*Romance distribution spoilers* Make your voice heard about the lack of romance options, sex scenes,

I think we should message as many as possible to raise our chances of having it picked up. Whatever we do, we should make sure not to come across as crazed fans but explain the issue to them as matter-of-factly as possible, then maybe add a paragraph explaining why this is a big deal to us, how we feel about it, etc. (but try not to mix the facts with the feelings too much). I don't have any experience doing this, either, though, so I'm just guessing what'd be best. Also, we should probably keep track of which sites have been contacted in here and maybe also post our emails for others to read over before sending them in.

As for which specific sites to contact, I'd first focus on two different groups:
Group A: Sites which have given Andromeda a low rating and may want to back up their low opinion of it by giving it some more negative attention.
Group B: Sites which have a track record of being progressive, inclusive, LGBT+ friendly.

EDIT: It's true that there is still a tiny bit of uncertainty regarding Jaal's orientation and it would probably be a good idea to wait until we're absolutely sure about him. The problem is, if we wait too long we'll probably miss the window of opportunity where people still care and want to write about the game. If we wait too long, less people will be interested.

Honestly it's unfair to call it regressing on LGBT content especially when the L and the B actually get the most content.

Well as long as we're on the subject of not pretending, let's not pretend that straight male gamers don't constitute the vast majority of ME players.

Look I'm 100% on board the "it sucks" train, but people need to consider the context here.

That is irrelevant on the topic of the points laid out in this topic because it's a laundry list of issues not a slight nitpick.

I'm fairly certain it's created mainly with male gamers in mind.

you seem very racist and uninclusive to me sir i'm gonna have to ask you to calm down

The thing is, it's not as if the rest got quantity and we got quality. The rest got quality AND quantity. We got 2 romances that look good, neither being squadmates unlike everyone else's options.

No-one's saying they didn't make ANY effort. Just not equal effort. Otherwise they would have done things like not only have sex scenes for straight/lesbian Ryders, and would have given us at least one option on the squad, like Jaal, who has the code to be bi.

I'm getting really confused over what you think people should complain about or not? Do you think any of this is valid or not?

Where did you guys get info on fading to black etc ? Can somebody link me?

Also, I really hope Jaal is going to be bi because otherwise, embarrassing. Like, come on, bioware. It's 2017. Give gay men proper romance options.
I wonder why do they deal with it much better in Dragon Age games. I mean, not perfect, but at least Dorian and Bull had proper romance scenes and they were kinda cool as characters. Is mass effect somehow... more straight? More male-oriented?

This should definitely be discussed and it's very interesting to me :^ )

Back on the old BSN you and I had a nice little bromance for awhile before DAI came out (which incidentally is when I ditched that board due to the inane whining). You stated that you wished that more people were as reasonable as me, nothing has changed yet now I am a "troll".

That was kind of the point. 

Let's not forget that a straight person can enjoy gay male romances. Unless that is somehow inconceivable to you.

There is a difference between "can be enjoyed by" and "created for".

On the female romance thing, why do you think gay women have had more romance options than gay men in every mass effect game? That's quite a lot to be coincidental. I don't think they're solely written for straight men by any means, but I'm not sure what the explanation for them receiving more romance content than gay men consistently is.