobtrusive, unpretentious dork in this establishment...let's get a room."
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Post by mousestalker on Oct 10, 2016 20:18:30 GMT
"Hey babe, wanna go fishin' from the back of my F-150? I have plenty of fireline."
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Post by Gaston on Oct 10, 2016 20:34:24 GMT
See that's the thing, most guys don't realize that a lot of women these days prefer the honest and decent sort of guys. It really doesn't matter what you talk about as long as you speak from the heart and you're honest. Women don't like the asshole types as much as you guys think we do. If we end up with such a guy it's only because the guy acted like a nice guy in the beginning and lied to us, not because we chose him that way. My experiences proves this to not be true. In my experience a lot of women often say they want one thing but really want the other thing. I have no doubt women really want a nice, reliable guy, but somehow for some reason almost all women turn down guys who are following the "just be yourself" advice. Especially insecure and introvert guys will simply NOT get laid by "just being yourself", unless they are exceptionally handsome, they just don't. So in order to get a woman, nice introvert guys have to convey a persona that above all else establishes confidence and a sense of humor. Basically, to sum it all up, women are attracted to men with alpha male traits. If you don't have these traits you have to develop them. If you don't know how to present these traits you're gonna have to learn how to do that. "Nice guys" truly do finish last lads, don't let any woman who isn't giving you sex convince you otherwise.
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Post by E-Ro on Oct 10, 2016 20:44:20 GMT
Not so much a pick up line, but for us bruhs already in relationships I have a line that will let you absolutely dominate every argument.
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Post by DomeWing333 on Oct 10, 2016 21:01:45 GMT
My experiences proves this to not be true. In my experience a lot of women often say they want one thing but really want the other thing. I have no doubt women really want a nice, reliable guy, but somehow for some reason almost all women turn down guys who are following the "just be yourself" advice. Especially insecure and introvert guys will simply NOT get laid by "just being yourself", unless they are exceptionally handsome, they just don't. So in order to get a woman, nice introvert guys have to convey a persona that above all else establishes confidence and a sense of humor. Basically, to sum it all up, women are attracted to men with alpha male traits. If you don't have these traits you have to develop them. If you don't know how to present these traits you're gonna have to learn how to do that. "Nice guys" truly do finish last lads, don't let any woman who isn't giving you sex convince you otherwise. I think it has less to do with having a nice/bad attitude and more to do with the ability to get a person's attention. Introvertive personalities have a tendency to lay low and blend in with the crowd. People with more assertive personalities are better at drawing attention to themselves, which leads to a connection, which leads to...other kinds of connections.
Also, being a nice, introvertive guy and having "a persona that above all else establishes confidence and a sense of humor" are not mutually exclusive. Nor do alpha male traits necessarily overlap with that (I mean it often does, but being too alpha male can also betray a sense of insecurity and bluster).
So, I don't think you need to be an alpha male in order to get someone's attention, you just have to be surprising. A breath of fresh air. In fact, for a woman who's regularly around alpha male-types, someone who's specifically not might fare better.
This is all observation and speculation on my part though.
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Post by Gaston on Oct 10, 2016 21:11:37 GMT
Not so much a pick up line, but for us bruhs already in relationships I have a line that will let you absolutely dominate every argument. That works for a while but after the 6 month or 1 year mark that line will get women with options to cheat on you. I speak from experience there. What I usually do with arguments is agree and amplify. For example: Her: "Ero, I really wish you would stop talking to other women!" You: "I get it babe, I'm so attractive that any woman I talk to automatically wants to sleep with me, right? In fact just looking at them already gets them wet. I totally get it. So here is an idea: why don't you just lock me up and only let me out on a leesh with a ballgag and blindfold on. Would that make you happy?"
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Post by Gaston on Oct 10, 2016 21:26:47 GMT
Man, I wish a girl would hit on me. If I'm ever out, I'm usually off in the corner, or on the least populated side of the room. I'm never sure what to say to someone I'm interested in. And simply introducing yourself isn't as helpful as you'd think it is. Because what do you say after that? And then what do you say after that last statement? And then what do I say after that? My mind just blanks. Ask her if she would like to get a cup of coffee, tea, drink or whatever with you.
If she is from work try to get a collegue to help you out, go out as a group to lunch, nothing special Chick -fil-A, McD's and sit next to her.
Talk about books, movies, games, computers, work, doesn't really matter just talk about something.
Believe me there are a lot girls that are also on the sidelines that can't ask a guy out either and go just as blank.
Don't wait- give it a shot- you'll find her!
Totally true, especially the part about her also being on the sidelines. Think of it this way: So many guys are just too affraid to ask women out. Simply walking up to her and asking her out already puts you above all those other men! I would say though that just talking about common interests is not enough to get a woman to like you as more than just a friend. At one point you're gonna have to convey your value as a man to her, make er feel like you're a good catch. This is easier than it sounds though. Just think of a few positive traits about yourself and think about how you can show her those traits. Sometimes just telling her about it is enough, but being more creative with this is definitely gonna score you bonus points.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 10, 2016 21:40:51 GMT
Not so much a pick up line, but for us bruhs already in relationships I have a line that will let you absolutely dominate every argument. That works for a while but after the 6 month or 1 year mark that line will get women with options to cheat on you. I speak from experience there. What I usually do with arguments is agree and amplify. For example: Her: "Ero, I really wish you would stop talking to other women!" You: "I get it babe, I'm so attractive that any woman I talk to automatically wants to sleep with me, right? In fact just looking at them already gets them wet. I totally get it. So here is an idea: why don't you just lock me up and only let me out on a leesh with a ballgag and blindfold on. Would that make you happy?" And then she responds, "YES! Yes it WOULD make me feel better. let's go to the sex shop and get you fitted up with your new gear! I'm so happy you see things my way! And to think, it was all your suggestion!" And that's the point where YOU have to back down.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 10, 2016 21:57:59 GMT
See that's the thing, most guys don't realize that a lot of women these days prefer the honest and decent sort of guys. It really doesn't matter what you talk about as long as you speak from the heart and you're honest. Women don't like the asshole types as much as you guys think we do. If we end up with such a guy it's only because the guy acted like a nice guy in the beginning and lied to us, not because we chose him that way. My experiences proves this to not be true. In my experience a lot of women often say they want one thing but really want the other thing. I have no doubt women really want a nice, reliable guy, but somehow for some reason almost all women turn down guys who are following the "just be yourself" advice. Especially insecure and introvert guys will simply NOT get laid by "just being yourself", unless they are exceptionally handsome, they just don't. So in order to get a woman, nice introvert guys have to convey a persona that above all else establishes confidence and a sense of humor. Basically, to sum it all up, women are attracted to men with alpha male traits. If you don't have these traits you have to develop them. If you don't know how to present these traits you're gonna have to learn how to do that. "Nice guys" truly do finish last lads, don't let any woman who isn't giving you sex convince you otherwise. Yeah, when they're dating someone who is equally insecure and introverted! What you have are two people waiting for the other to make the first move. It really gets to be a sad situation. Ever try including the topic of sex as part of the conversation when getting to know the other person? ...mind you it probably would be better if that topic comes up after the 3rd date or so....
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Post by DomeWing333 on Oct 10, 2016 22:18:05 GMT
Yeah, when they're dating someone who is equally insecure and introverted! What you have are two people waiting for the other to make the first move. It really gets to be a sad situation. Ever try including the topic of sex as part of the conversation when getting to know the other person? ...mind you it probably would be better if that topic comes up after the 3rd date or so.... This is where having a good sense of humor can help out.
*during a break in a completely mundane conversation*
"So speaking of sex..."
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