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Post by Frhozen on Mar 24, 2017 2:58:16 GMT
Okay, you just don't get it. It's not about the number of romances, that's one teeny-tiny piece of the puzzle. It doesn't bother me that straight/bi men and gay/bi women have got more options than everyone else, what does bother me is when, not only do gay men get the least options, those options are also of overall lower quality. That's the point, that the M/M romances were given far less care and attention than other types of romances and that the gay/bi male LIs generally aren't given the same amount of importance in the story as other types of LIs. ME3 had issues of its own regarding M/M romances, but at least it had a bi male squadmate LI who was treated just like all the other LIs and didn't feel tagged-on as a character. (I'm sure some people would argue that his M/M romance did seem tagged-on but that'd mostly be based on the fact that they cut his M/M romance from the first game... at least I think it was cut? May have also never actually been intended to be in there, though, I'm not sure.) No, I understand you just fine. The problem is that I have no patience for your honestly pretty ridiculous excuses. You claim they were given less care. Why? Because they didn't hard thrusting sex scenes? I saw Cora's romance, Scott's thrusting butt sure as hell wasn't for straight guys. Because Gil didn't get as many cutscenes? Quantity is not a measure of quality: There's a reason why "Murder your darlings" is a thing in writing. Perhaps it was cut because the quality was bad. Kaidan's romance was tacked on (they recorded the lines, but never intended to put them in the game). But honestly, so were Garrus and Tali's (literally, they wrote them because they were popular in the first game) Here's my point: You're looking to be offended. That's why you're angry. Yes, I'm sure BioWare put a shot of Scott's butt into a straight softcore scene for us gay guys. Not. And yeah, there being no M/M sex scenes is a valid complaint because those scenes take time and effort to make, they certainly put a lot of time and effort into Cora's. The fact that no such scene exists for either of the game's M/M romances shows that they didn't put that kind of time and effort into them. Not to mention that both M/M LIs have got character creator faces instead of unique ones (compared to most of the straight LIs having unique faces). Seriously, just look at the comparison between Sara's scene with Reyes and Scott's scene with Reyes if you want to see an example of the qualitative difference. Also, why would I be looking to be offended? I was looking forward to the game, I really enjoyed the trial, I wanted to like the game. I'm offended because I feel like the game doesn't treat me with the same amount of respect as it does other player, not because I find this to be a fun pasttime activity. You don't think I'd rather be able to enjoy the game right now than having to fight for equal treatment?
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Post by bloodofthefirst on Mar 24, 2017 2:59:22 GMT
Lol, you got it backward, I don't give a damn about straight guys' complaining, and I didn't point it out, you're the ones bringing it up and tell that the gays are the ones looking for reasons to complain when on the contrary, the straight guys are doing the exact same things. What I'm gathering is you're projecting. You know what sum up your rant pretty well? "A bunch of people are complaining about stupid crap, but it's wrong when gay guys do it" You can't be the one who telling others that they're looking for reasons to complain but at the same time saying that the straight guys didn't do it. I don't give a damn about straight guys complaining but don't pull that crap about the double standard, because you seem to tolerate it for straight guys but when gay guys do it, it means they looks for reasons to complain. lol You're the one who brought it up. It was right in the post you quoted. You were ranting and whining about people complaining that Cora looked butch and all of the other nonsense. I get it, I really do. It's only okay when your special group does it. I'd have to be offended for your ridiculous argument to actually work, but I'm not. I think the whole argument is hilarious. Many people went into Andromeda looking to be offended because it wasn't the original trilogy. They were going to rant about this thing and that. It's just funny that this is what they picked. Like I said, I'm endlessly amused at the ranty nonsense. And the pontificating self-gratification for somehow believing themselves of more moral fiber, all because of a lousy achievement that only really hardcore players would've achieved by now, it's only been a few days since release. But rant away. Complain that the special group isn't "treated equally." But at least be honest with everything. I'm not offended, I'm entertained. lol, and you ignored that I was responding to your rant about people apparent whining about a legitimate concern. Whatever you said applied more to you than anyone, and that's the best part about you because you made my argument for me. lol I get it, I really do. It's only okay when your special group does it. I'd have to be offended for your ridiculous argument to actually work, but I'm not. I think the whole argument is hilarious. Many people went into Andromeda looking to be offended because it wasn't the original trilogy. They were going to rant about this thing and that. It's just funny that this is what they picked. Like I said, I'm endlessly amused at the ranty nonsense. And the pontificating self-gratification for somehow believing themselves of more moral fiber, all because of a lousy achievement that only really hardcore players would've achieved by now, it's only been a few days since release. But rant away. Complain that the special group isn't "treated equally." But at least be honest with everything. I'm not offended, I'm entertained. Really entertaining. nice projecting though. I'm enjoying myself. Your lack of self awareness makes whatever you said the more entertaining, especially the part about your special group, especially the part where whatever you said applied more to your special group than any group.
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Post by saga on Mar 24, 2017 3:04:40 GMT
Thinking about the MEA achievement, it actually reminds me of DAO where they had achievements for each of the romanceable characters. I remember being a teenager and forcing myself to play through the main questline as fast as possible multiple times with main characters I didn't like (having to play as a male to romance Morrigan, and as a straight female for Zevran and Allistair), and being so uncomfortable. After I got each achievement, I reloaded the game immediately and never looked at those play throughs again.
Anyways, that all is to say that this situation seems similar for gay players, and that it feels like a huge step backwards, as it is asking something of players that hasn't been seen in a Bioware game since a whole decade ago. They took a huge step backwards on this one compared to ME3, DA2 and DAI. It's completely nonsensical for this issue to arise again after they had clearly figured out solutions in so many past games.
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Post by zeowik on Mar 24, 2017 3:07:27 GMT
I'm going to shoot down that straw man and make it clear in no way do I think "straight guys" shouldn't complain. It's a disservice to the vast majority of them to try and imply those so paranoid of the SJW boogeyman that they actually thought they made female characters unattractive to them on purpose certainly don't represent most straight guys.
The points go far beyond the sex scenes so if people choose to ignore/not read them so be it. Making straw man arguments over and over again misrepresenting the reasoning behind the complaints doesn't make your argument stronger though. You can't make an argument by cherry picking a couple of the many, many factors that got people this upset cumulatively. I am very careful to say "I don't think they did this on purpose" when I give the laundry list of factors that add up to this.
Also for those of you chiming in that this doesn't even effect to give some words of support, thanks.
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Post by saga on Mar 24, 2017 3:10:47 GMT
Two points:
There is a difference between being offended (a buzzword regularly thrown at GLBT players as an accusation), and being rationally disappointed or upset. The romance distribution isn't equal, and players have every right to feel angry, disappointed, or any other permutation of emotions regarding Bioware's treatment of the issue.
Secondly, asking to be treated equally is not the same as asking to be treated specially. The only thing "special" about gay players as a group is the fact that Bioware's resource distribution has resulted in them having to play as a different sexual orientation or gender to get an achievement.
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Post by zeowik on Mar 24, 2017 3:13:15 GMT
I really think it's unfortunate the achievement gets so much focus since the cumulative points are more important in my opinion. I guess it's easier to zero in on one thing as an example than to give the laundry list every time though.
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Post by Frhozen on Mar 24, 2017 3:18:18 GMT
I really think it's unfortunate the achievement gets so much focus since the cumulative points are more important in my opinion. I guess it's easier to zero in on one thing as an example than to give the laundry list every time though. Yeah, both the focus on the achievement and the focus on "making Jaal bi" on Twitter are somewhat counterproductive IMO. The former makes it seem like the only problem is not being able to get the achievement (while that's actually a comparatively minor one), while the latter makes it seem like we're just a bunch of Jaal fanboys who're whining over not getting the specific LI they wanted.
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Post by Nightscrawl on Mar 24, 2017 3:18:42 GMT
I really think it's unfortunate the achievement gets so much focus since the cumulative points are more important in my opinion. I guess it's easier to zero in on one thing as an example than to give the laundry list every time though. The only reason I've been replying to all of those people concerning the achievement is that it just seems so absurd to me that they can't recognize that simple unfairness.
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Post by saga on Mar 24, 2017 3:21:16 GMT
I really think it's unfortunate the achievement gets so much focus since the cumulative points are more important in my opinion. I guess it's easier to zero in on one thing as an example than to give the laundry list every time though. Unfortunately, it is. Because there are so many small issues that have coalesced to create the current situation, it's really hard to articulate each one of them every time you need to make a point. It's exhausting and time-consuming, especially if you need to reiterate the same ideas multiple times to get your point across. I think the best you can do is articulate all of the issues thoroughly a couple of times, and hope that everyone keeps in mind that the achievement is only a representation of the larger issue. Save
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Post by zeowik on Mar 24, 2017 3:23:18 GMT
I really think it's unfortunate the achievement gets so much focus since the cumulative points are more important in my opinion. I guess it's easier to zero in on one thing as an example than to give the laundry list every time though. The only reason I've been replying to all of those people concerning the achievement is that it just seems so absurd to me that they can't recognize that simple unfairness. Oh I wasn't meaning to say there's anything wrong with the discussion. I just think the overall picture of everything combined is more sympathetic to people that know nothing about the situation alone. Heck even on the Jaal topic many have no idea about the teasing, etc.
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Post by chriagon on Mar 24, 2017 3:43:47 GMT
I hate to be 'that guy', but someone needs to point out that developing the scenes would take considerable resources and time, and with an (arguably) smaller percentage of the game's population participating in in a certain romance option, it doesn't make much fiscal sense to animate it all. Hell, look at Peebee's romance... there is no difference between Male and Female Ryder. Bioware was clearly struggling for time as it was and looking for places to cut corners, and while it may upset some... let's call them 'less understanding people', they made the right choice to cut them and put effort into other areas of the game that clearly needed it and still need it. You're absolutely right. But then Bioware could at least have made Liam and Jaal romances available for everyone. How much effort could that have been? Removing two lines of code and a little adapting with the romance scenes maybe. With regard to limited resources it makes little sense to restrict romances to one gender anyway.
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Post by justiceway on Mar 24, 2017 6:04:28 GMT
That was a good idea thank you!
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Post by Natashina on Mar 24, 2017 6:09:49 GMT
No problem. This thread is pretty salty and since you guys have been good about staying out of trouble, I'll consider this place the Salt Mine for this discussion. The feedback thread is temporary and I want to have it with as little salt as possible.
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Post by Vy on Mar 24, 2017 6:33:46 GMT
So, any thoughts on what Twitter hashtag would be best for linking that open letter thread once it has more replies? I appreciate the intent behind #MakeJaalBi, but IMO it really doesn't sum up the actual issue.
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Post by Natashina on Mar 24, 2017 6:49:36 GMT
I'm out of my element there. I never use it myself. Hmm, I know. Summon hashtag master dalinneCome give us a hand with this, please. We need a good twitter hashtag for the feedback thread once you're on.
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Post by Frhozen on Mar 24, 2017 6:50:38 GMT
So, any thoughts on what Twitter hashtag would be best for linking that open letter thread once it has more replies? I appreciate the intent behind #MakeJaalBi, but IMO it really doesn't sum up the actual issue. We were discussing hashtags yesterday in the Character Romance thread. I think we settled on #BangingForAll. But not many people have actually used it yet so we can do some more brainstorming if you think it's not good . EDIT: Some of the other ideas I threw around yesterday (but most of them are pretty meh IMO): #WhyNoGayliens #NewGalaxyOldProblems #NewGalaxyOldBullshit #GaysGotSidelined #NoGaysInSpace #AndromedaSoStraight #PrettyGayBanging
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Post by Vy on Mar 24, 2017 7:04:16 GMT
So, any thoughts on what Twitter hashtag would be best for linking that open letter thread once it has more replies? I appreciate the intent behind #MakeJaalBi, but IMO it really doesn't sum up the actual issue. We were discussing hashtags yesterday in the Character Romance thread. I think we settled on #BangingForAll. But not many people have actually used it yet so we can do some more brainstorming if you think it's not good . EDIT: Some of the other ideas I threw around yesterday (but most of them are pretty meh IMO): #WhyNoGayliens #NewGalaxyOldProblems #NewGalaxyOldBullshit #GaysGotSidelined #NoGaysInSpace #AndromedaSoStraight #PrettyGayBanging Hm. Whatever we do, it needs to be catchy, diplomatic, and sum up the core of the issue (that m/m romances got severely limited content compared to other orientations). I actually kinda like GaysGotSidelined in terms of it summing up our complaints pretty well, but it might also be seen by some as overly accusatory/assuming malicious intent... Aside from Dalinne, is there anyone on BSN who knows twitter well enough to provide input?
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Post by Natashina on Mar 24, 2017 7:08:41 GMT
I like #BSNGayRomanceLetter or something like that. Something that would be accurate, but fairly neutral.
#BangingForAll isn't bad. I don't think that's the best way to approach this though. That seems more humorous than anything else, and while romances aren't "super serious" we need to convey that the fans are taking this seriously.
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Post by Frhozen on Mar 24, 2017 7:12:09 GMT
Yeah, I agree. Hopefully, Dalinne or someone else has a few more ideas. I think BSNGayRomanceLetter is not quite catchy enough .
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Post by Vy on Mar 24, 2017 7:38:08 GMT
Neutrality is probably a good idea; any emotional tone could be conveyed through the tweet itself.
I should get some rest - I'm no good at this hashtagging thing anyway.
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Post by JadePrince on Mar 24, 2017 7:55:38 GMT
#BSNGayMail? #MEAGayMail #LettersFromGaySpace #GaysInSpace #AndromedaGayMail I'm not quite sure about these, but maybe they'll spark someone else's inspiration.
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Post by Natashina on Mar 24, 2017 8:38:52 GMT
I like #LettersFromGaySpace It has some humor to it and it gets the point across. It's catchy that it should work as a hashtag and certainly doesn't come off aggressive towards the ME:A team.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 24, 2017 9:07:28 GMT
I just hope switching gears won't do more harm then good. #MakeJaalBi seems to be making quite the buzz on twitter already.
The hash tag certainly should be something that is related to Mass Effect more then just space. It needs to be easy to know what is being referenced.
Also, if we really want to accomplish anything there should be some form of unified goal. If half the people are asking for bi Jaal, a fourth are asking to polish the current options (yikes), and the other fourth is asking for a new squad member-well lets just say that was the main failing of "hold the line" as we got almost nothing in the extended cut.
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Post by Natashina on Mar 24, 2017 9:20:52 GMT
I think we should avoid asking for what we want as a "fix" for the time being. To me, the focus should be on how this decision affected us, versus telling them, "This is how you should 'fix' the current issue." Offering fixes or solutions for ME:A ultimately diminishes the point we're trying to make. Telling them how the decision itself made posters feel is the important part. I'll try to encourage others to do that, but I can't do it alone. Spread the word for me. Here in a few hours I'm going to be pretty scarce this weekend. I need to spend some time with my family. I promise that I'll be around some to keep an eye on things.
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